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| 08 Jun 2017 08:24 AM |
Hey guys, some of you might remember me from the thread where I was being hit up by a girl I didn't like. I took the advice of some of you guys and there was a happy ending to that, thank you. Anyways, sometimes it just clears my mind to write these things down and post them on OT to ask for advice. If you really just don't care, then fine. If you want to give advice then great. This is honestly sorta for me.
This post has a more positive note, by the way.
Starting at the beginning of last school year, I quickly started having a huge crush on a girl (let's call her Amy). The year before I didn't know her that well nor was I very attracted to her; still, I saw her in one period because she was friends with one of my friends. For whatever reason, I had a crush on her and I still don't know exactly when or why it started; I just know it was at SOME point near the beginning of this last school year.
Amy and I only shared two classes, but we were put sitting together pretty much all the time. I still don't know what she thought of me in the beginning, but she was most definitely a friend; we talked and laughed a lot but that was about it. Those two periods were back to back and I still remember, every day I would get butterflies coming off the bus just to see her for two hours. By the end of the year, it was well-established that we were good friends but only between me, her, and her #### ###### (with whom I also talked a lot). I got her SC and her number and we talked every so often. We had a LOT in common. By the last week of school we talked even more. Finally, on the last day of school, something happened. After school was officially over, we just started talking pretty much nonstop on SC. I don't know why or how it happened, it just did. Soon, we were sending good morning and good night snaps every day (with hearts!), continuing to this day. I told her that I'm open to hang out whenever and she said she'd love to if I ever want to. I am certain that by this point she knows I have some sort of crush on her because I haven't made it a secret; we've both hinted at it. We will both be juniors when summer ends and a LOT has changed between us (for the better!) in the last two weeks. I'm excited to see what the rest of the summer will hold. I am very comfortable with her and vice versa. Even after all this time, I get giddy when I get a snap from her and the feeling hasn't left me.
What's next? I would ask to hang out but I wouldn't want to make things awkward by not knowing what to do. Thanks for reading B) |
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| 08 Jun 2017 08:27 AM |
| I aint going to read this pls no |
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Lennox8
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| 08 Jun 2017 08:29 AM |
| Best you shouldn't ask OT For Love help |
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| 08 Jun 2017 08:30 AM |
you post a wall of text and dont even bother to post a tldr version you disgust me op |
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| 08 Jun 2017 08:30 AM |
@verm i dont want to tldr \_(:L)_/ |
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| 08 Jun 2017 08:34 AM |
| Well, then.. don't get your hopes up cause I think she sees you as a gay friend. I THINK. Is she popular? Is she neutral? Or is she a no one? |
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| 08 Jun 2017 11:17 AM |
@Carper
She is very popular among her friends but otherwise she's not like UBER popular, no. I am absolutely certain she doesn't see me as a gay friend, we've both talked about past SO's. |
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| 08 Jun 2017 11:18 AM |
MILITARY OUR GOD HAS RETURNED TO US FREE SOUFFLE A LA VANILLES FOR EVERYONE
Love can't solve problems. But it can create them. |
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| 08 Jun 2017 11:19 AM |
You must woo her with your specialty. Bake her a souffle a la vanille ;)
Love can't solve problems. But it can create them. |
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| 08 Jun 2017 01:01 PM |
@Lego Thank you! We talk about french cooking a lot :) |
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daddytord
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| 08 Jun 2017 01:06 PM |
| I would suggest you keep talking to her over ######## if you don't feel comfortable enough to hang out in person yet. You'll get there eventually! |
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ee41
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| 08 Jun 2017 01:06 PM |
hang out with her dude
youve got a good thing goin here |
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ryen5642
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Yajirobae
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| 08 Jun 2017 01:10 PM |
| Don't be a Beta Male. Be a #### to her, chicks love that. Don't bother, like Jesus says, If she breathe, ### # ##### |
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ryen5642
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| 08 Jun 2017 01:13 PM |
2longForMetoRead it
-Ryen5642 |
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daddytord
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| 08 Jun 2017 01:16 PM |
| ###### most chicks don't care 'bout that beta male ##### #### crush seems to like him already. This is coming from an actual chick + some experience with other chicks. |
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Yajirobae
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| 08 Jun 2017 01:19 PM |
ahahahahaha
Fair enough, just a warning, just know that anyway.
Fun fact 2 : people that tell ya that being an Alpha doesn't matter would rail chad 5 times before even lookin' at ya.
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| 08 Jun 2017 01:22 PM |
i actually read all of this. And i understand xd (not)
߷ *Spins* ߷ |
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daddytord
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| 08 Jun 2017 01:22 PM |
| Boi, don't disrepeckt. I wouldn't go anywhere near a chad. |
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ryen5642
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| 09 Jun 2017 08:14 AM |
@ryen why did you reply 3 times with nothing valuable to say |
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| 09 Jun 2017 08:19 AM |
| Listen, I am around your age. If you know that she also likes you, invite her to a movie, a movie you both want to see. It won't be as awkward, afterwards, just try to be ######## and k 1 1 s her. just go for it. but be 100% sure she likes you back. C: |
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| 09 Jun 2017 08:21 AM |
Ask Soro's or TS.
print("testing") |
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