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| 14 Jul 2014 01:58 AM |
| If anyone wants to ask me anything serious, I'll be here. |
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:00 AM |
it`s 3 am should i go to bed |
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:02 AM |
@pokemon
Well I'll need some information. Are you tired, miss? And what is the usual time you go to bed? |
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:03 AM |
i am very tired i usually go to bed around 11 but the past few nights ive stayed up until daylight and then passed out |
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Mossbird
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:03 AM |
| What is your favorite color? |
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:05 AM |
@pokemon
Get to bed then! :)
@mossbird
I like a dark purple. I think it's very classy. |
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:06 AM |
OK then i shall i just needed some assurance |
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:08 AM |
| Colors are so fascinating. |
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:09 AM |
@silent
No, not really. They're just existent to me. |
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:11 AM |
| Hey, if anyone's up for philosophy, I'm down. :D |
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wazap
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Zipo99
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:15 AM |
I've got a girl with a crush on me yet also has a boyfriend (I think he is poisonous but I won't describe him now). She wants to sort of have both of us at once. She doesn't want to lose someone she has "fought so hard to keep," so she won't dump her boyfriend even if that means essentially holding onto a hot coal--she keeps getting burned. Anyhow, how do I go about creating that boundary with her that she either has him as her boyfriend and I am just a friend (with all the privileges as a friend*) or her boyfriend without giving her an ultimatum (I hate ultimatums)?
*She talks to be about THAT stuff, fantasies, etc... Ya know, not common friend stuff. I'd like to keep it friend level if she is dating someone else. He might be poison for her, but I do honor the bro code. |
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:15 AM |
@wazap
While no one can either confirm or deny his existence, the probable answer is no. However, when the person who created the idea of god did so, did he really mean that god was an actual entity in the sky? Do others believe that? Or do they just believe there are some laws governing all of the world, and the universe, now that we've discovered there's much more outside of our planet?
If they were indeed looking for certain things governing all of existence, weren't they just seeking the laws of physics? I think physics, therefore, is in some way or another, the true study of religion. And religion is belief in physics. :) |
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Zipo99
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:16 AM |
| Oh, and did you read the post that I sent you because apparently a word is breaking the rules? |
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wazap
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:21 AM |
@zipo
Oh, wow, well I actually relate to you a lot more than you think. Because the same thing happened with me, and I guess I won.
Well, if she really does love your company, then you can reserve yourself as a way to say you can't give your all if she won't fully accept you as hers. Make sure she really knows why you reserved yourself, though. Be serious when stating it, and let her know you have lots of interest in her.
Other than that, you can try flirting techniques to further win her over. Good eye contact, good humor, expressing common interests, and whatnot.
You can remind her of why she has a boyfriend but yet is wanting more.
I also have this to say. Be very sure you want her. This can be disastrous. If she does end up choosing you, then you've won a girl that has been flirting with a guy (you) while devoted to someone. That's surely shady. |
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:22 AM |
@zipo
Sent me in message form? If so, then no, I haven't received any messages.
@wazap
Awe, thanks. :3 |
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:23 AM |
@wazap
I thought it'd be cool to tie in physics btw because you just said you liked it in your Q&A. xD |
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| 14 Jul 2014 02:29 AM |
@zipo
Oh, I forgot to mention one more thing. Personally, for me, I never really won, because after the breakup, she was really sad about it for weeks and didn't want to do anything. When we finally did stuff, she was reluctant to call me hers. Anyway, in the end, it really didn't work out. So seriously, make sure she's really really worth it. |
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Zipo99
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| 14 Jul 2014 03:16 AM |
Thanks for the advice, Livin. I'll try that out later. I just went through my first "I don't know what the hell I did wrong but I'm really in trouble" misunderstanding with her. Gosh did I feel like a deer in headlights. It's not worked out yet, but I did get her to pause and call me adorable when I suggested a pause button:
"One bump in the road doesn't mean that everything has to be bumpy until it is fixed. I have a proposal for you when you wake up: A pause button for fights and misunderstandings. When paused it is as if nothing ever happened and we are still happy as clams (supposing clams are happy). When paused no mention of the disagreement may be brought up until both parties agree on unpausing in order to work out the issue. That way tough patches don't act like a dampener on the entire relationship, and will allow us to take a step back into good faith. No brooding is aloud during a pause. No passive aggression is aloud during the pause."
My friends often relate my relationship with "all the stress of having a girlfriend yet none of the perks." She's a wonderful person who is dealing with a lot of struggle and hardships (Her mom is a meth addict and blames her, her dad is abusive and has two girlfriends who hate each other and her, plus she has a cheating, needy, possessive boyfriend). I don't blame her for trying to sustain happiness, even if some of her choices I don't agree with.
Ya know when someone says something is complicated, but it really isn't? I hate when people do that. Trust me when I say my relationship with her is complicated. |
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| 14 Jul 2014 03:21 AM |
Aw. That pause button idea was cute. xD
You're a good person for talking to her, dude. That sounds hard on her. But if there are signs that she's actually affected by her hard life, which I'm sure she is, and that she is actually a turd, then you should really keep that in mind. People can be a lot nicer when you either haven't known them that long, haven't known them very well, or are in a romantic phase.
So yeah, that sounds complicated. Just... watch out, dude. Emo girls can be pretty crappy. That's all I have to say for tonight. |
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Zipo99
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| 14 Jul 2014 03:22 AM |
@Livin, I detached myself from a romantic infatuation with her a a couple weeks ago when she said she valued her relationship with her boyfriend too much an our friendship was getting in the way so I shouldn't talk to her again. That sort of broke the spell. Now I just want to be her friend (and a dam good one) and help her out. Sometimes unfriend-like conversations seep back in, though.
(she talks to me now because I sent her a goodbye email that made her cry. Ya know when someone has been mean to you and you respond with compassion and they hate themselves for it? Ya, that's what happened. I'm fairly good with words and wooing, and I meant what I said in the email. I pretty much told her that I didn't blame her for that decision, that I would always be there as a friend, yet I surely would not wait for her. Oh, and I wished her happy birthday.) |
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| 14 Jul 2014 03:24 AM |
She isn't emo... She is just a teenage girl living a tough life and trying to make the best of it (although she is going about it poorly).
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| 14 Jul 2014 03:24 AM |
| Hey, Livinarock. Do you live in a rock? |
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