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Re: should i tell my girl i have social anxiety

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zuoy is not online. zuoy
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29 May 2017 12:10 PM
so i have social anxiety and i haven't told my girl of 3 months

i never want to hang around other guys with her because i'm afraid she will like them better
so i just tell her i'm too tired to hang.
she's starting to get mad at me.

should i tell her? do u think he would like me less or have less attraction to me ?


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scream0808 is online. scream0808
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29 May 2017 12:12 PM
You should just tell her, if she can't accept it, she's a pretty bad person.
If you both are really close, she can help you go and meet others, and support you while you do it.
I say just go and tell her, better to let her know the truth rather to wait it out for as long as you think you can.
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Gabe288 is not online. Gabe288
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29 May 2017 12:12 PM
Something does not work well here.

How can you be weak (socially anxious in this case) and still get a significant other?

Here's the thing: She only likes you because of your looks. Looks matter in every shape and form. Search up Lookism.


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zuoy is not online. zuoy
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29 May 2017 12:12 PM
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zuoy is not online. zuoy
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29 May 2017 12:13 PM
thaks

and idk im only socially anxious around certain people




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turnsphere is not online. turnsphere
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29 May 2017 12:14 PM
idk man im not into this kinda stuff
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turnsphere is not online. turnsphere
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29 May 2017 12:15 PM
you can have social anxiety around certain people and still interact well and be liked for personality, thats what i do know, dont listen to the "lookism" stuff op
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StraitOuttaBoston is not online. StraitOuttaBoston
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29 May 2017 12:16 PM
Tell her if you think it's hurting your ############# it'll probably make sense to her if you have been making excuses.
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Gabe288 is not online. Gabe288
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29 May 2017 12:18 PM
@Turn

You ignore the fact that lookism is scientifically proven. There have been studies conducted on that, followed with a HALO effect:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iOHdZKDldIg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFp6LY-tvxQ


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zuoy is not online. zuoy
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29 May 2017 12:18 PM
one time she called me boring because she says i never do anyhting. and it made my anxiety worse


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scream0808 is online. scream0808
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29 May 2017 12:20 PM
That's harsh.

Again, you really should just go out and tell her. You will not feel better until you just throw it out. You have 1 life, and it's better to just get the truth out than spend however long you will be with your s/o hiding it from her. If it's hurting you, don't just keep it to yourself.
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playinginsand is not online. playinginsand
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29 May 2017 12:25 PM
yes
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Katz108 is online. Katz108
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29 May 2017 12:27 PM
show her your wealth on roblox
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epictinboy is not online. epictinboy
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29 May 2017 12:29 PM
tell her you have a roblox account


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peaceoutdogs12 is not online. peaceoutdogs12
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29 May 2017 12:29 PM
you should tell her
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