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| 22 Mar 2015 01:48 PM |
I haven't felt happy at all lately because I've tried to accept too many people, and I don't mean to sound selfish, they're all lovely people and it's not their fault, but they're not the kind of people I enjoy being around.
I can only think of two or three real friends, and two of those won't come near me much anymore because the newer ones won't leave my side. As much as it's really flattering to have people who enjoy your friendship, it gets me down a lot. Every day I come to school and I'm met with a group crowding around me, shouting for my attention, talking to me about things that I can't relate to at all and changing the subject when I try, that's not friendship, that's tolerance.
None of that is their fault, it's my fault for taking them in and not saying anything sooner, I've tried to be somebody they won't like and I've tried to be as ignorant as I could be, but a lot of them didn't get the message.
What could I do to end the friendships? I know it's horrible, but everybody needs friendship, surrounding myself with people who make me feel annoyed and unhappy and losing the people who genuinely mean a lot to me can only end badly, you know? |
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| 22 Mar 2015 01:49 PM |
>asking OT for help
do the herkamuhr dance ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) |My main, GuestsLovePizza got terminated, add 2k | Officially a 10'er |
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| 22 Mar 2015 01:52 PM |
">asking OT for help"
i've been asking ot for help pretty much every day since 2009 trust me i'm a professional at this it's cool |
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| 22 Mar 2015 01:54 PM |
it's funny how life does this to you and the opposite to me and we're both unhappy with the current situation
it also teaches a lot about the importance of balance |
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| 22 Mar 2015 02:11 PM |
@qdhxx
I get you, a year ago I thought I'd be stuck with the one real friend I had for the rest of my life. One day I was okay, I don't know what started it but I didn't really mind being unpopular, it wasn't until a few months ago all of these friends started coming to me, which seemed great at first, but it probably wasn't the best idea to take it all.
It sounds stupid, but I promise it'll get better, even if you don't get all the friends in the world, I can say from experience that's not a good thing. If too many people try to get all up in your grill, please don't try to take them all on, that's how people end up as grumpy as I am.
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| 22 Mar 2015 02:21 PM |
it's not stupid, I know it will get better, but I'm fine right now as well. It can only get better, because I myself only get better as I get more life experience, knowledge and wisdom
I will learn from your words, so I won't get into the same situation you are in ever in my life. I may not be able to get you out of this, but you just got me out of it before it even happened. I thank you!! Have a weounderfule life! |
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