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| 12 Aug 2015 01:10 PM |
I don't want to be friends with him, I've been ignoring him to the best of my ability but he keeps trying to contact me.
what 2 do |
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:12 PM |
| sacrifice a family member or close friend of his before his eyes. this will strike fear and always get your point across. look him dead in his eye pixels and screech "no u i wont be ur friend" 10/10 works |
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:12 PM |
or kill him....
"Before you start pointing fingers, make sure your hands are clean" |
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:13 PM |
| tell him you like weird fetishes and stuff till he gets freaked out and runs away I guess |
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:15 PM |
send him to a weird site, it works everytime
"Before you start pointing fingers, make sure your hands are clean" |
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:16 PM |
| Tell him that you don't wanted to be friends with him and contacting again will make it worse |
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cloudwork
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:19 PM |
Just tell him you don't want to be friends with him. I don't get why it's so hard for a lot of people just to say no to something..
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:19 PM |
Because I don't want an active member of my group to take offense and not be an active member of the group because I don't want to be friends with them.
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cloudwork
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:24 PM |
He shouldn't do that. You have your own likes and dislikes and you can't just let people walk all over you like that. If you don't like something you should certainly get to the point and say so.
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:27 PM |
He's not walking all over me and no one does that.
You're also implying I'm the sort of person who cowers are others and wouldn't just outright tell them to do one, which is the exact opposite of who I am.
The only reason I'm at all conflicted about this is that I don't want people to leave my group, I don't care about this guy or his feelings one bit. |
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Evandrus
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:28 PM |
| Tell him you want to keep a professional behaving with everyone in your group, which means no one will be your friend unless you want to and just keep it professional. |
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:28 PM |
| send him to akk.li and friends |
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:29 PM |
| Thanks Evan, that sounds like a good way to let him down. |
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:29 PM |
just pretend to be his friend
An A+ a day keeps the lectures away |never forget : 7/2| |
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cloudwork
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:30 PM |
"The only reason I'm at all conflicted about this is that I don't want people to leave my group, I don't care about this guy or his feelings one bit."
If you don't care about this guy or his feelings, then why are you worried about him leaving the group?
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:30 PM |
If you don't care about this guy or his feelings, then why are you worried about him leaving the group?
Because I care about the group |
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:32 PM |
"The only reason I'm at all conflicted about this is that I don't want people to leave my group, I don't care about this guy or his feelings one bit."
i think all group owners should care even a little bit about their group members because at the end of the day, if he isn't having fun in the group (if you push him away and tell him you don't want to be friends etc) then you're just using him
just tell him you feel uncomfortable with the way he keeps trying to contact you or be your friend
or just link him to this thread............ |
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cloudwork
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:33 PM |
Well, imo, I would just say no. This is a tough world and a lot of people need to start accepting that you're going to be denied at some point.
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:41 PM |
"i think all group owners should care even a little bit about their group members because at the end of the day, if he isn't having fun in the group (if you push him away and tell him you don't want to be friends etc) then you're just using him"
He can have fun in the group, but not with me. Personalities clash way too much and I'm not w/ me |
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| 12 Aug 2015 01:43 PM |
@lion
ironically that is a message I get from him a lot |
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| 12 Aug 2015 02:12 PM |
"He can have fun in the group, but not with me."
LOL |
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