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| 14 Jun 2015 08:21 PM |
Okay so about half a year or so ago me and this girl met online through a app (not online dating). And we've been talking everyday and I kinda liked her, but she didn't. She said I was a brother to her and she looked up to me. We tell each other we love each other. Over Christmas, we got into a fight and I hurt her and we stopped talking. I started talking to her a few weeks after, and she wasn't open to me. Now she is and we talk everyday, but we occasionally have fights. She tells me she's always busy with cheer and stuff, so 80% of the time I won't get immediate replies. Sometimes I'll text her and then I'll see her liking things on Instagram then replying to me minutes later. Or I'll Snapchat her and she'll reply to my text and ignore my Snapchat until later. Last night, she just blew up on me. She told me the first person she goes to to her problems is a senior and she screenshotted their convo. She was complaining about her problems. She has health problems and depression. I told her "I'm tired of caring and you ignoring me" and she blew up and said "just stop. I'm not your puppet or your pet. If you don't respect my problems then go away" What do I do? We haven't talked in a week. |
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:24 PM |
something similar happened to me took some time to move on but it's def. worth it to move on ik it sounds bad and you don't just want to leave everything you guys had together but move on bro |
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:26 PM |
"She tells me she's always busy with cheer and stuff, so 80% of the time I won't get immediate replies."
Same, but see my crush actually likes me lmao. Yes move on from her. You're better than her.
OP thinks he's so smart when his stupidity is so stupid it actually borders intelligence |
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:27 PM |
| It will take a while to move on, I've been there....but, life is hard and you will have to deal with letting things go often even if you love it or them the most.... |
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:28 PM |
| In your lifetime you are going to meet tons of girls. Don't hang onto one. Go explore and have fun....before it's too late. |
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Riku1257
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:29 PM |
>"Same, but see my crush actually likes me lmao."
then why is she your crush instead of your gf
but that's none of my business |
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:29 PM |
You need to understand 2 things. 1. Sometimes, once you're used to something (say, a girl that always controls you) you have to require it in life. If your wife is always telling you what to do and you divorce her for it, you may find yourself lost and looking for a wife similar to her because her controlling self became routine. 2. You do live your own life, and so does she. Understand that the past is the past and the present is the present. Back then she was wonderful, now she is not.
I don't want to waver you too much to a decision, but keep these things in mind when you DO make a decision. You might not WANT her, but you may NEED her.
OP thinks he's so smart when his stupidity is so stupid it actually borders intelligence |
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:30 PM |
"then why is she your crush instead of your gf" because we're happy with just being friends? i mean long distance relationships don't usually work so we just stay friends it's really nice. she loves me i love her, and we tell everyone we're friends even tho we get krazy at nite
OP thinks he's so smart when his stupidity is so stupid it actually borders intelligence |
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Riku1257
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:32 PM |
define the word "krazy" do you mean late-night texting krazy or
but that's none of my business |
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:33 PM |
"define the word "krazy" do you mean late-night texting krazy or"
relax im really joking We just text late at night. But trust me, it gets interesting.
OP thinks he's so smart when his stupidity is so stupid it actually borders intelligence |
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Riku1257
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:36 PM |
oh that type krazy i thought y'know what it doesn't matter what i thought but yea i hear long-distance relationships suck
but that's none of my business |
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Korotos
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:37 PM |
| didnt read it all 2manywords but yes you should |
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:38 PM |
She says she cares about me, and prays for me everyday. But I haven't been texting her to see if she'll miss me. |
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:45 PM |
| To be honest, If she did care, she would be reacting back like, " why haven't you texted me"!? :| |
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:46 PM |
I'm a football and soccer player. I also hangout with friends. And yet, I make more of an attempt to talk to her and I reply faster. Sort of sad tbh :/ |
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| 14 Jun 2015 08:48 PM |
| You still have feelings for her? It's kind of evident. Lol |
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| 14 Jun 2015 09:23 PM |
@Terrible,
Is that a bad thing? Lol. And do you think she's lying to me about how she cares and loves me and stuff? |
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| 14 Jun 2015 09:26 PM |
respect her problems [2]
jkjk
shes a woman. what can i say.
Are all these your guitars? |
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| 14 Jun 2015 09:28 PM |
"Should I just move on from her now now"
that stumbled me at first (means later in south african english)
second, if you are asking yourself this question, then move on. |
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| 14 Jun 2015 09:33 PM |
App=0nline dating but through an app
Let's not discuss that here's the bottom line "She loves you like a brother"-my friend she placed you in the friend zone One that she's not as interested or wasn't ready Getting friend zoned makes things more difficult and harder
Knowing that your friendzoned also means she's more interested in someone else Not all the time, but one of the reasons Now straight up Saying I'm tired of you not caring, was rude and basically blew any opportunity What you should have done was a, talk to her and slowly get out of the friendzone or make a move Or b, ignore her and she how she reacted
In general, move on. She's not worth it. You'll find a more loyal and better one in the future |
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| 14 Jun 2015 09:41 PM |
@TerribleThing,
I'm waiting for a response... |
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