jone1196
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:43 PM |
just bring her back to your place, or some romantic place, get really close, compliment her in shiz and go for the kiss when the time is right
if she reacts positively then consider yourself dating cause asking someone out is awkward AF and kinda pointless |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:43 PM |
| There's a difference between hooking up and starting a relationship. |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:44 PM |
um...
ima girl
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:44 PM |
| "Hey girl, I'm asking you to go out the front door." |
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jone1196
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:44 PM |
"There's a difference between hooking up and starting a relationship."
yeah hooking up is a one time fling (or multiple if youre good)
you guys should be close already so that she knows its not just a fling
if youre at a party this doesnt apply |
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jone1196
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:45 PM |
"um...
ima girl
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awkward
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lol prolly cause youre like 14 / 13 |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:46 PM |
@jone
Even if you're close, it can be a "fling". No one knows unless it is made clear. That is why you ask someone out. |
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jone1196
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:46 PM |
"Even if you're close, it can be a "fling". No one knows unless it is made clear. That is why you ask someone out."
its not a fling unless you start getting all in that and venturing south with your grabbers |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:47 PM |
'lol prolly cause youre like 14 / 13'
so would think a 16/17 yr old would go along with this? |
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jone1196
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:47 PM |
"so would think a 16/17 yr old would go along with this?"
17 - 19-ish
anymore over that and lunch is good enough |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:50 PM |
@Jone
I was simply using the word you used for "hooking up".
I have hooked up with someone very close to me before. We were not dating and it did not lead to a date. We had feelings for each other, but it did not lead to dating. Why? Because no one asked anyone for a relationship.
Once again, that is why you ask. It doesn't just "happen" unless both people go by your mentality (which I can say I have never heard until this very moment) and happen to guess that each other want a relationship at that exact moment. |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:50 PM |
| This is why relationships turn out awful in the future. |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:51 PM |
17 - 19
wow
pretty sure some are smart enough not to hook up when they are barley even an adult.
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jone1196
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:51 PM |
"I have hooked up with someone very close to me before. We were not dating and it did not lead to a date. We had feelings for each other, but it did not lead to dating. Why? Because no one asked anyone for a relationship."
i don't see the need for asking out
just text her something like "is it official?"
asking out before you do all this stuff is kinda weird, do it first then ask and she'll probably agree
"Once again, that is why you ask. It doesn't just "happen" unless both people go by your mentality (which I can say I have never heard until this very moment) and happen to guess that each other want a relationship at that exact moment."
HEAT OF THE MOMENT DUDE |
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Zakro
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:52 PM |
| wanna see my lego collection |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:52 PM |
Given I haven't hit puberty I can say it can be pointless
~"I hav gr8 b8 4 my m8 and I r8 it 8/8 and its so gr8 I flip my m8 (╯°□°)╯︵ ( ͜。 ͡ʖ ͜。) " - FestiveNicro~ |
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jone1196
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:52 PM |
"wanna see my lego collection"
zakro did you rim charles out yet |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:55 PM |
"i don't see the need for asking out"
Well then go on a mission to try to change the culture that has been embedded into western civilization since the 1920s (admittedly modified in the newer generation).
"asking out before you do all this stuff is kinda weird"
It's not weird. It's very normal.
"HEAT OF THE MOMENT DUDE"
This affects if hooking up happens or not. Not if relationships are formed. |
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Zakro
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:55 PM |
haven't gotten to that point yet or any point
i've been busy sucking up the place over at apocalypse rising i killed a guy with gusmanak's armor and stole his scar-l |
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:55 PM |
'Given I haven't hit puberty I can say it can be pointless'
PUBERTY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS. LOL. |
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lVlORIS
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:57 PM |
| It is pretty pointless if she feels like you just want her for THINGS... |
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jone1196
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| 21 Oct 2014 03:59 PM |
"Well then go on a mission to try to change the culture that has been embedded into western civilization since the 1920s (admittedly modified in the newer generation)."
teens eh
"It's not weird. It's very normal."
weird awkward af, i have the least awkward route here
asking out in general is awkward but just asking her if its official after you guys went on a 'date' and kissed and stuff is good
well if its not then yeah you got experience out of it
"This affects if hooking up happens or not. Not if relationships are formed."
hooking up is still good
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i aint looking for someone to settle with |
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| 21 Oct 2014 04:03 PM |
@Jone
So you are just against relationships because you aren't a fan of serious relationships? This entire thread seems like an opinion that you're trying to prove as fact. This is your preference, when you grow up- I am convinced you will not prefer your current preference. I assume you are a teenager or young adult? Your preference seems to line up with the prototypical boy in the age group of 13-20. |
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| 21 Oct 2014 04:04 PM |
| isnt this just asking a girl out with a nonverbal method? |
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