kittyabs
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:11 PM |
because so many of you dont have friends, or you think your life is inadequate in comparison to those around you.
so then you try to call yourself depressed or say you have social anxiety because that magically makes it 'okay' that you dont have any friends or a crappy life, it justifies you being a social outcast.
my advice is grow up and cut the crap. youre a loser, accept it. maybe your life gets better in college when you grow out of your pathetic and pitiful insecurities. |
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kittyabs
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:12 PM |
| wow kitty 10/10 u should write a book |
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bluefredy
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:14 PM |
Everyone's life is different, people have worse things than others, and it's not right to just tell them to "grow up".
Seek out to those people, give them a hand, you'll both find it useful in the end and I know that through experience.
So rather than making a large rant about why people are depressed or feel odd around others how about you do something useful and lend a hand to someone you feel could be going through something hard?
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kittyabs
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:15 PM |
ok so you want me to sugar coat their experience and tell them its okay to behave like this?
this is how you become a doormat in life. wake up.
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:15 PM |
But what if they aren't and doing it for attention?
That makes it worse the fact you're actually praising them then fredy |
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:15 PM |
you know you can have anxiety from multiple reasons right?
isnt solely having a bad life or in relation to that.
so ignorant.
Mind games I tell you, MIND GAMES! |
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Norskee
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:15 PM |
I absolutely agree with you |
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:16 PM |
wow op can really get butthurt about anything
i mean look at him
he is butthurt because people are depressed |
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bluefredy
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:16 PM |
It's okay for people to feel sad or have problems, and everyone needs a hand sooner or later, some more than others.
I'm not praising them, I'm just saying- do something useful and try making someones day. |
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:17 PM |
| are you denying the existence of depression & social anxiety or are you saying people label themselves with those when they don't actually have them as an excuse |
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:17 PM |
I agree with kitty,
He is saying just because you are a lonely looser, doesn't mean you can justify your self as an outcast and say its "okay". |
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Norskee
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:18 PM |
I don't even think depression and social anxiety exists so lol |
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kittyabs
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:18 PM |
if theyre doing it for attention then theyre deperate for acceptance from others, even if that acceptance doesnt lead to new friendships
by saying you have social anxiety to others youre literally broadcasting "hey everyone i have absolutely no friends but its okay because heres why"
the reality of the situation is that you dont lack the capacity to make friendships, you just either want to be like that (which is fine) or you cant accept that the only reason you dont have a social life is because of yourself. |
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:20 PM |
Norskee, are you trying to be funny?
Did you know that depression can be fueled by things other than "whiney anxious insecurity"?
Like the death of family? Is that a bit more simple for you?
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kittyabs
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:21 PM |
ghost depression is a radical chemical imbalance in your brain that causes you to be sad, it is a real thing that people suffer from and can be diagnosed.
"social anxiety" is a state of mind, its not a physical thing. it's nonexistent.
its literally you being a baby and being too afraid to go in the ocean for the first time, if your parents pick you up and throw you in there then at once instead of doing these stupid wasteful baby steps you'll see its no big deal at all and youll want to engage people.
you just have to get over the initial hurdle. |
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:21 PM |
| this realtalk from kitty tho |
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Norskee
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:22 PM |
then they need to toughen up and get over it, my duuuuuuuuude, it's the way of life
weep for a few days but then it's your job to get up off your whiney ass and continue living your life |
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bluefredy
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:22 PM |
| Now those two posts above I can agree with @Kitty. |
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kittyabs
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:22 PM |
| tht second to last paragraph was supposed to be some big metaphor for how kids are afraid to go in the ocean until they actually used to it, and then get related to how you dont have friends for the same reason, but it ended up getting fused together in one big incoherent mess. |
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:22 PM |
nah eire, their ignorance level too high.
their comprehension skills were drastically lowered in the process.
Mind games I tell you, MIND GAMES! |
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bloxman26
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:25 PM |
| by your logic if depression is physical then all mental illnesses including anxiety disorders are physical due to the nature of how the brain functions............so you contradict yourself......................... |
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:26 PM |
most of the time i agree like alot of them lie and say theyre suddenly "depressed" because somethings going wrong in their life like stop
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:26 PM |
| see purely gets what hes saying, all you tryhards dont |
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kittyabs
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| 09 Sep 2015 10:27 PM |
blox depression is caused by a physical chemical imbalance inside of your brain, the result of that physical imbalance is you being sad. it results in a mental disorder but is caused by a physical thing.
social anxiety isnt caused by anything physical, its 100% in your mind. it does not physically exist, so no, i didnt contradict myself, your understanding of depression is just way off. |
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