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| 04 Oct 2014 10:36 AM |
She doesn't know I like her though, were just friends, and sadly I'm trying to keep it that way. Another girl I like has a crush on me too and she knows I like her. I don't know who I should go for first.. The first girl, Vivian, is leaving next July. The other, Brenna, is staying until her senior year.
And Brenna has "done it" before with several juniors (were freshmen) and that put me off a little, but Vivian is clean. If you were me, what would you do? |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:40 AM |
what are you waiting for?
go and capture her and place her in the kitchen |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:41 AM |
date vivian first brenna second
"The Sauza so malo...", and then she said "You need to grow up." |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:41 AM |
| make her doodle your noodle |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:42 AM |
I would go with the first one and when she leaves focus on the other.
Thats killing 2 birds with one stone.
(ง ͡ʘ ͜ʖ ͡ʘ)ง put up your dongers |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:43 AM |
Not James.
@Narutosrasengan
I understand where you're coming from, but can you explain why? |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:43 AM |
vivian go
"Peace under an illusion isn't true peace; it's only meaningful if the real world manages to accomplish it" |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:43 AM |
| make her doodle your noodle [2] |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:44 AM |
"And Brenna has "done it" before with several juniors (were freshmen) and that put me off a little, but Vivian is clean. If you were me, what would you do?"
I don't understand how that's relevant but ok |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:45 AM |
"I understand where you're coming from, but can you explain why?"
Well, the more obvious reason would be that Vivian is leaving so you should date her before she does However, if Brenna has indeed gone to third base and beyond, you might find it better to date someone who hasn't hit any bases yet and is (assumingly) as much of a novice as you are (assuming you haven't already)
"The Sauza so malo...", and then she said "You need to grow up." |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:46 AM |
@ssempre
I added that so I can help you guys figure out what I'm feeling. And no, I don't agree with THAT. So you can kinda figure out it put me away from Brenna a little. |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:47 AM |
| he feeling is mutual with the other one so why not try it? |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:48 AM |
@OP
if you're not going to date her because of personal acts that she's done in the past, you're a horrible person. end of story. she deserves someone better. |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:48 AM |
@Narutosrasengan
Yeah, I see. Vivian's not really comfortable talking about that kind of stuff, so I'm sure she won't let me get in her pants anytime soon. |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:48 AM |
vivian seems pure brenna seems like one of those dumb people who you knows with anyone how old are you she couldn't of seven damn times
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:50 AM |
"Yeah, I see. Vivian's not really comfortable talking about that kind of stuff, so I'm sure she won't let me get in her pants anytime soon."
VIVIAN LEGIT SEEMS LIKE AN ACTUALLY DECENT GIRL WHO DOESN'T LET JUST ANYONE Y'KNOW IS IT REALLY THAT HARD TO FIGURE OUT
"Peace under an illusion isn't true peace; it's only meaningful if the real world manages to accomplish it" |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:51 AM |
@ssempre
I'm trying to figure out where exactly I said I wasn't gonna date her because of her past.
Oh, that's right! I didn't say that!
I love both of them, really. All I said was that it made me jealous, somewhat. |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:52 AM |
@Pandaa
Wait, what? Slow down, bro, Im trying to figure out what you said. |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:52 AM |
and can i just say if you are struggling with this decision, if you do love them both it's gonna be hard being with just one person because soon enough you'll probably cheat or flirt with the other person if the relationship ever is to occur between one of yous
"Peace under an illusion isn't true peace; it's only meaningful if the real world manages to accomplish it" |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:57 AM |
@panda
one of them is leaving in july though so that relationship might end right there that is, unless vivian wants to do long-distance but that won't work for long
"The Sauza so malo...", and then she said "You need to grow up." |
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| 04 Oct 2014 10:59 AM |
Thanks guys. I'm scared to go beyond 2nd base or even asking a girl out- I've never had much experience with this kind of stuff.
@Pandaa Yeah, she's done it with several juniors, I'm 14 and she is too. The juniors were 16 and 17. I didn't know about this until today and it put me off quite a bit. |
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| 04 Oct 2014 11:02 AM |
date vivian
is vivian going far away to like a different state or just a different school? |
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| 04 Oct 2014 11:04 AM |
| vivian because she's worth it |
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