zuoy
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| 29 May 2017 12:10 PM |
so i have social anxiety and i haven't told my girl of 3 months i never want to hang around other guys with her because i'm afraid she will like them better so i just tell her i'm too tired to hang. she's starting to get mad at me.
should i tell her? do u think he would like me less or have less attraction to me ?
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| 29 May 2017 12:12 PM |
You should just tell her, if she can't accept it, she's a pretty bad person. If you both are really close, she can help you go and meet others, and support you while you do it. I say just go and tell her, better to let her know the truth rather to wait it out for as long as you think you can. |
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Gabe288
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| 29 May 2017 12:12 PM |
Something does not work well here.
How can you be weak (socially anxious in this case) and still get a significant other?
Here's the thing: She only likes you because of your looks. Looks matter in every shape and form. Search up Lookism.
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zuoy
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zuoy
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| 29 May 2017 12:13 PM |
thaks
and idk im only socially anxious around certain people
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| 29 May 2017 12:14 PM |
| idk man im not into this kinda stuff |
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| 29 May 2017 12:15 PM |
| you can have social anxiety around certain people and still interact well and be liked for personality, thats what i do know, dont listen to the "lookism" stuff op |
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| 29 May 2017 12:16 PM |
| Tell her if you think it's hurting your ############# it'll probably make sense to her if you have been making excuses. |
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Gabe288
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| 29 May 2017 12:18 PM |
@Turn
You ignore the fact that lookism is scientifically proven. There have been studies conducted on that, followed with a HALO effect:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOHdZKDldIg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFp6LY-tvxQ
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zuoy
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| 29 May 2017 12:18 PM |
one time she called me boring because she says i never do anyhting. and it made my anxiety worse
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| 29 May 2017 12:20 PM |
That's harsh.
Again, you really should just go out and tell her. You will not feel better until you just throw it out. You have 1 life, and it's better to just get the truth out than spend however long you will be with your s/o hiding it from her. If it's hurting you, don't just keep it to yourself. |
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Katz108
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| 29 May 2017 12:27 PM |
| show her your wealth on roblox |
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| 29 May 2017 12:29 PM |
tell her you have a roblox account
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