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| 19 Mar 2016 08:06 PM |
I know this it RT and this should be on OT, but it's not helping w/o any replies there, so bare with me guys please
My guy recently told me he misses his ex, and wants to talk to her sometime this weekend. We've been together for 2 weeks, almost 3 now. He dated her 8 months before. And it was a recent break, so it's obvious he would miss her.
But, I honestly like him, and he said he really likes me too. He told me he misses her, at the same time he doesn't as he said he lost the feels for her, but is it worth it? It's already a red flag enough that he wants to talk to her and literally cries that he misses her. Should I just split ways?
tl;dr guy misses ex should I stay w/ him? |
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| 19 Mar 2016 08:16 PM |
No. Why are you making yourself miserable if your man is ungrounded LOL?
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| 19 Mar 2016 08:16 PM |
He sounds like a 12 year old trying to choose between candy or icecream
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toriiel
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| 19 Mar 2016 08:16 PM |
no
mmmmmmmyes bow down to ur queen mom || rt goat mom [toriiel/domox] |
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| 19 Mar 2016 08:19 PM |
| Thanks guys, yeah it's bothered me quite a bit and I feel I'll break things off once the weekend passes. |
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jjj344
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| 19 Mar 2016 08:21 PM |
You know, you should keep him. Why? Because, if you don't and the girl he wants to get back together with doesn't want to, you will be there for him. Just imagine the emotional wreck he will be if you abandon him.
Fate is controllable. You can chase it all you like but the problem is, what you're chasing is yourself because this storm is you. |
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| 19 Mar 2016 08:26 PM |
@jjj So? And if he's not? dude r u fr lmao!
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| 19 Mar 2016 08:26 PM |
jjj344, I really like your advice here. It gets me to wonder though. He was the one to break it off with her. But I honestly feel a lot for him, it just hurts to hear him say that, yet it's a little better he trusts me with how he really feels on the inside. I'll try texting him later to check in and say hey. |
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| 19 Mar 2016 08:27 PM |
@obvious noooo u wanna listen to him cuz u want ur man to be YOURS omg... love makes people stupid LOLOLOL
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| 19 Mar 2016 08:30 PM |
@blessed I really care for my guy, and it is unfair for him to say that to me. It's just, this guy I'm with he's really different than a lot of other people I've met. We make a good team, and really click. Maybe you're right, I'm just blinded by what people call 'love.' Which is why I've ended up making this thread lol |
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| 19 Mar 2016 09:45 PM |
like I'm not saying being blinded by love is bad, love is an amazing thing lol
just saying he sounds like he's a spoiled 12 year old
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