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| 08 Apr 2016 08:13 PM |
thats not including my only guy friend Julian :/
also anyone want to talk all night? |
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:15 PM |
Ever heard about that thing called the friendzone? I'm pretty sure you're neck deep in it.
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:16 PM |
Same here Generally because guys are huge a holes
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:18 PM |
should clarify i mean the question in the sense of conversing with them
like i just find it easier to talk with them
dont get me wrong i dont talk to like twenty girls at once but i just generally find it easier to talk to them |
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boby84z9
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:19 PM |
Well in all seriousness, that's just how you are you, not weird at all.
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Toxenz
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:19 PM |
| cuz 80% of guys default conversation to sports women and food, making conversation rlly boring unless you work super hard to drill a deep conversation out of them. |
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:26 PM |
idk like i can approach a girl and just be myself
like around guys im just rlly self-aware and afraid ill do something wrong
@bobzy, if anything idrc about the "friendzone" as im not tryna advance on the girls i talk too, i can be really smooth when i want to be and can just put myself in a situation to make myself smooth (not do anything to them but i could go out of my way so that i can say something smooth)
but in all seriousness i just feel like i cant trust guys that much and that they can be callous and made of stone and im like "tf ur feelings at bro"
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:27 PM |
@toxenz, i wouldnt have a problem on the topic of women if it didnt end up talking about personal experiences with women
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Toxenz
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:28 PM |
| kid I'm not trying to jump to conclusions but which team do you swing for anyway? |
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:29 PM |
im straight
i just dont like talking about my affairs and relations with women, is that a problem?
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:30 PM |
well i mean, i used to do that.
you aren't a ladies man. you just are out of touch with your own gender.
Toxic69 in a previous life. |
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:30 PM |
like with my ex (whom of which i dated for two years)
all the guys were like "omg have u smashed" "what have u done with her"
all the girls were like "omg ur cute together" "what [topic like music/films] is she into" etc.
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:31 PM |
I don't really think it matters.
Girls are naturally more accepting and socially orientated. If you get along better with girls, I don't really think it's something to be ashamed of.
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:31 PM |
you say out of touch with my own gender
but i dont mind sports, i just dont get super into it
like bands, i dont get super into bands but i still appreciate and enjoy the music
i dONt see the problem with having emotions and not being a stereotypical callous stone hearted guy
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:33 PM |
also arguments with girls are like more hurting to me than guys
like if a guy hates me its like "lol ok bye"
but if a girl hates me im like "omg wtf did i do u never hate me tf"
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:34 PM |
People can take their gender stereotypes and shove them wwwwayy up there You do you man
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Toxenz
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:35 PM |
| I'm not talking about discussing relations and affairs I'm talking about getting more social anxiety around one gender more than the other. No need to get edgy. |
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:36 PM |
i get social anxiety around people im not comfortable around (or in crowds like shopping centres)
i am comfortable around idk like 4 guys and thats it other that then no
but like i could chill with any of my female friends and not give two damns about what i do
i feel girls dont care what u do and guys judge you based upon what u do
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:38 PM |
in all seriousness.. they prob think ur gey
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Toxenz
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:38 PM |
| Frankly you're generalizing both groups off your impressions of who you've interacted with. Both demographics can be accepting or judgmental. |
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| 08 Apr 2016 08:39 PM |
Maybe ur .s will sync up!
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