RD1013
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:22 PM |
So, I've been thinking about myself as a person lately, because I'm pretty sure I have some serious problems. I mean, I've used "I have aspergers" as an excuse for everything I do wrong, but I seriously think it's more than that.
I think I've become overly self-conscious about myself, and I'm pretty sure it's because I only recently realized that I have no friends, and that people seem to avoid me. Or maybe they don't and I'm just paranoid, I don't know.
Let me put how I feel about the whole situation this way: You know how I watch South Park obsessively, right? Well, despite the fact that I love it, it's actually kinda painful for me to watch it, simply because of the fact that it shows groups of friends, which I don't have.
Anybody on OT wanna talk about this kinda thing?
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:23 PM |
"it shows groups of friends, which I don't have"
i feel you |
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RD1013
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:24 PM |
So, because of that, I've kinda started to treat the characters from the show as friends, and I think that may classify me as insane. I don't even know.
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Scootrbro
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RD1013
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:30 PM |
"why should we care" there's the OT I know <3
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RD1013
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:35 PM |
bump
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:36 PM |
| what exactly do you mean by treating them as friends |
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Domitory
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:37 PM |
You have lack of self-esteem, I feel your pain.
"Damn girl, are you a fire alarm? Because you're loud and really annoying, shut the hell up." |
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DJVERY
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:37 PM |
| online friends > real friends |
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RD1013
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:38 PM |
@unrealized Kinda in a way that I'll watch episodes of the show just to simulate having friends. It's weird.
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:39 PM |
that's kinda depressing but i doubt that's insanity you should probably try to make actual friends though |
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iwantpsp
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:41 PM |
online friends > real friends x2 most of the time anyway |
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RD1013
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:44 PM |
This is kinda personal, but we actually hired a counselor just to keep me company. I really want to talk to him about this kind of thing just to get it all off my chest, but I'm kinda worried I would be seen as a total lunatic.
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iwantpsp
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:46 PM |
Honestly, I used to kind of be like that. My only friends were pretty much my pets and online friends. I've made a friend, which he introduced me to multiple friends. It seems that, once you make a friend, you'll meet 1 or 2 more. |
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RD1013
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:50 PM |
bump
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RD1013
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| 05 Aug 2014 11:52 PM |
another bump
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ScaredAk
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| 06 Aug 2014 12:00 AM |
| Don't say that. You have friends. |
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RD1013
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| 06 Aug 2014 12:06 AM |
@scaredAK what do you mean "I have friends" I'm pretty sure I would know if I didn't
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ScaredAk
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| 06 Aug 2014 12:07 AM |
| Look at what these people are saying. You also have virtual friends, they're humans too. |
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RD1013
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| 06 Aug 2014 07:39 AM |
I don't even know, mang
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Kadecamz
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| 06 Aug 2014 07:40 AM |
You have burgers in your ass? Support. |
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67thave
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| 06 Aug 2014 07:41 AM |
Listen here, 101. I have Asperger's also, and I have quite a few friends. It certainly helps that living in the biggest city in the nation means you have more people that could become friends with you.
However, an important thing to know is that I tend to find it a LOT easier to make friends with people who have Aspergers and/or ADHD. |
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ZachHelms
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| 06 Aug 2014 07:42 AM |
I swear it's like I'm the only damn person on this subforum that ACTUALLY HAS FRIENDS. I have aspergers too! It's really not that hard to go out there and greet them. |
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jasdevil7
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| 06 Aug 2014 07:42 AM |
I live in a household with a secure financial situation, I'm doing well in school, I am reasonably attractive, I have a large group of friends + a girlfriend, and I'm going on exchange next year. Yet I still feel completely unfulfilled. why |
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