5ancu
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| 14 Jul 2016 03:36 PM |
while being an alcoholic. the medications enhance the effects of the alcohol
stupid effin idiot
said he'd make dinner for when i returned from work (10:30 PM), lying in one of our lean-back chairs (whatever they're called in english) and bubbling, with burnt lasagne (literally burnt to a crisp; pitch black) in the oven and literally no meat that isn't frozen in the house. it's not even that i can't make food myself, i'd be more than happy to, it's that he insists on doing it and then proceeds to mess it up completely because he's drunk
#when you vent to people on the forums because you don't want to tell irl friends that your dad's an alcoholic because you're not the kind of guy who wants to be felt pity for and wants to solve his problems himself
every super market is closed
well looks like i ain't getting dinner today either
...so how has your day(s)/vacation(s) been? |
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| 14 Jul 2016 03:37 PM |
| maybe you know force him to go to rehab |
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5ancu
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| 14 Jul 2016 03:39 PM |
if he can't even change for his kids when he's a single parent i don't even care
i've been managing myself ever since i was 11, so
been earning my own money since i was 11 |
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5ancu
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| 14 Jul 2016 03:40 PM |
what are the odds of roblox removing this post and banning me lmao?
like 1/2? |
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lionbaita
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| 14 Jul 2016 03:41 PM |
Well I got a nose bleed in the middle of the street while walking in the sun.
Isn't there like egg or veges or lentils ? |
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| 14 Jul 2016 03:41 PM |
I've been in this position before. I'm 17 almost 18 now.
The best thing to do is occupy yourself with friends. And as cliche as it may seem, I also occupy myself with my relationship with God |
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| 14 Jul 2016 03:43 PM |
| he cannot change on his own, he needs your help. if you cannot do that then there is no way he will be able to overcome his alcoholism |
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| 14 Jul 2016 03:44 PM |
| i dont wanna sound rude to your dad but anyone that drinks is stupid |
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5ancu
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| 14 Jul 2016 03:49 PM |
"Isn't there like egg or veges or lentils ?"
no eggs, no vegetables, let me just look up what lentils is...yeah, none of that either
only thing in the fridge is "bears", four jars of different kinds of cucumbers in vinegar, lemon juice, nothing you can really exchange for dinner
who cares, i'll go buy something myself tomorrow
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5ancu
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| 14 Jul 2016 03:52 PM |
"he cannot change on his own, he needs your help. if you cannot do that then there is no way he will be able to overcome his alcoholism"
my father was the last born son in a family of 15 siblings. several of his brothers and sisters have literally died from following effects from alcoholism.
i've stayed away from his house for breaks taking over half a year because of it. i've confronted him several times about it getting mad. he never even makes the promise to change it. his sister tells it to him repeatedly and threatens him that if he doesn't stop me and my brother will go live with his sister.
and it's not like this alcoholism started after my mother died, they were divorced before as a result of both my mother smoking and my father drinking.
if he can't change after all of this he never will. can't wait to turn 18. |
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5ancu
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| 14 Jul 2016 03:53 PM |
"i dont wanna sound rude to your dad but anyone that drinks is stupid"
depends on how often it is.
i'll just try to make sure my own kids won't have to go through the neglect i've had to go through. |
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| 14 Jul 2016 03:59 PM |
| the alcoholism is speaking for him. have you tried any medications to help with the alcohol addiction? |
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5ancu
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5ancu
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| 14 Jul 2016 04:06 PM |
he has like 3 or 4 shelves filled with medicine for the several things he suffers from.
him adding a new kind of medicine to the bunch isn't just a straight forward thing to do. |
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| 14 Jul 2016 04:07 PM |
| should you really be talking about this on c&g e-e |
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5ancu
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| 14 Jul 2016 04:08 PM |
@king,
certainly not.
but why not? |
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| 14 Jul 2016 04:10 PM |
| Most adults use alcohol as an excuse to treat their depression. |
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Thriop
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| 14 Jul 2016 04:13 PM |
My dad went through the same as you, and he made the same promise as you, to never let his kids go through what he went through.
Sorry you have to go through something like that. You should reach out to your fathers sister though, and maybe stay there for a while
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Exonical
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5ancu
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| 14 Jul 2016 04:17 PM |
"Sorry you have to go through something like that. You should reach out to your fathers sister though, and maybe stay there for a while"
Did for half a year. Nothing changed. |
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5ancu
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| 14 Jul 2016 04:17 PM |
"er din far grønlænder"
dog ikke |
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