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| 12 Dec 2015 02:43 PM |
Okay so my parents won't upgrade me to a new phone so I'm stuck with my iPhone 4S. But they never let me have it with me. I have to have all B's and up to have it, and I have one C and when my grades are under they take my phone away from me after school and give it back to me the next morning. If I do have all good grades then I can only have it... until 9... Also, they turned my data off for absolutely no reason and told me bc they want me to focus on school and bc I've gotten in 2 major fights before through text. Whenever I text someone they get a notification on their phones saying that I sent/received a text and the number I'm contacting to and what we're saying. They also don't let me have any social media besides Instagram, and they constantly unfollow people randomly. They check my phone 24/7 and never let me have it regardless. Sometimes when people text me and I don't have my phone my parents text them back, delete the conversation, then never tell me (I know this bc my friends have personally asked me if I've gotten their text messages). Is this fair? |
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spy59
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| 12 Dec 2015 02:49 PM |
Your parents are extremely strict They make you sound like a 10 year old |
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| 12 Dec 2015 02:50 PM |
yes,your phone is supposed to be your phone not theirs
checkm9 it's christmas time | rip lelforumingalt,add 13k posts plis |
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| 12 Dec 2015 02:54 PM |
I literally got to the point to where I offered to get a job and pay for my own data. But they told me that if I did pay for it, they would still give me the rules. |
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| 12 Dec 2015 02:56 PM |
I'll admit I've recently gone behind their backs a lot and I have made plenty of mistakes in my life, but come on... This just isn't right... and I have my reasons for some of the things I do to them. What do I do about this? |
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| 12 Dec 2015 02:56 PM |
If they bought it for you and are paying for your plan, it's technically their phone. They can do whatever they want with it.
It's an issue if you bought it yourself and are paying for the plan with your own money.
noot noot |
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| 12 Dec 2015 02:57 PM |
No, it is not fair in any way. Your parents are d*cks. Please tell them my message.
☭Why have friends when you can have a cult of personality instead?☭ http://www.roblox.com/Lick-the-Corn-item?id=177372709 |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:00 PM |
Though they probably own that phone and pay it off with their money, their invasion of your personal life which is yours is unacceptable. Though there should be some restrictions because of the fights over text as such, I think this is going a little bit too far, especially with them spying on your text and texting your friends back then erasing it.
"In sweet music is such art" - King Henry VIII |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:00 PM |
@king,
I hope you're being serious. And I agree because I don't know any of my friends, or ANYONE at my school who has these dumb rules. |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:02 PM |
Yes, I am serious. Just tell them exactly why the rules they are making do nothing to help you in any way.
☭Why have friends when you can have a cult of personality instead?☭ http://www.roblox.com/Lick-the-Corn-item?id=177372709 |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:03 PM |
Both fights weren't all my fault. The first one my best friend and I were in the stage where we kept fighting all the time, and she had enough and I had enough. So one night we were yelling at each other and I just ended it, then a week later her mom tells my parents that I need to leave her alone in general and then my parents took that seriously and blamed it all on me. The second one my friend and my old crush were flirting as a joke and screenshotted it to me then I got jealous and asked her what that was about then blew up a little then she got her dad on the phone. Then her dad traced my number (honestly don't know how) then talked to my dad about it then threatened to call the police on me... |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:05 PM |
@king,
Yea even when I'm home alone my parents take my phone with them and tell me that if I need them to go to a neighbor's house and use their phone (WTH!) Last time I went home from school early cause I was sick my mom took my phone away when I got home like wth it's not my fault I'm sick. |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:06 PM |
Oh, I assumed that your fights were like fist to the face fights, not verbal. Good lord, well never mind.
"In sweet music is such art" - King Henry VIII |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:07 PM |
"Yea even when I'm home alone my parents take my phone with them and tell me that if I need them to go to a neighbor's house and use their phone (WTH!)"
Well that's just stupid and pointless. Why do they even do this anyway? The best way to make someone realize how stupid something they are doing is is often to ask them why. A lot of the time they will realize they don't know why they are doing it.
☭Why have friends when you can have a cult of personality instead?☭ http://www.roblox.com/Lick-the-Corn-item?id=177372709 |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:08 PM |
Get a job and pay for your own sue them for stealing your property when they take it away > money for more stuff > phone back
does not compute |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:08 PM |
"Okay so my parents won't upgrade me to a new phone so I'm stuck with my iPhone 4S."
I see the problem here
the problem is that you don't have an Android |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:10 PM |
| I allready hate your parents. Tell them that i said this |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:12 PM |
you could also consider just locking them out of the phone change the codes to get in, block their numbers, lock them out of the account.
☭Why have friends when you can have a cult of personality instead?☭ http://www.roblox.com/Lick-the-Corn-item?id=177372709 |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:14 PM |
They're always negative around me also and show their favoritism with my sister. They always let her have her phone with her. I'm grounded until the beginning of January and I completely understand because what I did to get myself grounded was bad (I stole a bit of candy from my sister when she was home for Thanksgiving) But this is why I'm so sneaky with them, I'm just waiting to move out. |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:16 PM |
@king,
I've done that, and they just ask for my new codes then threaten me if I don't. Plus that'll just make things worse... This phone incident isn't the only stupid crap they do. Like they almost never let me have anything else of mine and they treat me like trash to begin with. The only good things they do for me is... give me a little bit of money for food every two weeks and pay for player fees for sports. |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:17 PM |
how old are you anyway
☭Why have friends when you can have a cult of personality instead?☭ http://www.roblox.com/Lick-the-Corn-item?id=177372709 |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:19 PM |
@king,
15. Go ahead, call me a spoiled annoying brat. But in my honest opinion (and a bunch of my friends in real life), I don't think that a lot of the stuff they do to me is right. It's sort of abuse. |
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:21 PM |
how are you spoiled your parents are just doing the same thing expecting a new result go tell them
"Hey, everything you do to me makes me feel like you hate me, you punish me for little things and let my sister go and do what she wants, I don't like being someone you can control, maybe you can't see me as a person but that's what I am."
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| 12 Dec 2015 03:22 PM |
"It's sort of abuse." It's not abuse. But it is incredibly stupid, and disrespectful. Even if they are your parents, they have no right to go so deep into your personal life like that.
"In sweet music is such art" - King Henry VIII |
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