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| 05 Mar 2016 06:25 PM |
I have no idea why, but I always try to make fun of or offend my friends. I don't know why I choose to do it in the first place even though I am aware of my eventual regret. It's happened to me in real life and on other online communities.
I don't know if it has changed how others see/trust me, but I'm sure it has. No wonder no one goes to me first to say anything, even though I trust others way too much.
I am usually forgiven, but sometimes I wonder if there will be a day where that's not the case, and I'm fearing it.
Anyone feel just like me? Anyone have an idea? help...
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| 05 Mar 2016 06:26 PM |
I do too but not that much.
Use the Chat menu to talk to me. |
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Nexegyn
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| 05 Mar 2016 06:27 PM |
I do the same thing..
OP, you're so silly! |
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| 05 Mar 2016 06:28 PM |
why am I asking OT for help on such an issue...
I would ask someone else but they would usually ignore me so this is probably my best place.
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| 05 Mar 2016 06:33 PM |
I usually feel bad for what I've done, that tense feeling in my chest...
It's still not gone from this morning, agh.
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| 05 Mar 2016 06:34 PM |
It is fun watching some of their reactions though...
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| 05 Mar 2016 06:37 PM |
| levelling up the banter skill tree |
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GMonkeyX
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| 05 Mar 2016 06:50 PM |
someone is going insane
I am just a cool yellow thing, but not that yellow thing. |
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| 05 Mar 2016 06:55 PM |
cause best friends make fun of each other
idk tbh, it depends on how serious you're offending them, if you're actually hurting them, and how often you do so |
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| 05 Mar 2016 06:58 PM |
@idk tbh, it depends on how serious you're offending them, if you're actually hurting them, and how often you do so
I think it would be better for me to ask them about it, I can't see it that well from my side.
But the problem is, I'm really bad at approaching people and afraid to ask anything. I usually look at my message typed in and 6 minutes later decide not to do it because I hate being annoying.
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Aardbeien
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| 05 Mar 2016 06:59 PM |
levelling up the banter skill tree [2]
"i remember when you were the meme forumer of the day..." ~Jumble |
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| 05 Mar 2016 06:59 PM |
@levelling up the banter skill tree
???
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anajay2
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| 05 Mar 2016 07:03 PM |
sigh
maybe talking to the people I do this to would help, but I don't know how to approach them or let alone even get them to talk about it.
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| 05 Mar 2016 07:04 PM |
| it sounds like you're a sociopath |
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| 05 Mar 2016 07:05 PM |
@it sounds like you're a sociopath
I've been told this before, but the problem is that I feel emotional.
That can't be the case.
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| 05 Mar 2016 07:11 PM |
@maybe you're a bully
I was for some time...
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| 05 Mar 2016 07:11 PM |
I remember insulting ElectroMagnetic by calling him a "ginger girl" and spamming it over and over, and we stopped being friends.
And then after some time, I tried to get to be friends with him again and we got back to being friends. |
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| 05 Mar 2016 07:12 PM |
@And then after some time, I tried to get to be friends with him again and we got back to being friends.
Yeah, most of my close friends used to be enemies at one point.
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| 05 Mar 2016 10:17 PM |
Not to be offensive but some people are not as good with social cues / interactions with others. It's a natural "disorder" (not really a disorder but there's not a better word I can think of).
Sometimes wording can be an issue, too. Make sure you choose your words carefully. Think about how your words may sound like they imply something or present an idea other than the one you want to convey.
Since you seem to be saying that you accidentally make fun of people, I think your issue is the second (wording). Just think before you speak (I'm not saying you don't already do this, but try thinking about what your words convey rather than just if they are offensive individually or not)
Generally I think you're a pretty nice person.
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