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| 06 Sep 2014 12:12 AM |
I have bought nothing.
Am I totally fked? Or is there a chance I can get her something nice..? |
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:13 AM |
| I'm usually pretty good with these things, but ya know... |
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SilaceII
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:15 AM |
| Get her a bundle of flowers and take her to a nice dinner |
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:17 AM |
I was thinking,
Her birth stone is a Saphire and she likes necklaces..so I was gonna get her one of those, take her to dinner(Nothing to fancy but you know a little bit of a drive, so gas money), and a movie. |
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Paracosm
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:18 AM |
I'm a musician. I did that already for her, several times.
Even wrote her songs. |
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:19 AM |
Spend the entire day not talking to her and then text her at 1 AM that you no longer have feelings for her
The end, no more problem with gifts
Every Vaktovian Is Lemons |
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:19 AM |
| >You clearly have never had a good relationship. |
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:20 AM |
Suprise her.
I give out relationship advice/tips/counsel/someone to talk to.
but it's better if you do something from the heart.
I totally agree with you on the gift.
But if she is a gold digger, then you have show her your love through your actions
Do something very moving for her
If she doesn't expect much from you (as in money and the such), then try to give her something very meaningful.
Don't just grab something small from the store, grab something meaningful.
If she get's angry, forgive.
Don't get angry over small things, love forgives
1 Corinthians 13:4-13
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
When you do love her, have no want for love from her.
Ask not in return.
Love her to all ends, but have no need for her love.
Love her unconditionally.
On no conditions do you love her.
Just to love her would be the greatest honor.
That is the mentality you need. :)
Hey man, I'm always here for you, if you ever need anything or help, I am here, if someone you know is going through a very hard time. I will help them |
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Paracosm
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:22 AM |
| She's no gold digger. She got mad at me for spending 10 dollars on her. You could say I go above and beyond for her emotionally and lovingly. We've had our problems but she never went for any other guy when they asked her even when we separated for a month she refused. I did the same. |
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:22 AM |
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Every Vaktovian Is Lemons |
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Paracosm
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:25 AM |
| Well she left me for 'thinking time' because we were not in a good state of mind. In all that thinking time I had 4 people ask me or tell me they were really into me. Didn't budge, took her back the day she asked. |
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:25 AM |
Paracosm
I am 14.
I feel very protective of a certain girl.
But Yes, I do not understand the concept of "love"
I am too young to understand what "love" is, I also have a lifetime to find out what it is.
The world is a great lie.
They try to classify things.
They try to classify you into a religion, that's why wars happen.
They call you good or bad
There is not good or bad
Example :The glass is either half full or half empty, the truth it, be thankful you have a glass and water.
The world is not of love, that is why there is not word for the other types of Love.
The world is full of hate and evil.
The Bible is full of love.
There is rebuke, there are also teachings.
And Paracosm, I am trying to help him.
But yes, if you need advice, I will help you in your point of view.
And remember, read the whole thing before complaining. |
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Paracosm
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:27 AM |
@Dis Take her to the back stall. |
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:27 AM |
Discourager.
Remember, people can get hurt very very badly in love.
Remember, Have NO want for love back.
Expect no love from her.
That is the only way you won't get hurt :)
And when the time is right, she will be the one. |
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:27 AM |
| No, neither of us want to do that. It's only been a year and I'm not deciding to do any of that unless I marry her, which who knows, I hope, not sure, so far she hopes. |
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Paracosm
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Bixxor
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| 06 Sep 2014 12:28 AM |
Encrested Saphire Necklace.
Dinner
Movie
and then go home have some fun maybe
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