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| 24 Jun 2014 08:20 PM |
People talk badly about me and make fun of me for stupid stuff. It tends to be a very poor town I work in (I'm not poor at all), they don't have cars so I think they are insecure with themselves.
1. They make fun of me for saying "it will ready on the side" to people in drive thru. You have to drive left to get to the side of the building for your food.
2. A girl told me to shut the (beep) up because I jokingly said sh (I was smiling and teasing her) (I can explain more if needed)
3. As soon as I came in for working, they said I was a know it all behind my back because I worked hard
4. My boss (lower boss) makes fun of me for the ready on the side thing too.
how would you handle this? (Besides quitting)
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:21 PM |
put one of them in the oven
they fear you |
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:22 PM |
| Why do you think they fear me? And LOLD |
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:25 PM |
| That's when you know it's time to look for a new job |
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:26 PM |
throw their food at them and make fun of them :D |
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:27 PM |
Look for a new job
K that town is por they jealous of you being rich
In the other hand you can pick up some girls for ur money there |
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:28 PM |
| maybe you should ask people above the age of 7 |
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:28 PM |
hey man. i have no idea why you're trying to get this kind of advice from some random kids on the internet, if i were you i'd either talk to someone irl or go to a site that isn't full of little spoiled kids.
btw i'm not trying to be rude in anyway. |
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:29 PM |
The thing is, my dad owns a business (he has no hours available) And I worked for his store for 4 years at Dunkin donuts so it's what I know. I do not feel comfortable with other stuff. It's what I know |
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:29 PM |
| Not everyone is a kid on this site |
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:31 PM |
Just burn it to the ground. Take some gasoline and throw it on the ground.
Drop some oil down there and make sure you get some on a worker |
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:31 PM |
1. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you saying that. Letting it slide is the best response; if you change what you're saying then they'll just pick at something else until you change it. If you're reasonably firm on your position, but don't respond to their antagonism, they'll eventually drop it.
2. Forget about it, just don't be so casual with her. Girls tend to "mark" people pretty fast. Just be careful to only have appropriate interaction with her. Be nice enough to her and she may even warm up to you (in a good way).
3. Doesn't matter. Keep working hard. That will set you apart from the rest of them regarding promotions/tenure/etc. Be a hard worker and just ignore the flak you get for it. You'll do better working hard than slowing your work rate to try to please crummy co-workers.
4. You can report that to his supervisor. |
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:38 PM |
1. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you saying that. Letting it slide is the best response; if you change what you're saying then they'll just pick at something else until you change it. If you're reasonably firm on your position, but don't respond to their antagonism, they'll eventually drop it.
2. Forget about it, just don't be so casual with her. Girls tend to "mark" people pretty fast. Just be careful to only have appropriate interaction with her. Be nice enough to her and she may even warm up to you (in a good way).
3. Doesn't matter. Keep working hard. That will set you apart from the rest of them regarding promotions/tenure/etc. Be a hard worker and just ignore the flak you get for it. You'll do better working hard than slowing your work rate to try to please crummy co-workers.
4. You can report that to his supervisor.
1. You are 100% right, there is nothing wrong with it. They just find stuff. They keep trying to find stuff so I don't know what to do. I have a stress issue so them judging me creates an environment where I act socially awkward and make mistakes. When I help out at my dad's store Ik a totally different person. The ppl at my job are effecting my work performance. That's the issue. I've had bullying problems in the past and it scarred me pretty bad so anything anyone says in real life drills into my head 10x
2. Most are girls, one girl was talking about how she got in a fight and won the whole day with the other girls.
3. True
4. They would all gang up on me |
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| 24 Jun 2014 08:46 PM |
1. Then is there any way you could move to your dad's store instead of the one you're currently at? At any rate, I don't mean this to sound offensive, but sometimes you just need to buck up and decide that you're not going to let something bother you. Obviously, none of the people harassing you are people even WORTH impressing. They probably don't have a good work ethic, and I doubt they'd be any good influence on you. So consider yourself as separate from them - don't even associate with them outside of the work place if you can help it, and don't associate yourself with them mentally.
2. Not fully sure I understood that - but if they are mostly girls, they may actually be looking for attention. Chances are not all of them dislike you. There's a ringleader - so try to avoid her as much as you can and see if you can befriend some of the others. Go out of your way to be nice to them. People's hearts aren't cold forever. They can be won.
3. k we solved that one
4. Report it anonymously or ask your supervisor to keep it anonymous and deal with it in a general way. Even if they DO gang up on you, then simply report that too. Some of them may get fired and new people brought it. That may be required to solve it. But you do need to take action. You're letting yourself get bullied and then withering under the threat of more bullying if you tell. That's psychological abuse and is NOT THE CASE. Report it and you will get help. |
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| 24 Jun 2014 09:02 PM |
1. Then is there any way you could move to your dad's store instead of the one you're currently at? At any rate, I don't mean this to sound offensive, but sometimes you just need to buck up and decide that you're not going to let something bother you. Obviously, none of the people harassing you are people even WORTH impressing. They probably don't have a good work ethic, and I doubt they'd be any good influence on you. So consider yourself as separate from them - don't even associate with them outside of the work place if you can help it, and don't associate yourself with them mentally.
2. Not fully sure I understood that - but if they are mostly girls, they may actually be looking for attention. Chances are not all of them dislike you. There's a ringleader - so try to avoid her as much as you can and see if you can befriend some of the others. Go out of your way to be nice to them. People's hearts aren't cold forever. They can be won.
3. k we solved that one
4. Report it anonymously or ask your supervisor to keep it anonymous and deal with it in a general way. Even if they DO gang up on you, then simply report that too. Some of them may get fired and new people brought it. That may be required to solve it. But you do need to take action. You're letting yourself get bullied and then withering under the threat of more bullying if you tell. That's psychological abuse and is NOT THE CASE. Report it and you will get help.
1. I already dissociate myself from them, they are not worth my time. But they still make Smirks in front of me and make comments and say things like that girl does. I'm VERY sensitive and I can't help but dawn on it because of my past. It's psychologically drilled in me. You don't have to believe me but I might have a psychic background. Ever since I was little, feelings of others would appear to me without looking at them. It's either that or I'm insanely intuitive... So every emotion they have, it rubs on me... When they are talking about me.. I know. So it stings me everytime I'm around these people. I know how my boss feels about me. There re a couple people who give off a feeling of sorrow for me at work such as candauce.He has no available hours.
2. A girl who left thought I was hot and Te girl Who was rude to me (I think does). I think they all liked or like me and I didn't know how to react and I didn't give much attention to them so it hurt there ego. They are all Latino, Portugal (I'm white) so maybe you can understand the culture. There is a ring leader. It's the girl who got in a fight, she is failing in grades. They are all very dumb. |
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| 24 Jun 2014 09:03 PM |
| 3. How would I report it without getting fired? Workers like managers. There is a guy who owns the stores... Etc. |
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| 24 Jun 2014 09:15 PM |
You know what, As long as you work hard who gives a damn what people say!? Its the truth and if your boss if hes lower then you tell him to stop. its all simple your just taking it like its not Obviuosly the ppl u work with ar boothuls |
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| 24 Jun 2014 09:17 PM |
| Well I care because the stress (I have a stress issue) makes me make mistakes and I do not know how to control it. I have anxiety issues because of bullying in my past. I got scarred throughout my life |
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| 24 Jun 2014 09:19 PM |
Classic ill be honest ur a good guy but u cant let people start pushing you around if the stress is to much just go up to them say Hey, knock the sht off or Ill report you to the manager for harrassment and if it continues Sue. mk |
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