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Re: i hate the idea of everybody wins

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reddanger is not online. reddanger
Joined: 27 May 2009
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10 Aug 2014 01:07 AM
constantly influencing the way a child thinks

like

oh you lost that soccer game

DON'T WORRY

EVERYBODY WINS

YOU GET A TROPHY

AND YOU GET A TROPHY

EVERYBODY GETS A TROPHY :DDD

this is not how it works in the real world

you may be scraping off every single amount of money you have or you could be making millions of dollars

and this applies to so many things

the issue with it is that when this person suddenly doesn't get that trophy are they going to end up going crazy thinking it's the end of the world?

like teaching a child to cope with failure and not getting what you want can go a long way

meanwhile teaching a child that failure will never happen, it just won't do so well when they get older and finally meet a failure that hits way harder than it should

;)
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slayer9991 is not online. slayer9991
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10 Aug 2014 01:08 AM
debbie downer

negative nancy

lackluster larry

pessimistic pete
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drwho13 is not online. drwho13
Joined: 28 Oct 2010
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10 Aug 2014 01:08 AM
if i was a father i would, of course, watch out for them

but let them cope with their failure
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lol245 is not online. lol245
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10 Aug 2014 01:09 AM
OH MY GOD OP
IT TOTALLY AFFECTS YOU, SO YOU OBVIOUSLY MUST GET BUTTHURT OVER IT!

"We all make choices, but in the end our choices make us."
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WhenPigsFly123 is not online. WhenPigsFly123
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10 Aug 2014 01:10 AM
why not let little kids believe everyone won?

of course they have to learn eventually that someone has to be the winner, and teach them that THEY should be the winner

but for god sakes just let the kids be kids
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superCrazyHuman is not online. superCrazyHuman
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10 Aug 2014 01:10 AM
I used to hate getting "participation" rewards when I was little.
I think it's because I was raised on the philosophy "life's not fair"
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reddanger is not online. reddanger
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10 Aug 2014 01:10 AM
i'm not going to have them kill a person and cope with going to prison

it's just that being so overprotective is tipping the scale way too much

;)
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reddanger is not online. reddanger
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10 Aug 2014 01:11 AM
"kids"

i am talking about people raising their child this way even into the teen and young adult years

;)
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drwho13 is not online. drwho13
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10 Aug 2014 01:11 AM
i meant to a limit
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lol245 is not online. lol245
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10 Aug 2014 01:12 AM
....and i was ignored

"We all make choices, but in the end our choices make us."
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reddanger is not online. reddanger
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10 Aug 2014 01:16 AM
having a balance of protecting your child and letting them see the real world would be nice

like

don't unleash all hell upon them

but don't make them think the world is rainbows and lollipops all the way up until they move out

;)
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LolHatz is not online. LolHatz
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10 Aug 2014 01:17 AM
Everybody loses.
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WhenPigsFly123 is not online. WhenPigsFly123
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10 Aug 2014 01:18 AM
"but don't make them think the world is rainbows and lollipops all the way up until they move out"

if parents do this then it's just bad parenting

one way or another the kid's going to find out how screwed the world is, the parents either have to show them or the world is going to.
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reddanger is not online. reddanger
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10 Aug 2014 01:20 AM
the world showing them is far worse than the parents showing them

like

you have protective people over you

that's nice

yet

having no protective people?

oh my gosh that would be horrific

;)
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reddanger is not online. reddanger
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10 Aug 2014 01:21 AM
"everybody loses."

yep

some lose more and some lose less

;)
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WhenPigsFly123 is not online. WhenPigsFly123
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10 Aug 2014 01:24 AM
i like the internet because it taught me a lot about toughening up and lot letting things get to you

the internet taught me more than my parents could have
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reddanger is not online. reddanger
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10 Aug 2014 01:27 AM
"taught me more"

my parents aren't bad but i learned so much

as

if i didn't go on the internet

i would not be at the writers workshop

i would not be reading my work

i would not be writing

i wouldn't even wear what i want to

i would basically be a person i'm not and so fragile to where i'd hurt myself because of it

;)
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megakiller22 is not online. megakiller22
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10 Aug 2014 01:29 AM
Everybody wins takes away from the actual competition.

You compete to try to win out over your opponents, the idea of "everybody wins" defeats the whole purpose of playing a soccer game except for like exercise.
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