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Re: Humiliated at school :(

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GegenDenStrom is not online. GegenDenStrom
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25 Sep 2014 12:38 AM
I really want to complain about this.

I was put in a class for a grade lower than mine. The students in that grade haven't met me until this year, because I'm a rather reserved and quiet guy. Actually, I need to mention that I'm a transgender guy here so you get what I'm saying.

My legal gender is listed as female, and so on the attendance roster, the teachers can see that! They believe I'm a girl. I'm not though. It's a good thing my legal name on the roster is gender neutral (well, at least with pronunciation).

Introduced myself to those classmates, you know. All good, since I try really hard to look and act like a dude. They referred to me with masculine pronouns (he/him/his) and as a guy without me even asking for that or coming out as transgender. Everything's going all great.

Until we have to do group work today, when the teacher pointed to me and a few students around me. She said, "You four girls will be in a group." I pretended I wasn't part of the group. She said my name and told me to get in a group. I acted confused, saying, "But you said girls?"

Damn. It was just embarrassing. I could not express to you guys how embarrassed I felt. People started treating me weird and asking me questions... ugh...
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eeble is not online. eeble
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25 Sep 2014 12:40 AM
That's.. kind of sad, dude..
Why do you live the transgender life? Did you choose it, or are you being forced to, or..?
You don't have to answer any of those if they're too personal, but it's good to let things out.
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GegenDenStrom is not online. GegenDenStrom
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25 Sep 2014 12:41 AM
TL;DR: I am transgender, female-to-male. I was in a class and unfamiliar with all the students. Every student there knew that I was a dude. The teacher thought I was a girl because the student roster said I was. She unknowingly outed me to the class. Students now treating me weird and making rude comments about it.
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ProblemOfficers is not online. ProblemOfficers
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25 Sep 2014 12:42 AM
That's sad.
Why are you a grade behind though?
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GegenDenStrom is not online. GegenDenStrom
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25 Sep 2014 12:43 AM
I don't think I made a conscious decision when I was six years old to be transgender all my life, no. Not being forced either, my parents aren't too accepting of this. It might sound crazy but I think it was just an inborn thing for me. I was never girly and I don't think I identified as a girl even once.
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CookedToothpaste is not online. CookedToothpaste
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25 Sep 2014 12:44 AM
not as bad as my 1st grade teacher
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GegenDenStrom is not online. GegenDenStrom
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25 Sep 2014 12:45 AM
ProblemOfficers, sort of hard to explain. I didn't fail a grade or anything, it's just that I took different courses of science. I chose to go back two grades in science so that I could get higher-level science than I did before.
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eeble is not online. eeble
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25 Sep 2014 12:46 AM
That's funny, I consider myself a very feminine male but I'm not transgender. (I do have an attraction to men along with women, unsurprisingly.) I've heard stories of parents forcing children to live transgender lives because they didn't come out how they wanted, so I was a bit worried there.

Hope you get better buddy, and if you need to talk about anything else privately, I'm sure I could at least listen to you without terribly judging you.
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GegenDenStrom is not online. GegenDenStrom
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25 Sep 2014 12:53 AM
Okay, I'll keep you on my friend's list and send PMs if I really need to, I guess.
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Geomitrix is not online. Geomitrix
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25 Sep 2014 01:06 AM
People are cruel in this world.
if your not "normal" society won't accept you.
just try to survive in this world, dont mind what anyone else thinks
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superdoosh3 is not online. superdoosh3
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25 Sep 2014 01:08 AM
Well, if roblox hadn't destroyed my first amendment rights, I'd tell you honestly what I believe, but unfortunately I would get banned for saying what I want. Your teacher is goin to He_l I'l put it that way.
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IAmARenegade is not online. IAmARenegade
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25 Sep 2014 01:08 AM
You were born a lady and you shall be treated as such. Deal with it.
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GegenDenStrom is not online. GegenDenStrom
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25 Sep 2014 08:47 AM
No one is born a lady, Renegade. That doesn't make any sense. You don't call newborns "ladies", do you? Anyway, my neurological sex is male. Guess what's the most important organ in your body? Nope, it's not the genitals like you believe, but it's actually the brain! By golly, who would have known?!
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Supermegamash is not online. Supermegamash
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25 Sep 2014 08:51 AM
that kinda sucks, but I don't think it should get you down
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GegenDenStrom is not online. GegenDenStrom
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25 Sep 2014 08:53 AM
I don't want to be known as a "girl" in my class. It makes me wince whenever I'm called "she". :(
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ProblemOfficers is not online. ProblemOfficers
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25 Sep 2014 08:57 AM
can't to just talk to your teacher or somethin
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GegenDenStrom is not online. GegenDenStrom
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25 Sep 2014 08:58 AM
My mum called her and told her about this, it's all good now.
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ProblemOfficers is not online. ProblemOfficers
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25 Sep 2014 09:01 AM
i thought you said your parents didnt like it that you were trans though.
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Th32Gruntey is not online. Th32Gruntey
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25 Sep 2014 09:04 AM
That's sad ;-;
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creativefreek is not online. creativefreek
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25 Sep 2014 09:06 AM
Everyone is born as a girl.

I like making my siggy have references to things that only a few people will get
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d4rk652 is not online. d4rk652
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25 Sep 2014 09:06 AM
Wow,thats kind of depressing.
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ConvexPolygon is not online. ConvexPolygon
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25 Sep 2014 09:14 AM
burn the teechers!!!
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ZeveI is not online. ZeveI
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25 Sep 2014 09:15 AM
rofl
brb dying irl

post ur thots below!111 nd dunt 4get 2 send me offrs!111
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piepie is not online. piepie
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25 Sep 2014 09:17 AM
i'd like to have some radical bouncing curves tho
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GegenDenStrom is not online. GegenDenStrom
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25 Sep 2014 04:44 PM
"i thought you said your parents didnt like it that you were trans though."

Mum can sort of deal with it now.
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