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| 09 Jan 2014 08:12 PM |
My friend has just told me something I never thought I'd hear. She's normally happy and jokey and confident but she told me today she wants to get rid of herself on this planet (not in those words exactly obviously) I'm crying. I'm legit crying. She's the only person that kept my alive through my struggles. Well okay, not the only, but the main. THIS IS WHY I HATE EVERYTHING |
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| 09 Jan 2014 08:13 PM |
:(
Why does she want to...you know...? |
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JPFan
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| 09 Jan 2014 08:15 PM |
| first thing you need to do is let her know she is not alone. |
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Ouendan
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| 09 Jan 2014 08:17 PM |
>having real friends this is why you wait until you're above 18 |
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| 09 Jan 2014 08:19 PM |
Tell her she isn't alone
Everytime I get like that ( about twice a week ) later I remember how I'm not alone
just be nice to her and idk
i don't ever know anyone irl like that because well guys don't usually talk to eachlther like that but I can tell one of friends has suciidical thoughts before
I'm good at hiding mine where my depressed self is probably normal now
Like if I'm actually happy I'm probably weird now |
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| 09 Jan 2014 08:20 PM |
I know how you feel, OP. My friend was like that too, she was always telling me how happy she was about dying. If you try calling her up or trying to help change her mind, be careful, she must be very fragile right now. It was risky for me to try and change my friend, it took me 2 years. 1 year, i said something wrong, and i almost lost her. But she is happy and stuff now.
Anyway, its not too late to help, just be careful what you say when you do. If you cant help her, let an adult know the situation RIGHT away, you cant leave her hanging. :/ |
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| 09 Jan 2014 08:21 PM |
you are going through the 6th grade emo phase
it will fade over, don't worry :D
also if you're not in 6th grade your friend is dramatic, and STEWPID.
i made this alt so i can voice my opinion
being emo is a trend
and it should stop
~>%^ I could conquer the world, If I could conquer my self. ^%<~ |
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| 09 Jan 2014 08:23 PM |
@TheMost right no one has actual problems anymore
@OP tell her that she's not alone and she can get through this tell her that you're always there for her
♫ Have you heard the news that you're dead? / No one ever had much nice to say / I think they never liked you anyway ♫ |
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Pexur
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| 09 Jan 2014 08:23 PM |
No offence but that's really stupid
You can go to hell man |
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| 09 Jan 2014 08:24 PM |
I know how you feel too.
One of my friends is like that. Just always remember to be careful what you say and try to continue being great friends with them.
I ᴍᴀʏ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴜɴᴘᴏᴘᴜʟᴀʀ ᴏᴘɪɴɪᴏɴs, ʙᴜᴛ ɴᴏᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴡɪʟʟ ᴄʜᴀɴɢᴇ ᴛʜᴇᴍ |
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| 09 Jan 2014 08:24 PM |
um ok
~ I'm still a ghost noob |
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skybo
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| 09 Jan 2014 09:52 PM |
| If you have no reason to live, then you have no reason to die |
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| 10 Jan 2014 07:48 AM |
'you can go to hell man' I don't believe in that stuff. But her mother has spoken to her and I'm gonna take her to cinema soon c: We're both born in 97 i'll let you guess our age. She's been there for me since I was 12 of which my life plummeted downhill until I was 15 so it's good for me now, but now I'm good she's not. Sad feels. But I think she's alright now, she's a fighter, I mean she will hit someone if they annoy her instantly and I'm like a back off, she'd win me in a fight tbf haha so I'm sure she'll be fine now :3 |
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