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| 07 Aug 2013 04:52 PM |
I put "tags" so people looking at my thread would know that this is serious and I will be typing A LOT. Note that this is very serious and since school is starting soon... I need help.
So this problem started when I switched schools after third grade. I went to a new school for the rest of Elementary (4th and 5th grade). This school was very highly rated and was amazing. For announcements, they had a live broadcast on the T.V.'s (yes, t.v.'s were in every classroom.) It would have the principal and a random student. Everyday there would be someone different. The people managing the microphone and camera were also students. Again, very nice school. But enough of that, when I went to the school I became friends with very few people. That's normal for me. But I found a really cool dude named Figure1 (not using real names). Figure1 had lots of friends, which didn't matter to me. Travel to the middle of the fourth grade year and he showed me to Figure2. He seemed shy as well and didn't have many friends. He seemed perfect. But since we had different teachers we couldn't talk at all. I forgot all about him and he then showed up to the end of the fifth grade. We had a party to end our "Elementary lives." The P.E. and cafeteria rooms were the same room but separated "from a moving wall." They moved the wall and we had this huge space to party at. It was tons of fun. There was food, a DJ and most of the parents. I saw Figure2 sitting at a bench. We talked and it turned out he had Minecraft! He told me how he was playing on a certain server. He gave me his e-mail and I told him to make a Skype account. He had made one and we played on the server. I didn't like it very much so we went on to play other games. We played Terraria, CS:S, TF2 and tons of other Steam games. But while this was happening, I had a friend I knew since the second grade. His name was Figure3 and I found him on a game named... ROBLOX! We were friends for so long and only knew each other online wise. Before I met Figure2, Figure3 and I used "Windows Live Messenger". It was awesome. Figure3 showed me his real life friends, they made "WLM" accounts and we all had fun times. One day I thought it would be a good idea to mix my Figure3 and Figure2 friendships. It would be a great idea right? Well instead of making this 2x longer, Figure2 took Figure3 away from me. Figure3 now hates my guts due to the lies spilled by Figure2. I still talked to Figure2 and we were friends on and off again for years. Figure2 was so bad, in my face he would talk about how much fun he was having with Figure3. One day in sixth grade, I found a friend he also knew and thought I would take him away. This friend I just found and I were playing Terraria, when Figure2 bursted into Steam and called me names. VERY VULGAR NAMES just because I was playing with one of his friends. Jee, that was fun. (and I mean YEARS of on and off, around 7 - 10 times of us being friends and not friends.) Now this story is in SEVENTH grade, where I meet Figure4! He knew my other friends and I met his other...other friends. Life was great (at this point I was friends with Figure2). I had many friends and we all had fun. Figure4 seemed like a cool guy. He was a bit full of himself I always found. He was a big guy, always thinking he was the strongest and the fastest. He was around 150 - 200 pounds so we are talking big. Because he played A SPORT, he thought he was the most masculine. He would always go on about his relationship with a girl he liked. "Yeah, got a kiss today from her," was something he liked to talk about frequently. It didn't bother me. One day Figure4 came over and I talked to him about the nasty things Figure2 did to me. He told me about what Figure2 said about me, which was lovely to hear. Figure4, while he was over was given many free things from my father. A monitor, keyboard, headset and mouse. At the time I didn't care. Figure4, again while he was over wanted to make a YouTube channel with me. I thought it was a good idea. We named it and he left. While he was back at his house with his awesome NEW gear he decided to use our channel to make fun of people on YouTube. Dissing people who didn't like his music... things like that. I told him how a "professional" company doesn't dis random people. Puts off a bad image. He was annoying me at this point. I told him that if he doesn't stop, I WOULD kick him from the channel. He was furious, annoying me even more. I gave him time to stop and he started calling me a dictator... that I was King Jong-Un... and I had it. I kicked him from the team and he later messaged me on Steam about how he wanted the Skype profile back. (we had made a YouTube channel and two Skype accounts.) I took the account because he was USING IT to make fun of me. So here I am now, barely a week and a half until school and literally all my friends are no longer speaking to me. I have 0 friends and will have no one to sit with at lunch. What would you guys recommend me to do? Currently I have an idea of talking to my counselor about this all and getting her opinion. But what about you guys?
TL;DR: Can't sum it up that easy so if you can't read it then... oh well. |
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| 07 Aug 2013 04:53 PM |
>posting a supposedly serious problem on ot
never forget the lost souls of 7/11 |
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| 07 Aug 2013 04:57 PM |
(paragraphs now)
So this problem started when I switched schools after third grade. I went to a new school for the rest of Elementary (4th and 5th grade). This school was very highly rated and was amazing. For announcements, they had a live broadcast on the T.V.'s (yes, t.v.'s were in every classroom.) It would have the principal and a random student. Everyday there would be someone different. The people managing the microphone and camera were also students. Again, very nice school. But enough of that, when I went to the school I became friends with very few people. That's normal for me. But I found a really cool dude named Figure1 (not using real names). Figure1 had lots of friends, which didn't matter to me.
Travel to the middle of the fourth grade year and he showed me to Figure2. He seemed shy as well and didn't have many friends. He seemed perfect. But since we had different teachers we couldn't talk at all. I forgot all about him and he then showed up to the end of the fifth grade.
We had a party to end our "Elementary lives." The P.E. and cafeteria rooms were the same room but separated "from a moving wall." They moved the wall and we had this huge space to party at. It was tons of fun. There was food, a DJ and most of the parents. I saw Figure2 sitting at a bench. We talked and it turned out he had Minecraft!
