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| 20 Jan 2016 08:32 PM |
if you don't like this kind of posts please go somewhere else this is just something i wanna share with some people. this will be kinda long
at the beginning of the 2nd year of middle school, some girls spread a rumor about me dating some girl i didn't even realize was in my class. her name is Annie. both of us felt weird about the situation because we haven't ever spoken to eachother at all during that time. after school i asked her on facebook what was going on, she had no idea
the next day we had physics class and we had to do a project with a physical discovery timeline or something like that. we had a month to do the project. groups were picked randomly and i got picked to be in a group with her and some other girl, we both were disappointed
a week later i asked Anna in school if we could do the project in the other girl's house, she looked nervous about that, but she agreed. later that day we both go to the other girl's house and do the project
we finish it after like 4 hours of work. then i ask Annie if i could take her to the bus stop with me, which was about 3 miles away. so we walked and talked for about an hour and a half and then we arrived. when we got there she gave me the warmest hug i could ever have in my entire life. when i arrive home i see a message from Annie saying 'i love you'
i responded to her that i love her too and that started our 'kind-of-relationship-but-not-really'
since that day we started to talk to eachother, which eventually led to stuff like drawing eachother's names on our wrists with a pen or calling 'i love you' 'i hate you'. we also liked to say 'yo mama' to eachother alot for some reason o-o
we both were pretty much weird people and that's what made us best friends. we were like twins and we were different than the rest of the class. we knew we were in a relationship together but we both were too shy to admit it in front of people
the best memory i had with her is probably escaping school together with the whole class at the last day of the school, at the last lesson which was chemistry and the teacher was stupid af.
it all started to go downhill though. at 1st october 2015, at the 3rd year of middle school i was drawing a picture of a poorly drawn girl, using snapchat. i've shown the picture to her and then she stopped talking to me all of a sudden and i was asking questions like 'what's wrong?' and stuff like that
i was getting worried but i thought she might be having a period so i left her alone after a couple of tries
then in the evening she started to call me a bad friend, that i don't spend time with her and that i called her names which have offended her apparently. she didnt give me any warnings at all
i was thinking for a couple of months about what i have done
i felt like i should apologize to her. after a month i decided to make a handwritten letter, a handmade envelope and to buy a red rose for her as an apology. i didn't know if anyone was home so i just left everything on the doorstep
then she wrote to me on facebook how lame everything i have done was. she complained about the letter, the flower, because it wasn't in blue... really?
Annie hates me even more now... i have no idea what to do now
what do you guys think? should i apologize face to face, or just wait until middle school ends and find someone else? i'm 15 so i'm pretty young and there is alot to come in the future but i feel like i cannot leave it like that... she was perfect. what should i do? |
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Karkinos5
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:34 PM |
| Be brutally honest. Tell her how irrational she's being. |
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:38 PM |
| i feel like an apology would be better but if that won't work then i don't know |
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wayne2018
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:39 PM |
| You're 15 and still in middle school? |
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:40 PM |
| She's simply being stupid, and she needs to know that. If this goes badly, it's on me. |
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:40 PM |
Apologize
It's time you learn, what it means to be a blanket |
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:41 PM |
| He has nothing to apologize for. |
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:41 PM |
She's not worth it.
If she is that irrational, then you're better off without her. Let her cry in the corner by herself because the apology letter was the wrong color.
Respect the science! |
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:43 PM |
| google translated it into middle school i am not sure if it's right :P |
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:43 PM |
| Well, she's certainly having some sort of major trouble in her life if she's acting that way. Maybe she's suffering from depression or something. Maybe you should keep asking her what's wrong until you get a good answer out of her. |
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:45 PM |
| she doesn't even want to talk to me after what happened, and i highly doubt she's suffering from depression since she seems to have alot of fun everyday and i wish i did too ;\ |
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:45 PM |
| I like this story it was fun at 1st now its just a sad story. |
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:49 PM |
Like I said: she is not worth it. There are other girls out there besides her that will probably treat you better than she did.
Respect the science! |
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:52 PM |
as i said though Annie was alot different than the other girls, all i have in my school edgy girls and they are pretty annoying
welp, so i guess i will have to wait until high school comes |
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| 20 Jan 2016 08:53 PM |
| thanks for the help guys also if anyone has anything to say feel free to do it |
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| 21 Jan 2016 03:10 PM |
| Like I said, she'd probably be acting like that only if she's going through some sort of trouble or stress. |
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| 21 Jan 2016 03:11 PM |
tl;dr just say do you like pokemon
keep smashing your keyboard |
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