lVlORIS
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| 21 Oct 2014 02:40 PM |
| No matter how hard you work towards something, you'll never get to a level where you're "happy enough" and you don't think you're even improving because you start going into loops of hopelessness about it? Maybe that's just me. |
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bear5813
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Timezones
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| 21 Oct 2014 02:43 PM |
I get that feeling sometimes.
Like, whenever I write a detailed story, I just keep telling myself it could be a lot better and eventually just put myself off writing for a while. I just don't feel it gets any better no matter how much I try.
Mainly why I started an OT story series, and then stopped it after the first. Kal keeps pestering me to continue. |
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Kuroato
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| 21 Oct 2014 02:44 PM |
| I don't because nobody is as big a loser as you moris |
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| 21 Oct 2014 02:47 PM |
Alright, often when a person begins utilizing extreme and unnecessary effort to reach a goal, the person's over-all perception of the situation often becomes distorted because they're consistently trying to focus on reaching that particular goal to the degree of being unable to recognize their progress.
There's nothing wrong with trying to reach a specific goal, the problems begins, however, when the person starts to focus on the goal to the extent of becoming overly-stressed when the progress isn't as quick as they expected. |
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Kuroato
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lVlORIS
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| 21 Oct 2014 02:49 PM |
@Timezones
Well I'm glad you keep trying.
@Anony
Wow, do you study this stuff, or something? You worded that very well. |
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Miuto
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| 21 Oct 2014 02:51 PM |
| So basically.... relapsing? |
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Kuroato
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| 21 Oct 2014 02:55 PM |
"moris i thought u quit"
He can't because he's a whiney indecisive greaseball |
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Kuroato
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| 21 Oct 2014 02:56 PM |
| No to mention weak-willed which is the most important and obvious of all. |
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lVlORIS
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:04 PM |
"So basically.... relapsing?"
*looks up relapsing*
Uh... sort of. It's like this: I walk into last class and sit all by myself at the far end of the table. I tell myself this: "You should scoot over to the other boys and take an interest in their conversation. Drop a clever line in there to spark an explosion of laughter and smile reassuringly."
Except I walk in there and not only do I not feel like talking or joining in to the conversation, I just don't feel like making eye-contact or even entertaining a brief, friendly chat. I literally withdraw within myself, just wanting the class to be over and involuntarily shooting down every extended invitation to be friendly to people.
It sucks because I can't overcome it no matter how hard I try... well, maybe I could, but it would feel really uncomfortable, which might just create a vaster field of the unaccomplished. I'll just feel even more hopeless. |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:13 PM |
Endless pursuits of happiness It's the reason I recommend living a life of hard drug abuse |
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lVlORIS
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:14 PM |
@Friendship
I've considered once or twice, but I've never even touched an illicit thing before, I don't want to start now. |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:33 PM |
"I've considered once or twice, but I've never even touched an illicit thing before, I don't want to start now."
Just ddddddddo it
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:35 PM |
In modern times the only thing that gets you anywhere is extremely long and hard work. And if you want more? Work twice as much. |
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Kuroato
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:35 PM |
"Just ddddddddo it"
Your peer-pressure is weak and ineffective, sound like you trying to convince yourself, not others. |
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lVlORIS
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:43 PM |
"In modern times the only thing that gets you anywhere is extremely long and hard work. And if you want more? Work twice as much."
I have to contend with the damned high-school so I can get a diploma. It's a load of bull.
"Your peer-pressure is weak and ineffective, sound like you trying to convince yourself, not others."
HAMSIS called, they want their trained professional explosive rodents back. |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:45 PM |
"Your peer-pressure is weak and ineffective, sound like you trying to convince yourself, not others."
Are you calling me a peer to Moris? The hell outta here with yourself
Besides, I need no convincing to do hard drugs Step it up, chum
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Kuroato
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:47 PM |
"HAMSIS called, they want their trained professional explosive rodents back."
But I borrowed them from you, what did you do with them this time? |
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Kuroato
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:48 PM |
"Are you calling me a peer to Moris? The hell outta here with yourself"
He called you "buddy" last night, buddy!
"Besides, I need no convincing to do hard drugs Step it up, chum"
So much fluff I'm about to take flight |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:50 PM |
"He called you 'buddy' last night, buddy!"
I'm not his buddy, friendo I'm not you're buddy either, pal
"So much fluff I'm about to take flight"
No ignition |
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lVlORIS
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:50 PM |
"But I borrowed them from you, what did you do with them this time?"
I was nursing them back to health and paying for very expensive bomb-removal surgery, tyvm. |
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Kuroato
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:51 PM |
I'm not his buddy, friendo
Talking to yourself again
I'm not you're buddy either, pal
And again |
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Artemie
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:51 PM |
| every perfectionist ever - including me |
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