He told me how he was playing on a certain server. He gave me his e-mail and I told him to make a Skype account. He had made one and we played on the server. I didn't like it very much so we went on to play other games. We played Terraria, CS:S, TF2 and tons of other Steam games. But while this was happening, I had a friend I knew since the second grade.
His name was Figure3 and I found him on a game named... ROBLOX! We were friends for so long and only knew each other online wise. Before I met Figure2, Figure3 and I used "Windows Live Messenger". It was awesome. Figure3 showed me his real life friends, they made "WLM" accounts and we all had fun times. One day I thought it would be a good idea to mix my Figure3 and Figure2 friendships.
It would be a great idea right? Well instead of making this 2x longer, Figure2 took Figure3 away from me. Figure3 now hates my guts due to the lies spilled by Figure2. I still talked to Figure2 and we were friends on and off again for years. Figure2 was so bad, in my face he would talk about how much fun he was having with Figure3.
One day in sixth grade, I found a friend he also knew and thought I would take him away. This friend I just found and I were playing Terraria, when Figure2 bursted into Steam and called me names. VERY VULGAR NAMES just because I was playing with one of his friends. Jee, that was fun. (and I mean YEARS of on and off, around 7 - 10 times of us being friends and not friends.)
Now this story is in SEVENTH grade, where I meet Figure4! He knew my other friends and I met his other...other friends. Life was great (at this point I was friends with Figure2). I had many friends and we all had fun. Figure4 seemed like a cool guy. He was a bit full of himself I always found. He was a big guy, always thinking he was the strongest and the fastest. He was around 150 - 200 pounds so we are talking big. Because he played A SPORT, he thought he was the most masculine. He would always go on about his relationship with a girl he liked. "Yeah, got a kiss today from her," was something he liked to talk about frequently. It didn't bother me.
One day Figure4 came over and I talked to him about the nasty things Figure2 did to me. He told me about what Figure2 said about me, which was lovely to hear. Figure4, while he was over was given many free things from my father. A monitor, keyboard, headset and mouse. At the time I didn't care. Figure4, again while he was over wanted to make a YouTube channel with me. I thought it was a good idea. We named it and he left. While he was back at his house with his awesome NEW gear he decided to use our channel to make fun of people on YouTube.
Dissing people who didn't like his music... things like that. I told him how a "professional" company doesn't dis random people. Puts off a bad image. He was annoying me at this point. I told him that if he doesn't stop, I WOULD kick him from the channel. He was furious, annoying me even more. I gave him time to stop and he started calling me a dictator... that I was King Jong-Un... and I had it.
I kicked him from the team and he later messaged me on Steam about how he wanted the Skype profile back. (we had made a YouTube channel and two Skype accounts.) I took the account because he was USING IT to make fun of me. So here I am now, barely a week and a half until school and literally all my friends are no longer speaking to me.
I have 0 friends and will have no one to sit with at lunch. What would you guys recommend me to do? Currently I have an idea of talking to my counselor about this all and getting her opinion. But what about you guys? |
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| 07 Aug 2013 04:57 PM |
Don't make friends
And if you have to, make friends and leave it at that. Friends. Not partners. Nothing.
Only friends. |
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| 07 Aug 2013 04:57 PM |
just give a 2 sentence sum-up pls
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| 07 Aug 2013 04:59 PM |
I'll try to make it two sentences:
I had a friend who sabotaged me, we went back and forth from being friends due to him lying and making fun of me. Found another friend who gave me OTHER friends, who then turned out the friend was a jerk, stopped talking to him and now have 0 friends. |
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| 07 Aug 2013 05:01 PM |
I know this sounds really dumb but... my main concern is wear to sit at Lunch. ._.
I don't have problems sitting alone but finding that spot is hard. I might draw a map of my lunch area and post on IMGUR. |
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| 07 Aug 2013 05:01 PM |
| hold on imma read the whole thing, cause now that i read the sum-up, u feel srry for u |
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| 07 Aug 2013 05:03 PM |
Like I said.
Make friends and leave it at that. No partners. No skype profiles or whatever.
JUST friends to talk to. |
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| 07 Aug 2013 05:06 PM |
| What do you guys think I should do? I will definitely take your advice dribson, but any more guys? |
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| 07 Aug 2013 05:07 PM |
MY EYES! SO MUCH TEXT MY BRAIN CANNOT ABSORB!
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| 07 Aug 2013 05:08 PM |
| Try to find a student new to the school, as in he moved or something, and then offer him your friendship. He's new, and he'll probably want to be your friend because he doesn't have any either. Or just try to become friends with someone who sits near you. |
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| 07 Aug 2013 05:08 PM |
just pay a group of mercs to beat him up in a dark alley way and then your done
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| 07 Aug 2013 05:12 PM |
| There is a kid in my school named... Figure5 who joined our school near the middle of sixth grade. He plays games like me. Except we got on the wrong foot due to the friends I hung around. They made fun of him and disliked his videos on YouTube. When school starts, gon' talk to him. |
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| 07 Aug 2013 05:23 PM |
| Abandon them and make new friends |
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| 07 Aug 2013 05:28 PM |
tl;dr EDIT:I just read it all You sound like youre fun at parties |
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| 07 Aug 2013 05:42 PM |
@SupportChaz
What do you mean? |
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