CWRA0444
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| 12 May 2015 07:27 PM |
this is a serious question
were you born with it or did you decide?
...and thats why yellow makes me sad |
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Latchie
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| 12 May 2015 07:27 PM |
you can't decide to be lgbt
#fcute (NAMECHANGED FROM ANNABANANASPLITZ) |
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kawi297
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| 12 May 2015 07:28 PM |
| I'm sure I was born with it, it can't be something else, I always felt this way. I never felt the other way in my life. |
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Tyrannia
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| 12 May 2015 07:31 PM |
| Of course they decided! This is their lazy and lame excuse, "you can't chose to LBGT!", but no it actually is a choice! Im not LBGT, im straight but i am pretty sure that life is filled with choices! |
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| 12 May 2015 07:31 PM |
| Tyrannia, if you don't mind me asking, when and why? |
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Roxerism
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| 12 May 2015 07:31 PM |
born with it i never had feelings for girls the way i had with boys
love drug, love drug, overdosed and now I'm wasted |
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Roxerism
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| 12 May 2015 07:32 PM |
@mike im pretty sure experience>guess
love drug, love drug, overdosed and now I'm wasted |
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| 12 May 2015 07:33 PM |
Of course they decided! This is their lazy and lame excuse, "you can't chose to LBGT!", but no it actually is a choice! Im not LBGT, im straight but i am pretty sure that life is filled with choices!
I liked you, you defended me from some awful anti-LGBT flaming, I even put you on a couple of favourite OTer lists, but this... I wonder why I liked you in the first place... You practically lied to me about being accepting. |
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| 12 May 2015 07:35 PM |
I guess what I was trying to get at was that people who are LGBT are able to choose to change. I guess I know that LGBT is from birth, but you are able to change. With effort
Also, I apologize to every LGBTer I insulted with my previous post Especially you, roxerism.
...And that is why the TARDIS is composed of an infinite amount of rooms. |
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| 12 May 2015 07:35 PM |
Both.
I was born with a certain mindset and I choose to accept and follow that. See my point? A lot of Catholics that are hom's force themselves to be hetero so that they're accepted by their family. |
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| 12 May 2015 07:36 PM |
| To change? Fox, you are a straight guy, right? Can you just choose to start being attracted to men? It doesn't make a lot of sense... |
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Latchie
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| 12 May 2015 07:36 PM |
the funniest thing is honestly straight/cis people trying to say lgbt is a choice
#fcute (NAMECHANGED FROM ANNABANANASPLITZ) |
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| 12 May 2015 07:37 PM |
« Both.
I was born with a certain mindset and I choose to accept and follow that. See my point? A lot of Catholics that are hom's force themselves to be hetero so that they're accepted by their family. »
You can't be straight if you're LGBT though. You can't just decide who you're attracted to. That is not how attraction works. Those people are only faking being straight. |
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Peridork
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| 12 May 2015 07:37 PM |
| I think I was born this way. I've always felt more of an attraction to girls from a very young age, I just didn't know it at the time I guess. |
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| 12 May 2015 07:37 PM |
To rephrase, I didn't mean to say that can choose to be ''attracted" to men, but they can choose to date a girl if they try to.
...And that is why the TARDIS is composed of an infinite amount of rooms. |
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Roxerism
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| 12 May 2015 07:38 PM |
@fox no problem been called WAY WORSE things
love drug, love drug, overdosed and now I'm wasted |
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GoshiDoll
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| 12 May 2015 07:39 PM |
| It's not exactly a thing you're born with, it's more of a thing when your mind adapts to attraction and it goes from there. |
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| 12 May 2015 07:39 PM |
| That wouldn't make them straight, it would just mean they're pretending to be straight, while they'll always be LGBT. All that LG means is that you are attracted to same gender. You can date someone without being attracted to them. |
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| 12 May 2015 07:42 PM |
| No it is a choice, attraction is only a state of the mind! |
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Roxerism
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| 12 May 2015 07:43 PM |
mike i want you tomorrow to *try* to be "g4y" tell me how it works
love drug, love drug, overdosed and now I'm wasted |
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Skellor
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| 12 May 2015 07:43 PM |
"the funniest thing is honestly straight/cis people trying to say lgbt is a choice"
it shouldnt even matter if it is are not
people should be allowed to do whatever they choose to do |
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Tyrannia
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| 12 May 2015 07:43 PM |
"Tyrannia, if you don't mind me asking, when and why?"
I won't respond to that,mostly since it's more of a "personal" thing. |
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| 12 May 2015 07:45 PM |
| So you really did deceive me, Mike. Sorry but... I don't know if I could respect you now as I did before. |
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