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| 20 Sep 2012 09:07 AM |
Alright, so this is for asian parents:
Overprotective ie. Giving you a lecture about 5 times a day for 2 hours each. Overestimating ie. Expecting you to always get A+s and when you don't they beat you up qq
I know parents from different cultures differ, so I'd like to know.
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sinii
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AeLiSTaS3
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| 20 Sep 2012 09:23 AM |
sinii's trauma before 2 years
i feel sorry sinii, i feel sorry. |
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| 20 Sep 2012 11:48 AM |
LOL thats so stupid
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TheMyrco
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| 20 Sep 2012 02:09 PM |
It differs for each parent, but generally, the Dutch parents are open and give their children a lot of information and sometimes even repeat it. They do however not stuff their children with information, they do it slowly and learn rules and discipline over the years. You can do a lot, but there are rules bound to it and concequences if you disobey them - however the parents here won't QQ over you when you come (for example) home at 18:05 when you were supposed to be home at 18:00 for dinner. No really, only when it goes to far (i.e 18:10(+)). When too late or bended a rule, the parents simply attend you on it. See this as a small warning, tough if it adds up a lot, the parents will limit the boundries more.
And well..there's so much more - but this will get some of it covered. |
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| 20 Sep 2012 02:35 PM |
are dutch parents like over-expectations? like, do they expect u to be the best at everything?
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TheMyrco
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| 20 Sep 2012 02:42 PM |
| No, they accept how you are and try to help you whenever possible and desired, but only if you allow them to - unless it's a serious thing. (multiple low marks as an example). They will give you a few wake up calls first, tough. |
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TheMyrco
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| 20 Sep 2012 02:47 PM |
| As you get older, they let you on your own a lot more to explore the world more and more, but they will always support and help you. |
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| 20 Sep 2012 02:58 PM |
parenting in my country
vtQGdiZOM4w --------------- I want one of those....
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TheMyrco
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| 20 Sep 2012 03:14 PM |
Until you choke in one. ------------ Who cares lol I want one. |
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TheMyrco
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| 20 Sep 2012 03:22 PM |
| To put other children in? Noep. |
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| 20 Sep 2012 03:31 PM |
To put other children in? Noep. --------- Nop! to put activists in. |
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| 20 Sep 2012 03:31 PM |
| Lol. I see what u did dere. |
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| 20 Sep 2012 03:58 PM |
Asian parents are like Jewish parents; they're both extremely pushy and neurotic. Except the Jewish ones can make you extremely nervous and they at least care more about their child. |
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| 20 Sep 2012 08:07 PM |
| what if my parents are both men or both women or i dont have any? what do I say?? |
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| 21 Sep 2012 12:51 AM |
Arab parents when conflicted with an awkward question:
Did you pray/do your homework?
Arab parents when they realize they're wrong:
DON'T TALK BACK TO ME YOU IBN' AL KALB.
Arab parents when they realize they're right:
Ha you're just a stupid child that doesn't know anything. If I was as arrogant as you my father would have beaten me. Go do your homework.
Arab parents when giving the talk:
Here's 50$ go buy some call of battlefield 64 and ask me again when I'm on my death bed.
"Instead of a war on poverty they've got a war on drugs so the Police can bother me" - Tupac |
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| 21 Sep 2012 02:41 AM |
"Arab parents when they realize they're wrong:
DON'T TALK BACK TO ME YOU IBN' AL KALB.
Arab parents when they realize they're right:
Ha you're just a stupid child that doesn't know anything. If I was as arrogant as you my father would have beaten me. Go do your homework.
Arab parents when giving the talk:
Here's 50$ go buy some call of battlefield 64 and ask me again when I'm on my death bed."
qq.
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| 21 Sep 2012 05:47 PM |
| My parents are Asian and ey never did the things listed. Wutnao |
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| 21 Sep 2012 06:18 PM |
My parents be sure to NOT talk about politics in front of me. because I turn into a different me. Deflating every theory they throw at me. |
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| 22 Sep 2012 01:12 AM |
@Mikey
Same
But they give me the listed reaction for "arab parents when they're wrong".
"Instead of a war on poverty they've got a war on drugs so the Police can bother me" - Tupac |
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| 22 Sep 2012 06:48 AM |
@Commander
Well, when I get rid of one, they just throw another and bring the previous one up. On several occasions, they have given me a stern talk on how they are right and I know nothing about politics. |
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| 22 Sep 2012 06:50 AM |
Likewise.
I just play 99 luftballons in my head when that happens.
"Instead of a war on poverty they've got a war on drugs so the Police can bother me" - Tupac |
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| 22 Sep 2012 06:51 AM |
| Sometimes they talk about me when I'm not there. So yeah. Absolutely OK to talk about me when I'm in the room down the hall. |
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