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Re: how do i stop being socially awkward

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Boeing717 is not online. Boeing717
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14 Jul 2012 06:01 PM
im fine in my circle of friends but outside of friends im clueless
how do i fix this glaring error in my personality
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FlammusDominus is not online. FlammusDominus
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14 Jul 2012 06:03 PM
I'm not sure how to fix it but don't let your parents notice. If that happens they take you to someone and you end up getting diagnosed with Autism. trust me on that one.
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Boeing717 is not online. Boeing717
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14 Jul 2012 06:03 PM
they have known it for a while
im not diagnosed with autism
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pandasrock is not online. pandasrock
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14 Jul 2012 06:03 PM
It's as simple as talking to other people and being able to uphold a decent conversation.
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OffTopicDiscussion is not online. OffTopicDiscussion
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14 Jul 2012 06:04 PM
Oh god I'm tired of this "socially awkward" crap on the net
Stop trying to get attention dagnabit
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Brightstar9999 is not online. Brightstar9999
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14 Jul 2012 06:04 PM
dress up as a banana and punch everyone that you meet
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kickmecookies is not online. kickmecookies
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14 Jul 2012 06:05 PM
just.. talk?
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plotting is not online. plotting
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14 Jul 2012 06:05 PM
You're stuck with it for life.
Why do you even want to change.
If you are intelligent and strong enough
in your line of work people won't really
care.

That's what PR agents are for.
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Boeing717 is not online. Boeing717
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14 Jul 2012 06:05 PM
the problem is i cant start conversations
or do anything other than passively respond to what others ask me
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Hyphalax is not online. Hyphalax
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14 Jul 2012 06:06 PM
just dont talk to other people unless they talk to you first
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BLOKstormy018 is not online. BLOKstormy018
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14 Jul 2012 06:06 PM
experience

are you a cancer? (zodiac)
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FlammusDominus is not online. FlammusDominus
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14 Jul 2012 06:06 PM
@Boeing
have you ever been to someone that diagnoses people with disorders? Without doing that you don't ever know.
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Boeing717 is not online. Boeing717
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14 Jul 2012 06:06 PM
"Why do you even want to change."

because being able to apply for a job is just as important as being qualified for it
and i cant apply if i cant talk to people
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UberGiantBuilder is not online. UberGiantBuilder
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14 Jul 2012 06:07 PM
Heres what i do.Eavesdrop if you see a person who likes something you do.Talk to them about it. + 1 friend.
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Boeing717 is not online. Boeing717
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14 Jul 2012 06:07 PM
hyp

but what if i want to talk to people but they wont talk to me first
then how to start conversation


blok

no
and anyway astrology is fake
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14 Jul 2012 06:09 PM
"because being able to apply for a job is just as important as being qualified for it
and i cant apply if i cant talk to people"

Oh, that kind of awkward. I pictured you as a pretty confident person, anyways. Sometimes when I experience an emotionally traumatic event, I just don't care anymore and I have lots of confidence. I can speak to anyone without caring.
Maybe that's not what you had in mind, though.

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Hyphalax is not online. Hyphalax
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14 Jul 2012 06:10 PM
well

one of two things

if you don't think they'll mind then ask them whatever question of yours you have

if you do think they'll mind then you don't ask the question
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Boeing717 is not online. Boeing717
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14 Jul 2012 06:10 PM
im confident until it comes to someone i dont know well

also are you like meursault

also also i remembered calvin coolidge had the same problem i have
so im in good company i guess
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Boeing717 is not online. Boeing717
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14 Jul 2012 06:11 PM
hyphalax

but how can i tell if they will mind or not
if i knew that then i could talk to people
im not good at telling that kind of thing
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14 Jul 2012 06:12 PM
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UberGiantBuilder is not online. UberGiantBuilder
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14 Jul 2012 06:12 PM
Just go for it, have no fears, I sure dont.Although dont be like that infront of your teachers(comes from experience)
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PsychoBob is not online. PsychoBob
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14 Jul 2012 06:12 PM
"as simple as...being able to uphold a decent conversation"

I wanted to facepalm. Just a little.
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pandasrock is not online. pandasrock
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14 Jul 2012 06:12 PM
@Boeing
It's difficult for people who do not have/or have a social problem to give advice, as they know not what to do. For people who have no social problems, they do not find the difficulty in talking with others and thus does not get the situation, and their answers are as simple as just talk to others with similar interests. For people that have social problems, they do not know what to do to cross the difficult gap that prevents them for having a normal or starting a normal conversation, so they can not give very good advice as they themselves have not been able to cross the gaps themselves.
tl;dr
Nobody can give you advice to fix your problem, only you can fix it yourself
tl;dr version of the tl;dr version
You're screwed.
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Brightstar9999 is not online. Brightstar9999
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14 Jul 2012 06:12 PM
here is some actual advice of mine : go up to someone else who is shy, never go to the really open people because if they share a lot about themselves, they'll be sure to share things about you, even deep, dark secrets. just sit down/stand next to them and say something along the lines of "hi, my name is(blablabla)". you don't even have to state your name. you can tell that you'll be good friends especially if you get into a long conversation without even knowing each other's names.

once you actually feel comfortable talking to that person, find out little details about each other, whats their favorite color, their birthday, their middle name?
i understand that it is easier on the internet because you don't know anyone and befriending someone here doesn't actually involve physically walking up to someone.
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plotting is not online. plotting
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14 Jul 2012 06:13 PM
"also also i remembered calvin coolidge had the same problem i have
so im in good company i guess"

Many people are socially awkward. You'll often find that people who are looked up to had an obstacle to overcome in their life. Since they had strong will and determination they overshot and landed all the way in the stars.

Sorry, that sounded really cheesy.
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