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| 26 Feb 2017 10:34 PM |
I'm always a pretty quiet, reserved person who never really goes out of my core group of friends. I blame my mom for this.
When I was 4/5 years old, we lived on a street with a few other kids my age (or a little older). I used to go to the neighbor's house and play with their son (who was actually like 16 at the time) and we'd bounce around on their trampoline.
Other times some would come over and we'd play in this big pool we had behind our house. We liked swimming really late at night, too. We'd also run up and down the street, some of the other kids had bicycles they'd ride and I'd follow them (I didn't have a bicycle yet at this time).
But then after I turned 5, my mom sold our house and we moved into a development across the city. Everyone in that development was either an adult or elderly. There were no other kids except one, who eventually moved away 2 years after I arrived in the development. My mom's reasoning for moving into this specific development was since there were no kids running around, it would be quiet.
When I was 10, we moved away from that development into ANOTHER development, and this one was a lot nicer but still had no other kids to play with. When I was 14 we moved into my mom's friend's house, where we continue to live now. Again, no other kids live around me, and this time I live on a state route, so I can't just go up and down the road as I please.
So basically, while most kids played with the other kids in their neighborhoods visiting each other and playing around, I was always stuck in my house, just me and my mom (no siblings). I would play video games by myself, play on my computer by myself, and eventually just became kind of a shut-in.
Nowadays, I still don't even visit my friends outside of school. We talk online through Skype or something else. We play online together, not even in person. And for the foreseeable future, that's how it's gonna be. Unless my mom won the lottery and she could build a new house in a neighborhood with a lot of other kids in it, I'll just be living the same life I have been for years.
So that's why I blame my mom for how anti-social I am.
TL;DR: I used to live on a street with lots of kids who I could play with, but then my mom kept moving us to places where there were none and I eventually evolved into a partially anti-social shut-in because of it.
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:35 PM |
Dont Blame Your Mom For Your Issues You punk
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:36 PM |
its easy to blame others for your failures
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:38 PM |
Did you guys even read the post?
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:39 PM |
You guys aren't funny.
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:39 PM |
| lmao im social ## and i didnt need next door neighbors and parents forcing play dates to make friends |
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:40 PM |
My mom never forced play dates. I visited friends at-will.
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:42 PM |
"When I was 14 we moved into my mom's friend's house"
yall guys poor or something?
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:43 PM |
If you're not old enough to move out, you can't really blame your mom for moving. It's her life, her money. Move out if you don't like it.
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:43 PM |
We're not the highest income family, but we moved into my mom's friend's house because he comes home for maybe one day per month and the rent is only about $500/month for a 3 bed 1.5 bath house. Of course me and my mom think this house is still terrible and we'd rather live somewhere else but she doesn't have the money to move elsewhere nor build a house.
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:44 PM |
@Rejected
I can blame her because she should've thought about my future and what moving into a place with no kids would do.
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:44 PM |
| are you seeing a therapist or something? |
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:45 PM |
what does ur mom work at lmao
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:45 PM |
@Nonox
No but what good will that do? I can't just go visit my friends because none of them live near me, they're all totally across town.
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:47 PM |
One day when you have kids and are a single person, you'll understand. Till then, get a job and do something about your life.
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:47 PM |
My mom worked very late/early morning at Walmart until I was 5, then she lost her job and was unemployed until I was like 7, then she started working at a physical therapist place as their accountant. She quit her job when I was 12 or 13 I think, was unemployed again until recently when she and her friend started their own small roof repair business.
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:49 PM |
I'm hoping when I get a car I'll finally be able to leave the house for a while and go out and do stuff with my friends.
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| 26 Feb 2017 10:51 PM |
| lol she is all over the place with her jobs |
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| 26 Feb 2017 11:02 PM |
when i was younger i used to go over to my friend's house (but only because our parent's knew each other)
now since i'm older they're scared my friend's parents are axe murderers or something smh
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| 26 Feb 2017 11:47 PM |
| Honestly, this is no ones fault but it isn't your Mom's, because lets just say I had no choice and it would b to far to go to move, the cost, Ect. Would it still be your Mom's fault? No. It's because you can't accept your past. |
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| 27 Feb 2017 12:01 AM |
| Don't blame your mom, blame god |
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| 27 Feb 2017 12:12 AM |
| ^ "Blame God"? Why? God lets US choose what WE choose. It says in the bible! Don't believe me? Look it up. |
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| 27 Feb 2017 12:29 AM |
We didn't HAVE to move, she chose to move somewhere there wasn't anyone I could interact with.
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| 27 Feb 2017 07:29 PM |
no offense but you're being edgy @space
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