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Re: I can't stand people that misgender people

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Nepeta1324 is not online. Nepeta1324
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26 Jan 2016 05:43 PM
It's so annoying and so disrespectful. How would you feel if your name was Scott but someone kept calling you Arthur? Pretty bad, and pretty disrespected. If someone tells you they'd rather be referred to as a he/his/him, you refer to them as that. If Beth wants you to call her James, and to use he/him, you respect him and do that. Think about it if it were you, do the right thing. God dammit.
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ToySackboyLBP2 is not online. ToySackboyLBP2
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26 Jan 2016 05:43 PM
Names =/= Gender

lol
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matthewl1111 is not online. matthewl1111
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26 Jan 2016 05:44 PM
this isnt what misgendering is op is bad get out pls
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redlego98 is not online. redlego98
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26 Jan 2016 05:44 PM
If I had a dollar for every gender there was, I would have two dollars.

A strange game. The only winning move is not to play.
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hygenisthygenist9 is not online. hygenisthygenist9
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26 Jan 2016 05:44 PM
I'd probably just find that situation funny tbh
You transgender folks need to stop being defective and humor-lacking
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MuffledSpeech is not online. MuffledSpeech
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26 Jan 2016 05:45 PM
if its unintentional, i dont have a problem.
but if the person is deliberately doing it to be insulting ... then its gross


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Cudbert is not online. Cudbert
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26 Jan 2016 05:45 PM
there's only two genders. get over it.
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Ordinari is not online. Ordinari
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26 Jan 2016 05:45 PM
Misgender: refer to (someone, especially a [T] person) using a word, especially a pronoun or form of address, that does not correctly reflect the gender with which they identify.

Name ≠ Gender.

don't forget ABOUBOUBOUBOUBOUBOUT me
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Nepeta1324 is not online. Nepeta1324
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26 Jan 2016 05:47 PM
@toy I used names as an example.

lol
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sherlockedholmes is not online. sherlockedholmes
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26 Jan 2016 05:48 PM
I'll go around calling everyone it now because how can I possibly know now?

Take what I say with a grain of salt.
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momomarshmallow is not online. momomarshmallow
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26 Jan 2016 05:48 PM
I understand and respect when people decide they are a different gender than you were born with but what I don't think is genuine is when people switch back and forth. I know people who change from he to her on a monthly basis
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Nepeta1324 is not online. Nepeta1324
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26 Jan 2016 05:48 PM
Name = example.
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ToySackboyLBP2 is not online. ToySackboyLBP2
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26 Jan 2016 05:48 PM
Names isn't a good example.
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Lickalottapizza is not online. Lickalottapizza
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26 Jan 2016 05:49 PM
its worse than that tbh
cis people will never understand what its like to have gender dysphoria
they will NEVER UNDERSTAND THE PAIN OF GETTING MISGENDERED ON PURPOSE
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Nepeta1324 is not online. Nepeta1324
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26 Jan 2016 05:49 PM
But it is one.
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MuffledSpeech is not online. MuffledSpeech
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26 Jan 2016 05:51 PM
can i point out that you actually can use names to misgender someone?

for example, my preferred name is eli. someone who was bent on misgendering me kept calling me emily/elizabeth. (one is my birth name)
see the person used the wrong name purposefully to invalidate my identity.

op is a little mixed up but i get where shes coming from.


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Randomnessu is not online. Randomnessu
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26 Jan 2016 05:53 PM
"if its unintentional, i dont have a problem."

Mm. People who don't know me call me a guy so often I just let it roll at this point.
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sherlockedholmes is not online. sherlockedholmes
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26 Jan 2016 06:01 PM
Being mistaken for a guy online a lot (and irl back when I had really short hair) isn't something I found terrible, I get where people who don't know me are coming from, and if anything it was just a minor annoyance. Unless they're knowingly doing this just to spite you (and know that you dislike it), I don't see why people make such a fuss out of it.

Take what I say with a grain of salt.
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Lickalottapizza is not online. Lickalottapizza
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26 Jan 2016 06:38 PM
"Being mistaken for a guy online a lot (and irl back when I had really short hair) isn't something I found terrible, I get where people who don't know me are coming from, and if anything it was just a minor annoyance. Unless they're knowingly doing this just to spite you (and know that you dislike it), I don't see why people make such a fuss out of it."

it isnt something you found terrible because its different for you as a cis person
accidentally calling a cis person a guy because their roblox character looks like a guy is way different than purposely calling a trans person, with gender dysphoria, a guy because... well... think about what calling a trans person the wrong gender is really saying...
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26 Jan 2016 06:39 PM
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theearthisround is not online. theearthisround
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26 Jan 2016 06:39 PM
my friend started out as a girl
then she was pan and she fell in love with me
i rejected her
then she was genderfluid
now shes transgender

she identifies as a pan genderfluid transgender
yeah that's totally simple to remember



i'm retrogression's alt's alt || (  ゚,_ゝ゚)
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hygenisthygenist9 is not online. hygenisthygenist9
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26 Jan 2016 06:40 PM
"think about what calling a trans person the wrong gender is really saying..."

That you and your ilk are more mentally ill than me?
BTW, sinii, my offer for a night on the town still stands.
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Slydexia is not online. Slydexia
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26 Jan 2016 06:40 PM
i've never cared if i was called something i wasn't. i know who i am and that is all that matters.
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Randomnessu is not online. Randomnessu
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26 Jan 2016 06:41 PM
"BTW, sinii"

"Sinii"

My God, I've been duped into agreeing with Sinii again! Nnnnooooooooo!
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Slydexia is not online. Slydexia
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26 Jan 2016 06:43 PM
"agreeing with Sinii again"
i almost thought this said "arguing" and i was like "bro there's always me"
but either way i don't see how agreement is bad
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