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| 04 Jul 2015 08:57 PM |
So my friend who's 15 goes to parties on occasions, because that's what teens do. Hang out with friends and party, right? So it's this pretty big party (i heard) and apparently they all had a lot of fun, great, wonderful, whatever idc i dont have a life and i dont want to know...
But then I hear there are drinks (which I actually knew prior to the party) but it wasn't just any drink, it was v/0dka. I'm freaking out because I really care about my friend. She's fine right now, but she drinks at like every party... I know it's not a PROBLEM but it scares me. Is it normal to feel this scared for her or am I supposed to be chill about it. I can't help her. I try to make hinting jokes about it to get her to stop, but I can't control her. I don't want to come off as her mom or something that might annoy her... but I know this will only end badly for one of us. What do I do?
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Slydexia
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| 04 Jul 2015 08:58 PM |
| get her to stop, 15 year olds should not be drinking |
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| 04 Jul 2015 08:58 PM |
Tl;dr My friend who is 15 drinks (legally) but it scares me. She does it only at parties but I hate it. I don't want try to stop her because she might get mad at me, but I want her to stop. What do I do?
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| 04 Jul 2015 08:59 PM |
"get her to stop, 15 year olds should not be drinking" She lives in an area where it's legal though. Does the fact that it's legal mean it's okay?
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Kukyo
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| 04 Jul 2015 09:00 PM |
There is no "legally" drinking for a 15 year old. to be legal you have to be 21. now is this friend online? or do you know her in person? because usually people online just lie about what they do.
senpai kukyo !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Wibze
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| 04 Jul 2015 09:00 PM |
If you are worried, tell her. You're only telling her that you care. |
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Slydexia
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| 04 Jul 2015 09:00 PM |
"Does the fact that it's legal mean it's okay" no it actually doesn't doesn't matter if she only drinks at parties, 15 is too young |
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| 04 Jul 2015 09:02 PM |
| In Canada the legal age is 19, afaik. But I probably won't anyways. I tried to drink but the taste is just too much. Not worth. |
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KDee000
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| 04 Jul 2015 09:03 PM |
| "Listen, I care about you a lot..just please stop drinking at parties?" |
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| 04 Jul 2015 09:03 PM |
| RT why are you listening to this man. |
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Wibze
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| 04 Jul 2015 09:03 PM |
| Well. I'm 17(barely drinks), but most of my friends started drinking when they were about 16. Although the age limit in Norway is 18. |
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| 04 Jul 2015 09:11 PM |
"There is no "legally" drinking for a 15 year old. to be legal you have to be 21. now is this friend online? or do you know her in person? because usually people online just lie about what they do."
in new zealand? And it was last night, she wasn't online and has pics to prove it
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| 04 Jul 2015 09:13 PM |
Yea I'm gonna "dare" her to not drink for a whole party and see if she does the dare, and then keep daring her until she stops completely.
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| 04 Jul 2015 10:52 PM |
http://ask.fm/janoskianssRBLX scroll down a bit and you'll see a pic with bottles and cans. then you'll see I asked about the picture and she replies with "no it's not b/eer its v/0dka"
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| 04 Jul 2015 10:56 PM |
| ill tell her you want her to stop drinking |
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| 04 Jul 2015 10:57 PM |
"I know it's not a PROBLEM but it scares me."
Although it really is a problem? |
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| 04 Jul 2015 11:09 PM |
| ok so she said she doesn't drink then posted a picture of a botle of wodka. clearly she's not going to stop |
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| 04 Jul 2015 11:15 PM |
"Although it really is a problem?" she's not an alcoholic. But she is drinking at a young age.. Yes it is a problem, but I don't want it to be.
I want her to quit it before she kills herself.
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| 04 Jul 2015 11:29 PM |
tbh, this sounds like bait... but if its not Then you're just going to have to tell her to quit drinking because you care about her too much and if you don't and she dies all you're going to be doing is sitting in a dark corner crying your eyes out because you couldn't save your best friend/crush from drinking. And again, if this is not bait... It sounds like you love her :3
Aww OP loves his best friend xD
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| 04 Jul 2015 11:35 PM |
Oh man I was locked out of the site!
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| 04 Jul 2015 11:36 PM |
^ wrong thread
"tbh, this sounds like bait... but if its not Then you're just going to have to tell her to quit drinking because you care about her too much and if you don't and she dies all you're going to be doing is sitting in a dark corner crying your eyes out because you couldn't save your best friend/crush from drinking. And again, if this is not bait... It sounds like you love her :3
Aww OP loves his best friend xD" It's not bait, you can check the link i posted. alright i'll take OT's advice.
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| 04 Jul 2015 11:38 PM |
ye u shud care more about yer friend and less about me (dominusawesomus). nevr help a fool liek me |
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| 04 Jul 2015 11:39 PM |
let her get wasted the hangover will teach her a lesson
hella |
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| 04 Jul 2015 11:41 PM |
"let her get wasted the hangover will teach her a lesson" last time she had a hangover she woke up and the first thing she said to me was "i have a headache"
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| 04 Jul 2015 11:42 PM |
She thinks alcoholic drinks dont harm her
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