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OTMoris is not online. OTMoris
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30 Jun 2014 06:01 PM
When I used to go to public school, kids would insult me a lot. I was probably asking for it, but they could've given me time to adjust to the public school system. The harsh treatment did whip me into shape, however, and I felt myself maturing. Around 7th grade I was in new territory and when I was harassed, I'd brood about it like a sociopath, having daytime fantasies of physically rek'ing my tormentors.

I close myself up from other people so they can't criticize me for something I said or did. People ask me why I'm so quiet, and I didn't know what to say. Now I do: "I have social anxiety because I take things very personally. If I were to open myself up to someone too early, I would allow myself to become that brooding sociopath again. I do not want that."
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TroopLoop123 is not online. TroopLoop123
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30 Jun 2014 06:03 PM
im rlly awkward so ppl think im weird and im also scared of older people at my school so yeah
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XxthekittyloverxX is not online. XxthekittyloverxX
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30 Jun 2014 06:03 PM
Got bullied
Punched the bully in the face
Went to the mental hospital for as year.
~based of a true story~
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DerpWithMe is not online. DerpWithMe
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30 Jun 2014 06:04 PM
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OTMoris is not online. OTMoris
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30 Jun 2014 06:04 PM
@TroopLoop

Awkward girls are cute, tho. :3

@xxthekittyloverxx

Damn. That's stupid.
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XTGNecro is not online. XTGNecro
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30 Jun 2014 06:04 PM
I'm short
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Stevelacey is not online. Stevelacey
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30 Jun 2014 06:05 PM
i dont have one
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firefrankerZ is not online. firefrankerZ
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30 Jun 2014 06:07 PM
I don't really have some

tho I'm not confident with girls at all
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nramsey is not online. nramsey
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30 Jun 2014 06:08 PM
I seldom experience social anxiety.
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supernavo is not online. supernavo
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30 Jun 2014 06:09 PM
@Fire

I know how you feel. I always blush or feel my legs shake everytime I'm with my crush. and whats worst is that my crush hangs out at my Best friend's house nearly everyday.
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firefrankerZ is not online. firefrankerZ
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30 Jun 2014 06:10 PM
"@Fire

I know how you feel. I always blush or feel my legs shake everytime I'm with my crush. and whats worst is that my crush hangs out at my Best friend's house nearly everyday."

Mines gone

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OTMoris is not online. OTMoris
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30 Jun 2014 06:12 PM
Girls have shot me down so often in the past that I don't even wanna be around them anymore. If you don't play by their code of feelings and crap and make a mistake, they will b-out at you like nobody's business and it always has to be your fault , every time.

PLATONIC BROTHERHOOD, FTW.
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SupahBoshi64 is not online. SupahBoshi64
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30 Jun 2014 06:14 PM
Used to get bullied badly back in 3rd-5th grade
Always was shy from the start
I've always been a scaredy-cat in general
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firefrankerZ is not online. firefrankerZ
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30 Jun 2014 06:15 PM
"Girls have shot me down so often in the past that I don't even wanna be around them anymore. If you don't play by their code of feelings and crap and make a mistake, they will b-out at you like nobody's business and it always has to be your fault , every time."

I've never gotten super close to a girl to ask out

I mean idk I'm just not confident at all
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soniclover88888 is not online. soniclover88888
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30 Jun 2014 06:16 PM
no one talked to me in kindergarten through third grade, i was a scrublord, i had like 3 friends, all the popular people would call my bluffs, I was a massive nerd

that does not phase me

i became extremely popular in fifth grade and now have a very sizable friend base in high school



the ogrelord smiles brightly
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shadow97 is not online. shadow97
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30 Jun 2014 06:18 PM
I don't have social anxiety
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ShoeTap is not online. ShoeTap
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30 Jun 2014 06:19 PM
well, oh god, i feel open right now so here we go

it's always hard to explain for me, but it started a couple years ago when i thought i deserved to die, (that was kind of hard saying that) and i thought i couldnt talk to people because i had low self esteem, then there's another part to this story which is private and slightly disturbing, i'm lazy and don't feel like bringing back the memories

but after a while i became selective mute, which slowly started to fade when i became less scared that people would yell at me for talking because i would always think everything i say is wrong, stupid, or would affect others, et cetera

i still stutter a lot when talking to people i don't know, or usually have long pauses between everything, thinking of things to say

i'm still pretty f'ed up with my social anxiety

but it got so bad (i still do this, sadly) i never went up to the cashier, waiter, et cetera, i don't order my own food, et cetera, i have whoever is with me do it for me (i feel bad about it)

but my dad forces me to talk, (one of the reasons i stopped talking selectively)

ok, i did it
i said it
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apieceofabrick120 is not online. apieceofabrick120
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30 Jun 2014 06:19 PM
Autism
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Xingg is not online. Xingg
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30 Jun 2014 06:20 PM
my brothers are literal scrubs to me everyday
then they say "oh lol it's jsut a ajoeke cnant yoyu tkae a joekek!?1/!!?1/1/?!?1/1//!one"
i'm also afraid of being rejected, so i don't talk to people a lot if i want to hang out with them
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firefrankerZ is not online. firefrankerZ
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30 Jun 2014 06:23 PM
@shadow

come play xbox with me noob
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nikplz is not online. nikplz
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30 Jun 2014 06:24 PM
i'm not awkward AF so i don't have social anxiety. i am shy tho that's about it.
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Nteorvolri is not online. Nteorvolri
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30 Jun 2014 06:24 PM
no social anxiety

I just am harassed by kids and I don't take any of it
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MrPhelps is not online. MrPhelps
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30 Jun 2014 06:25 PM
I have voiced it perfectly here:

http://www.roblox.com/Social-Anxiety-place?id=164033850






~OT Arkham Knight~
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OTMoris is not online. OTMoris
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30 Jun 2014 06:25 PM
@ShoeTap

I read that all, and something in particular caught my attention:

"scared that people would yell at me for talking because i would always think everything i say is wrong, stupid, or would affect others, et cetera"

THIS. When I try saying something scientific, someone calls me an idiot. When I say something wrong, someone corrects me in a rude manner. I used to get shot down so much and I'd just get so angry that I didn't know how to retaliate.

"i still stutter a lot when talking to people i don't know, or usually have long pauses between everything, thinking of things to say"

I talk quietly, in low tones, and stumble over my words like a dark cave full of boulders. It's especially tough when they don't communicate back to me. So I know how that feels, too.

"but it got so bad (i still do this, sadly) i never went up to the cashier, waiter, et cetera, i don't order my own food, et cetera, i have whoever is with me do it for me (i feel bad about it)"

I have to summon a buncha' courage just to do those things. Keep trying, though, even if you do sound like a robot. Just an encouraging thought, tho...

Thanks for sharing that, Shoe.
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ShoeTap is not online. ShoeTap
Joined: 16 Sep 2012
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30 Jun 2014 06:25 PM
"I just am harassed by kids and I don't take any of it"

how
how
how
how
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