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| 23 Jun 2016 04:58 PM |
Recently (2 weeks ago) my parents caught me watching youtube (pewdiepie) on my 3DS in my bed at 11 at night.
I didn't think it was that big of a deal, but apparently it is to them.
Now a days, I wake up sad, depressed, and overall I just want to move out (I'm only 15 though...)
Once they found out, they told me I was grounded, and took all my devices away (Phone, PSP, PS vita, and 3DS)
My family is pretty religious (Christian) and I have nothing against that, but they call me "impure", "sacrilegious", "unfaithful", "a pervert", and other weird and disappointing words to me.
They used to be not THAT overprotective, but they didn't let me do simple things like go to friends houses, play GTA, and stay up all night. Which I didn't mind at the time.
I'm just going to give you a list of all the things they have "punished" me since these 2 weeks:
-They Sold my PSP, PS Vita, and 3DS (which I all bought with my own money) -I'm grounded from my Xbox (which I also bought) -I still can access my computer (since I make money off of it) but only for 1 hour per day. -They took off the door to my room -I can't invite friends over to my house -There are absolutely no screens in my room -I have to study the bible 3 hours per day -I can't work at my IT Support job alone -and a few other things
I'm 15 and cannot wait to move out of this house, I know being a kid is great since you don't have to worry about the expenses and stresses of being an adult, but if it means staying away from my parents and being my own man, I will totally do it.
As you can see, I think some of this is unfair. I don't know if I should just wait for 3 years, be a good little angle kid, and move out. I feel depressed that I can't see my friends anymore, and I'm often bored and lonely. I wake up everyday living this nightmare hoping that it all ends soon.
I'm also considering running away, I have a very close friend that will let me stay at his house over the weekdays, and I can still participate at school and church with my friends.
So I'm not sure what I should do...
Please, help?
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| 23 Jun 2016 04:59 PM |
leave if i were u, i know I couldn't put up with them
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:00 PM |
If I did actually leave, I would almost guarantee my parents would call the cops on me.
I have to research more of that, but I can't because Google is blocked... |
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:01 PM |
| Maybe it's for the best, bullcrap yes, but you'll move out eventually. |
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Leceptor
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:01 PM |
| and? tell the cops what they're doing and how you feel, you're depressed because of it |
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:01 PM |
I stopped reading after you said 3DS. Do you have Super Smash Bros. on it?
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:01 PM |
i heard if you're a 90 degrees angle kid then you get treated good
NOW GATHER, UNDER THE NAME OF TEAM ROCKET! |
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:02 PM |
| Run away from those religious zealots. |
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:02 PM |
Oh wait, never mind. I feel sorry for your life.
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Huenator
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:02 PM |
| flee away from the house and go find a better family |
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:04 PM |
this is REALLY bad go to an uncle's or aunt's
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:07 PM |
I'm pretty sure the first thing you'll do after you graduate from college is get back what you bought with your own money.
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:10 PM |
daaaammnn dude same situation
one night i did stay up to like 12 and i was just on roblox socializing and they storm in saying "alright gimme your laptop. you talkin to 40 year old pervs?" im like yooooo chillll tf?? and yeah. thought that wasnt suppose to be concerning, like its summer cmon?? why should i go to bed early lol
they dont let me leave the house at all, even if a parent of my friend is gonna supervise us if we go out.
and yeah im like 14? im kinda making money for myself too by drawing for people who loves to collect art (deviantART)
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iPhynx
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:11 PM |
C H I L D S E R V I C E S
Your parents are the most delusional beasts on this planet. |
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:11 PM |
I'll be 15 in less than a month. My parents aren't overprotective or super religious, but I still want to move out.
Why?
Because of the smallest things I don't get.
When I want to make chocolate milk, my mom won't let me use a lot of chocolate syrup. She also won't let me eat as much ice cream as I want. Bed time is 11:00 PM and I want to stay up as late as I please.
The worst thing is, I never get to eat at my favorite restaurant, McDonald's.
I know none of these seem like reasons I would want to leave, but I hate restrictions. |
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:14 PM |
2 15yos with 11pm bedtimes.
me @13, bedtime midnight on instagram until 3am uwotm8 |
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:16 PM |
lol this isnt real
op got mad because his parents caught him playing his vidya at night and grounded him. op then makes up superfluous story to vent to the only people he has any relationship with whatsoever: internet strangers |
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:16 PM |
>being a nerd you deserve it tbh fam |
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:16 PM |
| Forcing their religion down your throat seems outright rude. |
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:17 PM |
Google is blocked? Use Bing or something.
And by looking at the situation.(The sold your stuff, removed the door, grounded from almost everything) It's getting dire... If I were you, I would... Run away?
This is a really big decision. It can change your life drastically. I recommend you staying. [But IK how boring it is to have no kind of communication.] But... What will happen to your future if you ran away? Maybe you'll be living in the streets, or yet kidnapped or something. Or maybe have a normal life.
Maybe call the kids help phone or something. Maybe foster thing-a-magig or something. I don't know. They'll help you out.
I hope you're feeling well OP. |
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:19 PM |
shoot i heard how bad foster homes are
i know someone whos been through foster homes moving from house to house each week idk, that just seems more overwhelming that the current situation
otherwise i do recommend staying, your parents just want the best for you lowkey would run away though. go live at your relatives
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| 23 Jun 2016 05:19 PM |
| Confront them and say you're agnostic. They'll get so damn angry. Then, if they beat you, hit up the cops and child services. |
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