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| 18 Jan 2013 04:54 PM |
Before we can discuss why people bully, need to have a clear understanding of what bullying is. Some consider bullying to be purposeful attempts to control another person through verbal abuse - which can be in tone of voice or in content such as teasing or threats - exclusion, or physical bullying or violence, which the victim does not want. While some ties the feature of "peer abuse" and "repeated activity" into the definition of bullying, others acknowledge single instances and age difference in their definitions of bullying. Bullying occurs in schools, workplaces, in homes, on playgrounds, in the military, and in nursing homes, for example. In the article "Uncovering the hidden causes of bullying and school violence" published in Counseling and Human Development in February, 2000, Barry K. Weinhold states that bullying is the most common type of violence in contemporary US society. Although a form of harassment, bullying is considered to be a separate category from sexual harassment.
Why Do People Bully?
There are a variety of reasons why people bully.
Cultural Causes of Bullying In a culture that is fascinated with winning, power, and violence, some experts suggest that it is unrealistic to expect that people will not be influenced to seek power through violence in their own lives. Researchers point to the World Wrestling Federation (WWF) as glorification of bullies in the name of entertainment and point out that the high rate of domestic violence means that many young people grow up expecting that violence is an acceptable way to get what one wants.
Institutional Causes If the institution at which the bullying takes place - whether the home, the school, or the workplace - does not have high standards for the way people treat each other, then bullying may be more likely and/or prevalent and have an influence on why people bully.
Social Issues The fact that one gets more social recognition for negative behaviors than for positive ones can also contribute to reasons why people bully. Situation comedies and reality television, as well as real life situations in schools, for example, show that acting out is more likely to get noticed than behaving oneself civilly and courteously. Jealousy or envy and a lack of personal and social skills to deal with such feelings can also be reasons why people bully.
Family Issues Families that are not warm and loving and in which feelings are not shared are more likely to have children who bully, either within the family home or in other locations in which the children meet others. Another home environment that is prone to producing bullies is one in which discipline and monitoring are inconsistent and/or a punitive atmosphere exists.
The Bully's Personal History Children who experience social rejection themselves are more likely to "pass it on" to others. Children who experience academic failure are also more likely to bully others.
Having Power Some research indicates that the very fact of having power may make some people wish to wield it in a noticeable way, but it is also true that people may be given power without being trained in the leadership skills that will help them wield it wisely. Either situation can contribute to why people bully others.
Provocative Victims People who are annoying and condescending to others and/or aggressive verbally, or in other ways that are not picked up by those in authority, may contribute to the dynamic that can be characterized as bullying by one individual but actually grows out of provocation by another individual.
Unreliable Reports
According to Roblox Anti Bullying "The nature and causes of bullying at work," because most reports of bullying come from a victim, in cases in which there is a provocative victim or the so-called bullying stems from a dispute between the parties or other pre-existing interpersonal conflict, outside evidence should be gathered before it is concluded that bullying has taken place.
So, why do people bully? There are many reasons. But, one thing is clear regardless of why people bully, any type of bullying needs to come to an end. |
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| 18 Jan 2013 04:55 PM |
| please dont leave hate coments i worked hard on this |
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KingXulq
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| 18 Jan 2013 04:55 PM |
hey marry
remember when you weren't here |
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Shredna
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| 18 Jan 2013 04:57 PM |
| we should work to gether to stop bullying |
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GGGGG14
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| 18 Jan 2013 04:57 PM |
marry
please
just go to lmad or somewhere else
for me |
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Fraghound
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| 18 Jan 2013 04:57 PM |
You said you were leaving. So leave.
maybe it's society |
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Shredna
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| 18 Jan 2013 04:58 PM |
| Post this on Off Topic, as it is off topic. Reported for off topic. |
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aso2
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| 18 Jan 2013 04:58 PM |
shredna thisis a big deal in the world
every one's voice should be heard! |
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| 18 Jan 2013 04:59 PM |
| please stop with the hate comments... |
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Shredna
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| 18 Jan 2013 05:01 PM |
It's off topic.
i have matches |
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Fraghound
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| 18 Jan 2013 05:01 PM |
*doesn't plese stop* be mad
maybe it's society |
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KingXulq
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| 18 Jan 2013 05:02 PM |
| WE HATE YOU GO DIE IN A HOLE |
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| 18 Jan 2013 05:02 PM |
Get out.
Your just a no lifer girl that is sad that she does not have a boyfriend so you sit here and wonder why no one likes you. |
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Shredna
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| 18 Jan 2013 05:03 PM |
its obvioulsy a shemale from canada.
i have matches |
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deboot
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| 18 Jan 2013 05:04 PM |
| Wow baby, you are so inspiring. |
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| 18 Jan 2013 05:07 PM |
thank you jamal
i hope to become a writer someday :) |
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| 18 Jan 2013 05:10 PM |
| The hole point of C&G is to bully the rival clans idiot |
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