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| 19 May 2015 11:12 PM |
50/50 chance I'll get anything useful, but whatever
So last year I moved, and my friends never really talked to me afterwards. I would text them, but they never really replied too much, and we never talked unless I texted first. So we over time stopped talking pretty much. All my texts were ignored so often I quit trying. Last time we talked was maybe august, when I asked my friend why we didn't really talk so much. She seemed to feel really bad, said she didn't mean to be excluding me like that and was sure my other friends meant nothing by it. But whenever we would talk after that she always would cut it short, saying she had to be somewhere. They're always liking the things I post on different social media things though, which makes me wonder if they perhaps think I've just moved on or whatever.
Anyways, do you guys think it would be weird if I tried talking to them again tomorrow? Like just said hi, how are you? After so long without conversation I don't know if they just don't want to talk to me or think I don't want to talk to them or what. I just want to talk.
TL;DR: Friends and I stopped talking after I moved, I want to talk to them, would it be weird |
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| 19 May 2015 11:14 PM |
Yeah... Same with me...
"This whole situation makes my hair hurt!" -James, XY037 |
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| 19 May 2015 11:15 PM |
| I have almost the same problem |
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| 19 May 2015 11:16 PM |
>Yeah... Same with me...
This happened to me when I moved before too. Eventually we just stopped talking, and I lost a really good friendship, which was a lot of my fault I think. Don't want it to happen again. |
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| 19 May 2015 11:18 PM |
It wouldn't hurt trying. But take it slow, don't drag out conversations longer than they need to be.
-I'm Xord, your host tonight- |
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| 19 May 2015 11:21 PM |
@jian
The thing is, it's been a year and I haven't really made any friends. We were great friends and I don't want our friendship to have gone to waste if I'm part of the problem. |
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| 19 May 2015 11:28 PM |
| Definitely not. If you want to say hi, go ahead. Maybe your friend wasn't making excuses not to talk to you, perhaps she just legitimately had something come up. Anyway, don't over think it. |
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| 19 May 2015 11:29 PM |
| if they were good friends then shouldn't they also want to talk to you? it sounds like you're the only one trying to rekindle your friendship. plus you've asked them about it before, and if it didn't work then, i don't see why it would work now |
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| 19 May 2015 11:31 PM |
@an I'll try and remember that
@zip thanks She is pretty busy, I suppose it doesn't hurt to just try one more time and see. I can get pretty paranoid when it comes to stuff like that too, so I may have just been thinking the worst. |
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| 20 May 2015 12:10 AM |
| I know where you are coming from. I used to over think a lot and always assume the worst. Ya just gotta remember that people are people and usually don't have any malign intent. It's not like they are conspiring against you or anything. Take a chill pill and don't over think. |
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