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Re: How To Be Happy

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Z0rr0w is not online. Z0rr0w
Joined: 06 Jul 2008
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03 Jul 2016 03:08 PM
Step One: Decide to be happy.
Take a look at the world
See the blue skies and green grass unfurled
See the bright, smiling people
See the fun, happy people
You can be one of them if you want to
You just have to decide to be happy
Do you want to be happy?
Then move on to step two.

Step Two: Smile.
Even if you feel like you're faking it
Even if you're sad and not up to it
Just curl your lips up and smile
At least try to do that every once in awhile
Pretend that you're happy even though you're emotionally dead
Try not to think of all the times you couldn't stop crying on your lonely bed
Smile and be aware of the message you're sending
And maybe one day, you can stop pretending.

Step Three: Get out of the house more.
Go on, the world hasn't ended
Oh, do you have bad memories of the outside?
Don't you worry, those wounds can all be mended
But you won't be happy if you stay indoors and hide
So go on, the weather's nice today
Go on outside and do what you may.

Step Four: Find someone to connect with.
I understand it can be difficult to make friends
Nobody said being happy would be easy
But it's important to make at least one friend
Find someone who won't leave you when it gets a bit too breezy
Find someone nice, someone who could potentially care about you
Find someone who's happy, and maybe they can make you happy, too
It can be hard, it can feel impossible, I know
But this is the only way to stop feeling so low.

Step Five: Spend time with your new friend.
Find something that the two of you both like to do
If there's nothing, ask them to introduce some new hobbies to you
Talk to them whenever you spot them during the day
"Hey, how are you?" you say
"Good, you?" they reply
"I'm fine," you lie
Then you might invite them to hang out
They agree and you let out a truly happy shout.

Step Six: Confess your feelings.
They're the only friend you have, but you want them to be more
You want them to sleep beside you and tell you you're cute when you snore
You want them to hold your hand in public places
You want to see other people's jealous faces
You think the two of you could have something special
You think they could fill your heart till it's full
You think they could be happy
Don't you want to be happy?
Then tell them how you feel
Summon some courage, summon some zeal
And tell them how you feel
Approach them when they aren't busy
Then, start to open your mouth and...

Step Seven: Realize you can't do it.
They probably only like you as a friend
They probably will only ever see you as a friend
You try to open your mouth to say you love them
You feel choked up by something like phlegm
They'll never love you
You feel like nobody will ever love you
You feel like you're too ugly
You feel like your body is disgusting
Look, look there, look ahead and see
They're with someone and the two of them are hugging
Then, they get a bit closer, you see now they're kissing
They both look happy
You wish you could be happy.

Step Eight: Move on.
That's okay, that's alright
Just keep on with life, you'll find someone to make you right
Plenty of fish in the sea, you just need to keep looking
Keep looking, keep going, and keep hoping
Don't worry about your faltering wealth
Don't worry about your declining mental health
Keep going, keep going, and you'll be fine
One day you'll find someone who will lovingly tell you "you're mine."

Step Nine: Realize you can't move on.
They were the only person who ever acknowledged you
They were the only person who ever talked to you
You can't keep going
You can't keep moving
You're stuck.

Step Ten: Go home where it's safe.
Step Eleven: Slam the door and lock it.
Step Twelve: Stay away from the outside that's so unsafe.
Step Thirteen: Check for messages on the phone you forgot was in your pocket.
Step Fourteen: Ask yourself why anyone would ever text or call you.
Step Fifteen: Bid the outside world "adieu."
Step Sixteen: Lie on your bed and try not to cry.
Step Seventeen: Cry.
Step Eighteen: I can't handle this.
Step Nineteen: I want to be happy, but I can't handle this.
Step Twenty: I want to be loved, but I can't handle this.
Step Twenty-One: I don't want to die, but I don't want to live.
Step Twenty-Two: I hate myself.
Step Twenty-Three: I can't handle this.
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parsoktek is not online. parsoktek
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03 Jul 2016 03:15 PM
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TheMackOfAllTrades is not online. TheMackOfAllTrades
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03 Jul 2016 03:20 PM
I can't tell if these are just stories anymore or in-depth messages. After some review, I genuinely thought the previous story was just a story and my responses were pointless, but now this one, another one, comes. Zorrow, please get off ROBLOX and find some help if you're seriously feeling down about yourself.


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BowtiesAreCool001 is not online. BowtiesAreCool001
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03 Jul 2016 03:22 PM
Zorrow, please stop posting poems and find somebody to talk to/find help.


Ceci n'est pas une pipe.
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Z0rr0w is not online. Z0rr0w
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03 Jul 2016 03:48 PM
@Mack
They're stories with messages. I don't know if they're really in-depth.

I am not in a financial position to receive professional help. I don't have any close friends to talk to either.
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BowtiesAreCool001 is not online. BowtiesAreCool001
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03 Jul 2016 03:53 PM
Find something that distracts you/makes you happy.


