reddanger
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| 21 Apr 2014 01:52 AM |
i read books, listen to music, watch tv shows, watch movies, play games, write stories, and have fantasies of everything including the most sadistic stuff on the planet
well all of the above, is what makes me feel like i'm in a different life, which i like, because one day i may be like "oh i want to feel like i'm in a magic world" which leads to me going and watching/reading/listening to something that makes me feel that
i do this far too often, which apparently makes it where i'm in another life and not the one i'm in now, like i won't embrace this life, instead i want to go live in another one because it feels more exciting
i'm pretty anti-social, i always think i'm being judged in public due to how crazy i am, also i don't have many friends, since most of them left and i was like "whatever", meanwhile the only people i can talk to like a normal person is my parents along with a few relatives i rarely see
tbh i think i have a problem
considering this thought comes to mind of "oh you'll change when you're an adult", yet that to me just says you're going to wait through your entire childhood waiting for something to change
i'd kind of like some suggestions of how to become a bit more balanced in being social and in my own world, cause i feel pretty strained to change
tl;dr (because no one is going to read everything above, now if you do say so since you have accomplished reading all of this): i "travel" to another life too often leading to not being social/not doing activities/eating really unhealthy/extremely self conscious in public/not changing personal looks. suggestions for how to fix this? please? ;-;?
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reddanger
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reddanger
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| 21 Apr 2014 02:08 AM |
OP, while I am normally the relatively serious and helpful type...
that was even a tl;dr for me
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reddanger
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Mantisoid
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| 21 Apr 2014 02:09 AM |
tl;dr
Parental guidance is advised |
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| 21 Apr 2014 02:10 AM |
| Well my good sir. Try to be more out there. As in like be more social to new people. Just go up and say " Hi. I'm so and so and it's nice to meet you."An just remember theirs nothing wrong with being a little shy. Be you and stay the way you are, cause it's better to be yourself then something your not. |
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| 21 Apr 2014 02:10 AM |
its called escapism im pretty much the same way |
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reddanger
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| 21 Apr 2014 02:12 AM |
@WWF
i'm so self conscious i feel like i'm going to be judged, which makes me not want to talk to people
i probably need more self assurance to solve that |
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reddanger
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reddanger
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reddanger
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| 22 Apr 2014 10:37 AM |
I read the first sentence if that makes you happy.
ᴏʜ ᴄᴏʀɴᴇʟɪᴜs, ʏᴏᴜʀ ʟɪᴇs ᴅᴏ ɴᴏᴛ ғᴏᴏʟ ᴍᴇ. |
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