syfyguy65
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| 30 Apr 2014 05:53 PM |
So, don't really have a specific reason why, but it's a mix of being picked on, and disliked by a lot of people, and friends of mine have a set distance from me. All because I was weird as hell in elementary school, and everyone thinks I'm an evil, g@y, satanic sociopath. And I go to a pretty open minded school, so that's something for me.
I need to talk to someone OT, but I can't w/o getting looked at oddly, or never get to finish what I want w/o getting interrupted irl. Can anyone teach me how to get a better social statues that makes people forget what I used to act like 5 years ago?
Pic irl of me if you want it to give me pointers on what to do. Just no short hair. /q6NOrJ0.jpg
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Dwarlon
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| 30 Apr 2014 05:57 PM |
| Find someone with no friends and make friends with them |
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syfyguy65
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| 30 Apr 2014 05:58 PM |
I do. They still have certain reasons to dislike me. Only way I can really change is a district, even though my current one is the best within 20 miles.
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| 30 Apr 2014 05:58 PM |
| SO AM I HAHAHAHAHAHAHASOKLDJSPLKDJKD;ASSL;KNSDA,.FD |
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| 30 Apr 2014 05:59 PM |
Tell the bullies to die in a pit and their lives are pitiful.
I get bullied, I just make flawless comebacks and they shut up.
Oh yeah, and just ignore them. They'll learn.
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syfyguy65
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:02 PM |
I'm bad at coming up with comebacks on the spot. Also, since I've been called satanists, g@y, etc, I acted like it because it stopped people, but I am going to a counseler to see if I have aspergers (probably do), and never stopped when they did. I am trying to change my personality, but once you have a reputation such as I do, it's hard to become a normal person in school. In fact, only reason why people pay attention to me, and consider me a friend is because they think I'm really smart, even though I'm average, and watch youtube videos by scott manley.
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:02 PM |
I've made many mistakes in the past, my friend, and rebuilding bridges can be incredibly difficult. I suppose the best thing to do is just be completely open and honest with people--tell them that you have made mistakes and that you're trying to be a better person. Apologize to them, and ask them for their support in building a better life.
It sometimes seems that everything just adds up against you, but I can assure that things will get better! There have been times in my own life when I've just felt like giving up, but I kept going. Eventually, things came (and will come) out right.
Best of luck, my friend. I know that everything will turn out just fine! May your future be blessed with love, happiness, and understanding!
*Tell me about the rabbits, George* --Let the Sun Shine-- |
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:04 PM |
I'm like you, but it's not as bad.
If you're bad at comebacks, just ignore them. Because they're the g@y satanists that are insecure about themselves so they like making fun of other people to make them feel good.
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:04 PM |
Well, I hope things get better for you soon.
And I'm always here as someone to talk to. |
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:06 PM |
| Don't ignore them it makes you look like a dweeb |
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XTGNecro
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:07 PM |
| Be quiet, don't do what the "kool kids" do, and don't try to act cool. That's what I do, and I can pull through school life without anyone laughing at me. Although I'm sure people think I'm ugly. |
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syfyguy65
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:07 PM |
I'm not considering anything I'll have to call a hotline for, I'm likely gonna get into physics, something I wanted to do since I played KSP, so I'm probably going to have a great life in 8 years working at JPL or some place fun. But still, wouldn't mind being accepted in the group of my peers, since I'm probably distanced far from the center.
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:08 PM |
First of all, there is nothing wrong with being g@y. (I know you're not, but just saying)
Second of all, you should really talk to somebody about this like your school guidance consoler or your Mom or your Dad. SOmebody you know that can help you and can be trusted. |
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Cpbald
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:08 PM |
@bloxa
If you ignore them they'll usually get the hint they just need to shut up.
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:09 PM |
| Your IRL pic, Go for the person in the pink top in the background. |
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XTGNecro
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:09 PM |
| Also, make friends that have a lot in common wih you. |
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zbaddude2
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:09 PM |
| They don't call it aspergers its all just part of the autistic spectrum now( I have high functioning autism). |
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syfyguy65
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:11 PM |
My school doesn't really have "kool kids" just some people who play sports and thinks that they are all that, but will probably only get as far as community college, if that. But people who I stick with are those who call themselves PC gamers, but watch pewdiepie, and other people with the same level of attention needed to watch their videos, but there closests I have to call my friends.
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:12 PM |
Well, you always know OT is there for you sometimes, because they flame your thread |
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XTGNecro
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:13 PM |
| Do these friends have any "accounts" of some sorts on the internet? Steam could be useful, If you play it. |
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syfyguy65
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:13 PM |
>Your IRL pic, Go for the person in the pink top in the background. No. I'm not trying to date anyone, just trying to be considered normal, or average in my school, if not to be respected by others. Anyways, already have people I'm interested in.
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syfyguy65
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:15 PM |
XTG, yes, a few do. About 3-4. Those people play ArmA with me, and I enjoy their company, one sits with me on the bus. Just that he's dating a crazy asian girl who threw my phone and cracked my screen, and I think she has to leave the school once a month for similar reasons I do, just for a different issue.
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Scootrbro
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| 30 Apr 2014 06:18 PM |
you go to a kids forum and asked for help instead of going to your parents
dumb logic there |
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