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| 09 Dec 2014 11:07 PM |
we'd walk to her house and we'd sit in her living room and talk to each other for hours
after all we've been through how could she just end up ignoring me |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:09 PM |
| instead of driving home today i left my car at school and walked the way we always would and back |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:11 PM |
oh my god
i feel you so much
do you need a hug |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:11 PM |
true obsession
and not the "good" kind |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:12 PM |
| What would be a reason to ignore you? |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:13 PM |
"oh my god
i feel you so much
do you need a hug"
i need a doctor
"true obsession
and not the "good" kind"
come back when you get past 8th grade |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:14 PM |
"What would be a reason to ignore you?"
She moved several states away when her mom got a new job
She knew I was sad about this and didn't understand it and got angry at me
it's hard to explain |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:14 PM |
| It's funny how you can get someone wrapped around your finger so easily with personalities and good looks. |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:14 PM |
this is making me so sad oh my god
if you need anybody to talk to op i'm here <3 |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:15 PM |
| she's mad that you can't move on |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:16 PM |
"she's mad that you can't move on"
That's not it
She moved back last year and went to my school and we talked some days after school
but then she just stopped talking to me again
all she cares about is her boyfriend |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:17 PM |
How would she be mad at your reaction? Wouldn't she feel the same?
My SO isn't states away, but she is in a city that is comparable to being states away.
It could be very well a defense mechanism to hide her feelings she's stocked inside. Perhaps she doesn't want to be around the scent of sadness, as it would pry open whatever she's stored inside. So she ignores you, in order to preserve her emotional stability.
Just like you holding poop when you are scared. Rather than dealing with it, you go somewhere else less scary.
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:19 PM |
"How would she be mad at your reaction? Wouldn't she feel the same?"
That's what I don't understand
I thought I'd never see her again and she didn't really care |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:20 PM |
The only reason why she would ignore you while she is in a current relationship is to have respect for her boyfriend.
I had a crush who I asked to Senior Prom, and she kept talking to me while I was in my current relationship. I had to slowly let her go in respects to my SO. I knew my nature, I had still underlying feelings to my crush, so I had to actively ignore her to not develop any feelings.
Hope this helped |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:22 PM |
She wants the d
But she scared to say so |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:26 PM |
"She wants the d
But she scared to say so"
I'm not a boy
"The only reason why she would ignore you while she is in a current relationship is to have respect for her boyfriend."
We've talked about her boyfriend before
I just don't think she ever liked me
let alone cared about me
i still love her |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:30 PM |
this is really making me upset because I can relate to quite a lot of this
trust me, op, it's agonizingly hard, but it may be best to move on
it isn't healthy to be like this, trust me I know from experience |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:31 PM |
"trust me, op, it's agonizingly hard, but it may be best to move on"
i have tried
"it isn't healthy to be like this, trust me I know from experience"
i wish i were dead |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:32 PM |
Well my friend the answer is obvious...
You can't make her love you, and if you do, it's not true love. You can't waste your life away in complete sorrow because she doesn't love you back. You can't hate her boyfriend because she is in love with him.
Just walk away from all of this, I mean it hurts, but really the generic things said are said the most. Because that is what many do in that situation and survive |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:32 PM |
don't say that, stop it.
there is somebody out there who is absolutely perfect for you, and it isn't this person
you just need to look |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:33 PM |
| You're gonna have to move on OP it's sad but sometimes you have to do it |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:34 PM |
"You can't make her love you, and if you do, it's not true love."
this isn't what I want
"You can't waste your life away in complete sorrow because she doesn't love you back."
No one I've ever dated has been like her and that is just how it is
"You can't hate her boyfriend because she is in love with him."
I don't hate him
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:35 PM |
"there is somebody out there who is absolutely perfect for you, and it isn't this person"
Everyone I've ever been with since she left has been inadequate
I can't connect with them like her |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:36 PM |
| Just a few months ago i went through the same experience as you op. I honestly hope you can look back on this and say "man that was dumb haha". |
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| 09 Dec 2014 11:36 PM |
it's year from what you want
you may think there's anybody like her, but I guarantee you there are others who are better
I promise you, things will get better |
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