Siberith9
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| 13 Jun 2015 12:16 AM |
| I have something I wanna discuss about but its more adult rated and serious.. but I have no one to talk to about it anonymously, but I feel roblox isn't the most appropriate place to discuss this.. |
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Skeix
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Siberith9
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| 13 Jun 2015 12:18 AM |
| lol I refuse to even make a tumblr |
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Fazana
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| 13 Jun 2015 12:19 AM |
depends what it's about and if I actually have the energy to discuss it.
~I hope your day sucks.~ |
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Siberith9
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| 13 Jun 2015 12:19 AM |
@skeix
I wouldn't say bad, but its more trust issues more than anything, about a relationship. like I said, something roblox people couldn't possibly really get until they're at a certain age |
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Slamdunks
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| 13 Jun 2015 12:20 AM |
Talk dirty to me.
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Fazana
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| 13 Jun 2015 12:20 AM |
meh girl issues
Can't help you
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Siberith9
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| 13 Jun 2015 12:22 AM |
@Fazana haha I know, sounds cliché, but its not like a typical high school/middle school drama thing like most people will see it as, and im not really asking for advice its more of getting an opinion more than anything |
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Siberith9
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| 13 Jun 2015 12:43 AM |
I'm just gonna go out and say it, okay here it goes:
So, I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 20. We met while we were in college; lived in the same dorm. Before I started dating her I was in a past relationship for 3 years, and it was becoming quite a serious one, we planned about our future and all that cliché nonsense that young lovers think they understand, but as I went off to college and she stayed home, she broke things off because she couldn't handle it, and I was okay with it at first, because I was excited to try new things in college (if you catch my meaning), and it was different. Unfortunately, after 3 years together with someone, it was definitely hard to be yourself again and see yourself as an individual and not a couple. As the days went by I would start talking to girls who I found that could possibly be potential new girlfriends only for them to cut me off or I would cut them off, and it was definitely hard. Its hard to deal with break-ups and it opens the world to a lot of stuff you didn't see before. I viewed everything differently, I kept my secrets and feelings inside of me, I developed trust issues with everyone, because I never wanted to let anyone inside again for there to potentially be a reason to hurt me.
So as weeks went by, I developed a "no-care" attitude. I would go to parties, get plastered drunk, make out with some random female and ditch before the night even ended. Girls would try to text me and hang out, or want me to come spend more time and I would ignore them. I didn't care about how they felt because I was cold and heartless. One of those women, happened to be my girlfriend now, who was different from the rest. She had confidence, she was beautiful, smart, funny, everything you would want in a girl. Unfortunately, I perceived her as the rest, I assumed she was like the other girls, and I didn't let her in, in fact, I toyed with her, only for her to find me messing around with another female.
Then, for some reason, I started to like her, I started talking to her more and more, and soon enough we became in a relationship. The thing that's weird about her, is that she does things that would come off weird to other people. She not only doesn't show affection or acts like she cares in front of me in public, but acts as if she doesn't like me at all. She would more so go and hang out with other guys rather than be with me. That always bugged me, and drove me crazy, but at this point in our relationship it was very early and I didn't really care what she did because I was still in my "no-care" attitude.
She lives 5 hours away from me, because since we met in college she doesn't live in the same area. She claims that she has really close guy friends, and always hangs out with them. She likes to drink, just as I do, but she gets more flirty with people when she drinks and that's always made me feel weary. Sometimes I won't hear from her for 7-8 hours, and other times I don't even know what she is doing on some days. Its very strange, but its different from my past relationship and for some reason I'm more attracted to it, even though I hate it.
Anyways, I've never really given her much of me until last weekend when I came and visited her. That's when I started to gain trust in her, and I officially opened myself and up and let her on the real me. I finally let down my guard so she could see how I really am, and for some reason, I feel like she didn't open herself back, and now that I'm 5 hours away from her again, I'm more nervous than anything that I fell for a girl who might potentially hurt me again like I was a year ago.
It's confusing, I know, and I don't even care if you have an opinion or not, I just needed some place to put this to let out all this anger in me. |
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vosriff
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Siberith9
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vosriff
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Skeix
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| 13 Jun 2015 01:35 AM |
| hopefully things will get better in the end |
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bibbs123
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| 13 Jun 2015 01:42 AM |
| Talk to her about it, man. Seriously. If you want it to work out, you need to talk. Like say you're uncomfortable and you just want to be sure because of what happened with your last gf. And it might be better to do it in person, but that's just my preference. (I just realized you're only 1 year older than me and 19 seemed like 4 years older to me just now, but i digress) She should understand that, and if she doesn't, I wouldn't want to be with her. Don't keep your fears in, it'll eat you alive. |
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iPhatMan
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| 13 Jun 2015 02:08 AM |
*says he doesn't want to discuss it on roblox* *goes on a writes an entire essay with all the specifics explaining exactly what it is*
Ah, so I see you merely wanted our attention? Clever girl....err.....boy |
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| 13 Jun 2015 02:14 AM |
Can't help you there considering I suck at relationships.
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