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| 08 Oct 2014 07:58 PM |
So basically I started liking my friends' sister. I sent a random FR request on Facebook, and she accepted, then I got her phone # and we started talking. She likes my Instagram posts and stuff... Anyways, so yesterday I said hey and asked how she was doing... Her: "I'm a bit sad... but that's life" Me: "What's wrong? I can help." Her: "Well I don't have many friends, and my parents can't afford private school, won't let me go to public school, and I'm sick of homeschooling." Me: "Aww... well I can understand why they won't let you go to a public school, but I bet you that you have a lot of friends... Even if you don't, you have me as a friend, and you have a family that loves you." Her: "Thanks, that helps" Me: "I know that wasn't much help, but your parents are doing that for a good reason... If you need anyone to talk to come to me. I'll be happy to help" Her: "Thank you so much, I gtg, goodnight" Next day... Me: "Hey!" Her: "Hey! Just got done with soccer!" Me: "Hru?" Her: "Ehh alright getting better... hbu?" Me: "Good... I mean now that I helped you... :)" Her: "Listen idk if you actually think of me as a friend (I hope so), but I want you to know that if you need someone to talk to, vent on, or whatever come to me. I want you to know that I care about you, and I'm happy to help at anytime. :)" Her: "You're awesome and if you ever need help I'm here too" Then I asked if she talked to others about this, and she said that they're careless I want her to like me... |
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| 08 Oct 2014 07:58 PM |
| Ask your friend for permission. |
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Darxal
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| 08 Oct 2014 07:59 PM |
tl;dr
stop staring at my epicness |
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:04 PM |
@Insert,
Was that serious answer? And why? Is she interested? |
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Akrylix
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:11 PM |
ask your friend permission, because im not sure hed enjoy you going out with his sister
www.roblox.com/--place?id=169994370 ~ will add spooki hallowen update ~ #roadto25k |
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:12 PM |
Well, ask his sister first, then ask him If she wants to, then ask your friend. If not, return to the regular terms. I was serious |
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Zaruq
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:13 PM |
Make a move on her and make sure your friend is okay with that |
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:15 PM |
Make a move
Excuse me, but that's inappropriate for school. |
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XTGNecro
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:16 PM |
| your friend is gonna get mad |
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:17 PM |
| But does she seem interested? |
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:21 PM |
The perfect thing to do is to do HW together but she's homeschooled
go somewhere with her like to a football game or something
you will find out if she likes you or not there
Excuse me, but that's inappropriate for school. |
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:22 PM |
Wait, so if I ask if we can hangout she won't be creeped? I don't exactly know if we're friends. |
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:25 PM |
Well I started flirting with her a bit, and she probably blushed. I told her she's a good soccer player and she's really pretty. And she gave me the Emoji with the smile, but red cheeks and said aww thanks. |
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:25 PM |
If you're not "exactly" friends then go on instagram or facebook and have some more chats with her
she may get that you like her
without even saying it she may notice so if she rejects you, then so what
I mean I'm not a guy that's an expert on relationships but I can give you some decent tips on how to start off.
Excuse me, but that's inappropriate for school. |
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Halo5307
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:27 PM |
ok, i will help you you seem to have a nice relatonship going on. just keep texting her and always be nice. That is what i did and now i have a gf too, its quite simple
~shonen jump subscriber, anime reader, gamer/modder~ |
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:28 PM |
@Halo,
I can't tell if she's just using me, or if she actually thinks of me as a friend and blushes every time I say stuff like that... |
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Vhut
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:30 PM |
"idk if you think of me as a friend" that means you have to make a move, or you done for |
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:31 PM |
@vhut,
You do know that's what I said, not her, right? Why would I need to make the move cause I asked that? |
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Halo5307
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:32 PM |
just take it slow. if they talk to you at all, they have to like you a little.
~shonen jump subscriber, anime reader, gamer/modder~ |
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:33 PM |
@Halo,
I'm just afraid of building a strong relationship with her then getting rejected. |
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Halo5307
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:35 PM |
well one thing is for sure, do NOT go fast. that is how you lose everything.
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:35 PM |
| i think ive accidentally clicked on this thread like 8 times now |
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| 08 Oct 2014 08:36 PM |
We're both 14... She'll lose interest faster the slower I go. |
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