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| 28 May 2015 11:52 PM |
| How far into high school should I be before looking for a relationship |
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Saus
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| 28 May 2015 11:53 PM |
im not waiting 4 years
k next |
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| 28 May 2015 11:55 PM |
Hmmm, that's a really personal opinion, you should try and find what suits you best.
As for me, I decided to wait until college to start dating. Too much drama for those who want to move away after high school. |
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| 28 May 2015 11:55 PM |
"reported"
HAAAAAAAA That's hilarious
The fact he got CD'ed isn't nearly as funny as that |
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| 28 May 2015 11:57 PM |
usually a typical high school relationship lasts no longer than 1 month so id wait maybe |
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| 28 May 2015 11:59 PM |
| but what if I already have someone in mind and I know they're single but have no idea how to start it off |
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| 28 May 2015 11:59 PM |
I gave this advice to MrSeventeen. I'll give it to you now.
Love is merely a social construct. With the average human lifespan being roughly 70, you only have to endure another few decades of excruciatingly unforgivable pain. Everything is temporary. Your life does not matter, and that girl no longer matters. Everything is temporary. Everything will eventually rot away, as long as the factor of time continues to be the expredator of the universe, the inevitable decay of all pain and memory is unstoppable. |
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BloxOne
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| 29 May 2015 12:04 AM |
Here's what I have to say. I'm going to graduate high school in exactly two weeks from today, so I'm pretty much done. In my whole high school career, I never pursued any relationships, granted that I had many, many opportunities.
To be honest, I sort of wish I had started a relationship (with one girl in particular). I'm not sure what would have happened if I did, and I don't know if it would have affected me negatively in terms of school.
Almost all of my friends are in relationships now (most of them just got into relationships for the first time this year). I think if you are responsible enough, then you can definitely manage a relationship without it detrimentally affecting your everyday life.
So really, it's all up to you. If you really like someone, I advise pursuing it. I sure wish I did. It doesn't make what grade you're in. Just make sure you don't get a girlfriend just to have one.. those relationships never last and really end up causing tons of drama. |
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| 29 May 2015 12:06 AM |
| well I'd like to have one and I have someone in mind but I have no idea how to not look like a total scrublord starting it |
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BloxOne
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| 29 May 2015 12:15 AM |
The best way to approach a girl to start a relationship is to be yourself.. but be confident. Just say "Hi, what's your name?'... or whatever comes natural to you.
I mean, the girl will instantly know you are hitting on her, but she won't mind as long as you don't come off as being super rude or weird. If she doesn't act like she is interested in you, then she's probably not meant for you. If someone isn't attracted to you when you are genuine, then they aren't worth spending time with. |
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| 29 May 2015 12:19 AM |
| ok i'm just afraid it will screw up and then she'll go tell all of her friends and then suddenly there's this big thing going around, etc. |
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BloxOne
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| 29 May 2015 12:21 AM |
That's the same fear that prevented me from asking the girl I liked... Don't make the same mistake as me. You'll miss out on many opportunities in life if you let the fear of others' judgment control you.
Who cares what other people think? Live to please yourself, not others. It takes insane courage, but I can assure you won't regret it. No matter how it turns out, you will learn quite about yourself from it. |
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| 29 May 2015 12:23 AM |
also there's some other problems
1) I don't have a job or actual income except $40/month from my mom 2) I don't have a car (yet) so my mom will have to drive me around which isn't cool at all |
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BloxOne
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| 29 May 2015 12:28 AM |
| Well, as I've said... if she doesn't like you because of those things, then she isn't a very good candidate for a relationship. You shouldn't have to craft a false image of yourself to get someone to like you. |
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CoolyZ
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| 29 May 2015 12:31 AM |
When ever you feel attracted to someone.
~Oppa Trollnam Style~ |
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| 29 May 2015 12:43 AM |
| I had a girlfriend in high school for all four years, and when I went off to college things didn't work out at all so we broke up and now im dating someone who I feel was better for me anyways |
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| 29 May 2015 12:45 AM |
I do know not to go spending money on her like crazy
my friend was in a long distance relationship over kik and he bought her a $300 necklace for valentine's day
I said don't do it but he did anyway
and she broke up with him before he sent it |
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