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| 28 Jul 2015 06:56 PM |
So I've known this girl for pretty much 6 years, and during 5 of those years we've both showed signs of liking each other.
When I was 14, she basically asked if I could be her roleplay 'boyfriend', but I declined and after that she usually felt too embarrassed to talk to me in any way.
Now that I'm 16, and she's 15, I decided to tell my degeneratey friends about her, whom were strongly convinced that I should talk to her.
So here's how the scene played out:
I sit down at a Kebab shop, next to 4 other guys, one 21 year old League of Legends nerd, 17 year old guy I've known since I was 4, 23 year old heavy smoker, 14 year old peer pressuring idiot and some other irrelevants. This kebab shop is adjacent to the village square, where she was sitting next to an ATM, 20 meters away from me. After 20 seconds of sitting down, I turn my head and see her standing in the middle of the square with her phone in her hand, just staring at me. I turn back out of nervousness, then look back and see her sitting down again, still looking at me.
My friends notice this, and after discussion also find out that this 21 year old LoL guy was into some other 15 year old girl, prompting them to ask both of us to walk up to them.
After minutes of refusal, 3 of them go and walk up to the one I like, despite the 21 year old guy insulting them loudly out of fear that they'd also interact with the girl he likes. I see them talking and see her smile and giggle with her hands on her hips. They come back and tell me that 'they have this situation on the platter for me'. They told me that they asked her to come talk to me, since I was too shy but she responded 'tell him to talk to me himself'.
So then, they basically force me to walk up to her, after hours of my refusal, "inspiring" me with some 'JUST DO IT' speech on youtube. I get up, walk up to her, catching her staring at me back, but stop two meters away behind a lamppost with my friend, briefing me on what to say since my Greek is quite faulted. He walks up to her and says 'heeeeey'. I sit down next to her and also say hey, she says 'hey' hesitantly back. Then my friend says 'I'll leave you guys to it', and then she says 'no you won't....'
She stands up instantly around the kids she was talking to, one meter away from me, and continues talking to them, whilst staring at me, talking about trivial crap of how the 'Pepsi' can she was drinking tasted weird.
After feeling embarassed and insulted, whilst also guilty in approaching her so cowardly, I get up and leave. I look back and see her stop talking and just staring.
Before all this, my friends said she was asking about me, and told them to greet me for her. Her mother also picked me up after I broke my arm after crashing with my bike in the middle of the road, the girl I like also recalled this to my friends.
She definitely used to like me the years before, we used to speak and she showed a lot of interest in me back in 2011-2013 but now... I feel like she doesn't. I doubt that if she really cared about me she would ditch me to feel like crap. Maybe she wanted revenge for what I did to her 2 years ago, where I publicly declined her after everyone hollered 'oooo' after she asked me to be her roleplay boyfriend.
I don't know guys, should I even bother to speak to her now...? I like her a lot but she's completely messed with my mind right now
Is this rejection or just cute teen awkwardness? |
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Toxenz
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| 28 Jul 2015 06:57 PM |
| tl:dr my only advice is to not ask for advice here bcuz common sense |
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asianjuke
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| 28 Jul 2015 06:57 PM |
| grow some balls, and tell her stuff |
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| 28 Jul 2015 06:58 PM |
idk
I am aqua man! ruler of the ocean! |
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Zenzzi
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| 28 Jul 2015 06:58 PM |
girls are stupid and impossible to decode i promise you
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:00 PM |
@61
This all happened in Greece.
Sorry if my English is bad guys, haven't communicated in English for over a month to anyone |
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:01 PM |
@zen
Not if you've known them for over 6 years |
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:02 PM |
you should have said yes.
An A+ a day keeps the lectures away |never forget : 7/2| |
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Sencu
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:03 PM |
| aren't you part of the macedonian elite? |
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:03 PM |
@jack
I know, but I couldn't speak Greek as well as I can now back then, and I was being glared at by over 20 chanting people. It just came out too quickly and she looked really depressed.
That specific event was 2 years ago |
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:04 PM |
You'll never ever get to truly understand a girl lol not even with 6 years, not even with 20 |
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:04 PM |
@sencu
As elite as the Somali special forces |
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:05 PM |
| I have no one else to talk to and I feel terribly depressed... Advice anyone :( |
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Sencu
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:07 PM |
| in the situation you explained, you should've taken initiative, brought something up to speak about, that's probably why it was so awkward. |
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:07 PM |
No ,
You where just too shy to talk to her.
She's not going to look thirsty front of your friends and call you back is she?
Puss in boots is here. |
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Sencu
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:07 PM |
oh and if she was drinking pepsi she's not worth it.
coca cola >>> |
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Sencu
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:08 PM |
| you miss 100% of the shots you don't take |
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mecatab
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:08 PM |
pay denbts
Are you satisfied? |
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Fearius
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:08 PM |
@Super
no bcuz she had pepsi |
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Lynix
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:09 PM |
Yeah, we've got a major problem on our hands. Who in the right mind goes on ROBLOX - a site geared towards younglings - for advice on girls? First thing is, half of these guys have never kissed anyone besides their mom.
I have two responses to this: -21 yr old should be arrested -your crush might be playing hard to get |
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:09 PM |
@sencu
My Greek isn't that great, and she knows that. I couldn't have taken initiative in front of her friends without looking like a moron (unlike that other LoL idiot lol)
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:10 PM |
| I don't even think Pepsi exists in Greece... Wtf |
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:10 PM |
@lynix
he's a nice guy but he's honestly insane lol
he looks 17 anyway |
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| 28 Jul 2015 07:11 PM |
just go for it. trust me ive been friendzoned before feels bad for like a day then ur like eh that btch wasnt good enough anyways then strut off into the sunset.
but srs ull hear this a lot but just go for it
seems to me like you're just dumb |
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