Ceci n'est pas une pipe.
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TheMackOfAllTrades is not online. TheMackOfAllTrades
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03 Jul 2016 04:04 PM
Zorrow, I consider you my friend. Maybe not a close friend because truthfully we know little about each other, but I feel we should good enough to express about each other if we're not feeling alright. Not on this forum, of course, in something more private like PMs or Skype or something like that. I hate to see people like this; depression is a real thing and people treat it like a joke. I used to call people with depression out just for being attention-hogs until it actually happened to me. It can't be cured, but it can be easily treated if you have the right care. Please, if not me, let someone willing help you.


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AreYouATree456 is not online. AreYouATree456
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03 Jul 2016 04:11 PM
Idk how df did I got banned for this.

😐

I said that I do not encourage Sui.cide.
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Z0rr0w is not online. Z0rr0w
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03 Jul 2016 04:27 PM
@Mack
I appreciate it. I don't have access to Skype right now, so I can only communicate through PMs. I don't know that you'd really want to listen to a dumb kid talk about problems that are smaller than he is.
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AreYouATree456 is not online. AreYouATree456
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03 Jul 2016 04:35 PM
Anyways, here is some advice.
Do not care if you have no friends, girlfriends, or boyfriends. You do not need a romantic relationship in order to live. What you should care is about the things you like. Even if they are limited from you because you are away. Your "Feeling like a craphead" should go away later. It may remain for a very long time, but if you care about the things you like, it will go away. Most of all, look where you are set to go. Think about what you want. What you need. You do not need a relationship in order to succeed in life. You do not need to attract that beautiful girl you want, all you need is a good life. When you are older, if you look back at what you done, then you will say what you've done is worth it.
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Z0rr0w is not online. Z0rr0w
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03 Jul 2016 04:41 PM
I don't care about success, I just don't want to be alone. The entire reason I'm unhappy is because I'm alone. I'm not capable of waking up one morning and telling myself "you know, I really don't care that nobody loves or likes me, and that fact is certainly not weighing down on every fiber of my being each day I wake up and realize how insignificant my life is when I have no one of value to share it with."
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AreYouATree456 is not online. AreYouATree456
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03 Jul 2016 04:48 PM
Don't coupe yourself up and be a loner. Actually go outside and meet some people. Just say hello. That is all you need. You are feeling like after finding your first friend in a very long time, you cannot do it. Meet another person and this time, don't mess up your greeting. Don't be shy to say you want to be your friend. Do it. Meet a person, get to know what he likes and connect with what your like. Then knowing that you and the person you really want to be friends with have some connections in your preferences, if you absolutely have no momentum, your life goes to a stand still. At least you have your family to say hi to. Don't lock the door.
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LNG257 is not online. LNG257
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03 Jul 2016 05:01 PM
Wow. Parso, how do you get yourself banned so easily?
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Z0rr0w is not online. Z0rr0w
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03 Jul 2016 05:02 PM
You shouldn't tell people to solve their problems by not having problems. That isn't helpful.
"I'm dying from an incurable disease."
"Just stop dying."

"I'm crippled from the waist down."
"Just get up and walk."

"I'm lonely and shy."
"Just stop being lonely and shy."

Can you see the issue here?
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AreYouATree456 is not online. AreYouATree456
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03 Jul 2016 05:07 PM
Then you are just having no hope. Saying that "you can't do it" or denying advice will just make the inevitable come quicker.
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Z0rr0w is not online. Z0rr0w
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03 Jul 2016 05:12 PM
You're not providing me with any kind of advice. You're telling me to fix my problems by pretending they're not there. Please stop.
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AreYouATree456 is not online. AreYouATree456
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03 Jul 2016 05:13 PM
I am just saying get out the door and try to communicate. I am not saying stop doing it.
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ragneo is online. ragneo
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03 Jul 2016 07:07 PM
Oh god, that will help me so much. Thanks dude!
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PurringThunder is not online. PurringThunder
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03 Jul 2016 09:23 PM
parso, please never become a counselor or anything.
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TheRanRanRu is not online. TheRanRanRu
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03 Jul 2016 09:50 PM
Happiness is a lie and for those who think they have it, it's not permanent. Nothing is.
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PurringThunder is not online. PurringThunder
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03 Jul 2016 09:52 PM
it doesn't have to be permanent to be true, ran

although it is quite often a lie, it's not always
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TheMackOfAllTrades is not online. TheMackOfAllTrades
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03 Jul 2016 09:54 PM
Happiness is not a lie. It's an emotion, and like all emotions, it's very real. You just have to earn it.


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benzo2 is not online. benzo2
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03 Jul 2016 09:55 PM
You're better off content.
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TheRanRanRu is not online. TheRanRanRu
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03 Jul 2016 09:56 PM
It is believe me. There are some of you on the brighter side of the field who have not seen or experienced such pain and sadness, but believe me it's there and when it is you will know what I am talking about.







Step Twenty One is such a great example. The depression can really make you want to end your life but at the same time you may not want to die or you just don't have the courage to do it yourself. I currently don't have any advice, because I haven't solved it myself but Zorrow there are other people who are hanging on. You can too.
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lien587 is not online. lien587
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03 Jul 2016 09:57 PM
Good writing, Zorrow. Really pure emotion in it, it's very easy to get in the shoes of the narrator. I appreciate that you didn't hold anything back, overall very good writing and I hope to see more like this.
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