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| 07 Sep 2014 07:31 PM |
My boyfriend is an actual neo-Nazi, he even said it himself. But he became permanently blind a while ago. He doesn't know that I'm part of a race/ethnicity that he hates and often rants about. I've kept him from meeting my parents who have the accent of my homeland, made a pseudonym to match his ethnicity, etc. I'm just so scared a friend of mine might accidentally slip and say my real name instead of that pseudonym.
Is it wrong to me to lie to him in this way? Should I tell him or what? |
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AsheinVI
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| 07 Sep 2014 07:32 PM |
no i think love is love
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| 07 Sep 2014 07:33 PM |
Taking advantage of blind people. Shame on you. alsoiknowthisisatrollbutiliketopretendthattrollsarelegit |
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Kaidou
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| 07 Sep 2014 07:34 PM |
| Yes, it's wrong. A real relationship should involve communication and trust. |
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| 07 Sep 2014 07:37 PM |
@AsheinVI That's true, but if I come out to him, maybe he'd stop loving me. Maybe he doesn't truly love me. But I have to tell him because that would be much better than him finding out through someone else.
@seventhplague No kidding. He is ripped and has a very strong hatred for my homeland. So scary...
@kidfromtheschool Is it really taking advantage of him? He actually likes my personality. |
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| 07 Sep 2014 07:38 PM |
| Look, tell him the truth, if he finds it out himself, he will be even more angry. If he doesn't love you anymore, he never actually did. He loved an illusion of you. |
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| 07 Sep 2014 07:39 PM |
| Make him do the Hot Sauce bucket challenge its a new challenge to help cure blindness. I think... |
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| 07 Sep 2014 07:40 PM |
But he loves me for my personality. That's true love, isn't it? It wouldn't be any different if I was actually of his ethnicity.
What I'm most scared of is him being violent towards me if I tell him. |
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| 07 Sep 2014 07:42 PM |
Yell "Heil fuhrer" while making love to him
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TextBased
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| 07 Sep 2014 07:43 PM |
"No kidding. He is ripped and has a very strong hatred for my homeland. So scary..." "What I'm most scared of is him being violent towards me if I tell him."
He's blind though |
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jonny1367
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| 07 Sep 2014 07:44 PM |
| Yell out قصف جميع الأميركيين |
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| 07 Sep 2014 07:45 PM |
@shadowflar
Yeah, he is. But still. |
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