Scyblocks
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:35 PM |
And we'll be having Chinese food.
Invite everyone with a mass text. |
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Siberith9
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:35 PM |
| I'm going to make poor life choices so that I may socialize with the opposite gender in hopes of snagging some fake love for the night. |
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Suedes
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:37 PM |
@Siberith9
Me in a nutshell... sometimes. I try not too be shady though.
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gryphunk2
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:37 PM |
two days in the future is...
SATUR-YAY AAAAAAAHH
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Xirena
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:37 PM |
sorry i already ate it all :<
cool beans |
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Lovaloo
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:37 PM |
i love chinese food you know that it's true i love fried rice i love noodles i love chow mein chow mein chow muh-muh-muh mein
Ou non. |
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Siberith9
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:38 PM |
| I actually don't try and push for the fake love. If it happens it happens, but i like to enjoy myself while out with friends. |
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Suedes
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:41 PM |
I've actually never had a girlfriend... been in lots of, er, flirty situations though. I have lots of girl "friends", but not anyone that I'm in a relationship with.
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Siberith9
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:42 PM |
| Too many lead ons/girls with no real intentions with me has turned me heartless in the sense of forming a real emotional bond with someone. Break ups suck but they just help you learn if you can learn to find love again. |
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Lovaloo
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Scyblocks
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:44 PM |
My problem is going for someone who's way out of my league and into someone else.
Or someone who's a frequent liar. |
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Suedes
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:45 PM |
Once there was a girl who may have actually loved me (and I think she still may).. but I was too blind and maybe too afraid to realize it. This was back in High School though. I was too scared of love and commitment. Awkward.
But seriously, this is getting off topic too fast. Talk about a quick escalation.
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Lovaloo
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:46 PM |
I DON'T LIE I TELL STORIES
Ou non. |
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Siberith9
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:48 PM |
| The worst was when a girl invited me over to her place to have a couple of "drinks" and watch a movie together. At this point in time the term "Netflix and Chill" was not a thing yet. Anyways, I knew this girl for a while and sort of had feelings. I recently broke up with a girl of 3 years from back home and she kept referring that she also broke up with her boyfriend. So, I came over, she kept pouring me drink after drink and I had no knowledge if she was drinking as much as I was but it didn't take long before I was definitely impaired with my ability to think and understand. As any guy my age would do while in this situation, I start trying to put moves on only to get curved because she was still in a relationship with said guy. So I looked like an idiot walking out quit embarrassed too. That changed me. |
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Scyblocks
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Siberith9
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:50 PM |
| Not to mention the countless hook-ups. That kind of stuff changes you're whole perception. You think differently about people. It screwed with my mind in a way that I didn't want to think. |
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Suedes
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:52 PM |
To be honest, I've never done drugs/alcohol in my life. Ever.
I have never had "relations" with a girl either, if you know what I mean. However, I've been close to them before in a flirty sense.. but ironically it's always been so superficial.
I don't want to draw the queen of diamonds, because I know the queen of hearts is always my best bet (that's a quote from an Eagles song, by the way). What I'm trying to say is that I want to wait until I feel mature enough to be in a real relationship with someone who truly cares about me.
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Siberith9
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:54 PM |
| I understand, I had the same mindset before college and it sometimes switches when i go home for break and stuff like that as well. It's something about college that makes me think differently, i just don't understand it. |
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Siberith9
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| 14 Jan 2016 11:57 PM |
| It's the whole "fast lane" mentality. You're still a kid, but old enough to live on your own, and for most kids, this is their first time living on their own. People take off in a direction that's different. You've probably heard of the old saying, "good girls in high school go wild in college." Kind of what happened to me. Though, I have slowed down some, it's still there. Binge drinking and drug use is normalized and hook-ups just show you have a good face. Nobody wants to be "tied down" in college because they feel like they have the rest of their life to worry about that. |
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Suedes
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| 15 Jan 2016 12:01 AM |
For some reason my post didn't go through so I'll retype it:
The sense of independence you gain from going off to college changes you drastically. It, maybe subconsciously, opens up a door for seemingly risk-free experimentation and self-discovery. People do things they'd never to before because they feel free of the life they left behind with their old friends/family.
It's a little more difficult for me though, being that I go to a community college that's only 10 minutes away from where I live.
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Siberith9
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| 15 Jan 2016 12:05 AM |
Exactly. In my situation I go to a school 2 hours away from home and has 30,000+ students walking around campus everyday. I can't go a single day without seeing a face I've never recognized before. You feel small in a campus like this, like your actions won't matter to anybody.
Some people can't handle themselves outside of the party scene. I could go on snapchat right now and see people's stories of them drunkely laughing or singing to some song at some random frat party. What's scarier is some people haven't stopped all week. |
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Suedes
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| 15 Jan 2016 12:11 AM |
Meanwhile Scyblocks is like "I'm out of this conversation man"... Or maybe he just had to get off.
But yeah, I'm sort of going through something similar in my life. Although I personally don't partake in lots of partying and wild stuff, nearly all my friends do. These are people I've known since elementary school, and it's just weird seeing them becoming so.. hollow. By this, I mean they seem to loose their personalities and individualism. It's like they just do everything they can to blend into a big, impersonal crowd.
In most cases, this involves getting high/drunk on a regular basis, dressing a certain way, talking a certain, way, and the list continues. It's really been sad to see, but I try to be optimistic about it. Maybe it's just something they need for them to emerge as stronger people.
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Siberith9
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| 15 Jan 2016 12:21 AM |
Yeah, i've always said "college can make you or break you"
some people never change out of that state of mind. they loose grip on reality and fall back to this temporary happiness that comes with drinking and drugs. they only relate to people through alcohol and drugs and before you know it there life crashes down.
others are able to see the change and come out differently like i did. i was getting drunk 4-5 times a week at one point in time. I would sneak bottles of alcohol passed the front desk clerk and keep them in my room and just drink whenever i felt it was necessary to. now ive been able to calm down and understand my limits. |
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