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| 23 Oct 2016 06:43 AM |
Long story and cry for help coming up be prepared :
This girl,I lov# her and she liked me a bit but nothing happened because I was negative and cold and I simply waited for her to interact with me instead of opening up to her
We've been texting all summer and until three days ago, I asked her about her classmates and she told me about a dude she met, she told me how she spends most of her time with him and how he the dude is a weirdo and that I shouldn't be worried about him, and after that she tells me something that worried me, the dude k1s35d her neck and touched her legs while they were wasting time in the park, she told him to knock it off and how it made her feel awkward,I asked her if she has any feelings for the guy, "I'm not sure", she showed me some conversation they had for some reason and she seemed very happy that the dude confessed his feelings to her an she also has hearts all over his contact name, so I guess she does some bits of feelings for him
Now a day later, I text her again and I just ask her what's up and instead of giving me long detailed answer like she used to she just answers with "fine" "yes" and "no", I make small talk, a few jokes, and all of the sudden she logs off of whapp and logs in at 23:00, when she knows we usually cut conversation off because I have to wake up for HS at 06:00
After that awkward conversation I deleted everything from my phone related to her, because I know I would try to contact her if I saw it right there in my face
Three days later, now, I find a year old SMS conver###ion we had,
A part of me wants to talk to her and keep her close and.. all that jazz A part of me wants to simply be friends, ignore half of my feelings for her A part of me wants to never speak with her again, turn the shoulder even if she reaches out to me, because I know I'm just dragging her down to my level and she doesn't deserve my ultimately selfish feelings for her
Is it even worth it ? I'm not even sure if she would look at me if she knew all my new bad habits . |
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| 23 Oct 2016 06:49 AM |
| I'm scared of her judging me and scared of me hurting her, ;_; |
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gery1111
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| 23 Oct 2016 06:51 AM |
You are asking advice on a problem with your personal life on a Forum centered around a videogame made for kids. If you want some serious advice, talk it out with your buds, they are much more able to help you sort this out than an online stranger can.
But, if you want to hear me out, in my opinion, you should let out all of your feelings to her, it's going to make your problems go off from your chest, even if she doesn't have the same feelings towards you, at least you'll feel better.
But in the end, it all come to your decision bud. |
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| 23 Oct 2016 06:54 AM |
| ############################## |
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| 23 Oct 2016 06:54 AM |
@Gery
I've done that to her so many times its redundant
They keep coming back
And I also have no friends, I alienated all of them long ago |
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gery1111
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| 23 Oct 2016 06:58 AM |
If you have done it so many times that it has become something redundant, maybe she's a bit creeped by you.
Keep a hold of yourself, let it all spaced out for a bit, and when the situations become a bit better, try talking to her again.
You don't want to be seen as a creep by someone who you have feelings for. |
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| 23 Oct 2016 06:58 AM |
| OT isn't the best place for this if you want serious advice, I'd suggest finding another forum (Reddit, etc) Your argument is invalid because you do not agree with me. |
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| 23 Oct 2016 06:58 AM |
| Shes being baited, That boy is pretty much using simple gestures to make her think she likes him. Its usually what low lives do when they know a girl is out of their leauge. |
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| 23 Oct 2016 06:58 AM |
she sounds like a right female-mongrel
You know what I mean, it was hard to bypass ok... |
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| 23 Oct 2016 06:58 AM |
I read those old SMSes
She was scared of not fitting in at high school, and I was telling her that HS would be easy and that fitting in will be no problem while saying nothing about how scared I was of it myself, I was quite the hypocrite and still am |
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:00 AM |
@Divine
I told her that the dude sounds like problems, I bet she passed it off as me being jealous
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:00 AM |
| no it's worth it feelings are weird |
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:04 AM |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-6Mjo_0ouFg , should I send her this song?
Its exactly want I want to tell to her |
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:06 AM |
| Hell no, i know the key to a girls heart is through music but im pretty sure that will just make things worse. |
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:07 AM |
I spent the last three days smoking in my room, not showering, not eating and in the same pair of pajamas
this is the first time I feel a remnant of hope, but I won't go through with it, not soon anyway
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:10 AM |
"I spent the last three days smoking in my room, not showering, not eating and in the same pair of pajamas"
You must have the most amazing life What a winner! When I grow up, I want to be a big winner just like you! |
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:12 AM |
If you want my advice, don't send her a song or sing it to her. That's creepy.
Just tell her exactly what you feel, and try not to be creepy about it. I know it sounds hard, but it isn't. Do it through text if it makes it any easier for you, but it's better face to face.
Your argument is invalid because you do not agree with me. |
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:18 AM |
@Quickster
Like I'm gonna go visit her high school
And Ill just give up on it, I bet she still never really gave much of a crap about me, while she means the world to me, the feeling isn't spread too evenly
Ill just go look for some cute chick that doesn't give a crap about me so we're more on the same level
probably a goth chick, those are the only one not turned off by dart smell |
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:19 AM |
Don't ignore me child Oooooh, your future must be so bright! I bet everyone calls you mr winner! Your sophomoric efforts amuse me. |
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:21 AM |
@xJay
sounds like a punk song |
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:34 AM |
Oh, you sound like an expert in punk songs This just keeps getting better |
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:39 AM |
@xJay
I don't know the song, I don't even know if it is
and if it is a song, share it |
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| 23 Oct 2016 07:54 AM |
I just added her to my contact list
What the hell do I say to her??
I'm to weak to ignore her, I must talk to her |
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| 23 Oct 2016 08:02 AM |
I'm just sitting here, shaking, with my phone in my hands almost waiting for her to say something first
My brain is melting, I need help, I can't handle this alone |
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