Kaladesh
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| 10 May 2017 07:13 PM |
the word 'actually' injects a mild patronizing mood into many intended compliments
example: "Wow, you look good today!" (vs) "Wow, you **actually** look good today!"
maybe not the most condescending strategy but it's certainly a start |
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LG87
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| 10 May 2017 07:14 PM |
| wont that make them think that they didnt look good before |
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Kaladesh
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| 10 May 2017 07:17 PM |
"won't that make..."
that's kind of the point |
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